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curvywench

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New client to be dithering
« on: 25 November 2013, 12:03:09 am »
He rang today, first timer with tons of questions, asked me if I was Irish, yes that's what it says on the profile, wanted half hr tomorrow, fine with me, gave him my spiel, shower, exact cash, no bb sex, yada yada

He then says well what if I don't like you, I said you would make sure you do before you get to my home and you have my home address,as I would NOT be happy with him and would be charging him for wasting my time at that point.

Then he rings me back a few hrs later with another question, so I told him I was gonna cancel his booking as he seemed unsure and I don't want him under pressure, my feeling is pigs will be flying thru the sky before he shows up tomorrow lol

Cw
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KimberlyC

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Re: New client to be dithering
« Reply #1 on: 25 November 2013, 05:11:11 am »
You did right.

Screen ruthlessly and never second guess yourself on that. You may miss out on a handful of bookings, but most of them will be time wasters or pains in the arse, anyway. If you save your energy for the good ones, everything will be so much more enjoyable.

Give out address in dribs and drabs. Don't give actual house number until they are calling you from the corner or whatever.


curvywench

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Re: New client to be dithering
« Reply #2 on: 25 November 2013, 11:00:34 am »
Oh they never get my address until they are 5minutrs away and able to tell me which shop they are parked outside in my wee village lol...They know the general area yes,but since i use an alias for work they wont find me unless they show up.But yes I do rely on my gut instinct and have cancelled some well before their appointment time for nothing more than a  niggly feeling but as you said if it doesn't feel right then its not.
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Re: New client to be dithering
« Reply #3 on: 25 November 2013, 11:20:17 am »
I understand that new clients may be feeling really nervous about seeing a girl for the first time but I have a detailed enough profile for them to read which would have most if not all questions covered on it, I really don't mind people asking me normal questions that I may have not covered on my profile but I am not interested in someone who gives me a bad vibe weather they are an experienced punter or not.

This guy would have given me a bad vibe the second he said what if I don't like you? I'd have cancelled and blocked him there and then.

Of course your never gonna be able to please everyone and if someone didn't like me I'd very much rather they walked than stay with me but that's a situation I'd have to deal with there and then. I'd feel uncomfortable and much more anxious opening the door to a guy who had pre warned me that he might not like me lol so being overly anxious is not a feeling I enjoy and nor is it a good feeling to have when greeting a new client so I would def have cancelled there and then.

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curvywench

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Re: New client to be dithering
« Reply #4 on: 26 November 2013, 09:39:15 am »
Needless to say he never called yesterday,but called at 9.15 this morning outside of my working times,wanting to make a booking for next week!!!!
I told him to ring me next week,then he wants anal,no,and a half hr booking to boot lol!

Pmsl then he asked can he bring his own towel,so at that point I left him have it all guns blazing oops!

I said so u don't trust me to supply clean towels but u want to fuck me? No,I don't think so,I am declining your booking and any further ones for ever.

odd ball!! He was only ever gonna be hassle
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Re: New client to be dithering
« Reply #5 on: 26 November 2013, 11:14:55 am »
I am just surprised you let it get that far lol, an oddball indeed x