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zara34

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new to escorting
« on: 10 March 2012, 01:49:17 am »
Hi, I am new to escorting. I have been considering it for some time. I have been coming on and off on this site to get a feel for the issues surrounding escorting. I have decided to make a start via the agency route and have been considering ringing up [name redacted]. Needless to say I am extremely nervous. Want to keep this hidden from friends and family. It may sound silly but I worry about things like if I register with the tax man, use my credit card etc then I might get found out.  I am married. Please don't judge me as only I know my reasons for this decision. Anyways, I will appreciate any advice regarding the agency, issues around anonymity etc. xx


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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #1 on: 10 March 2012, 02:15:59 am »
Hi hunni

I really don't think anyone here will judge you! You (like everyone else) have your own reasons for entering this industry and this forum seems to be for support, not judgement.

I'm in a similar area to you and looked up the agency you mentioned.  I have a strange feeling (call it women's intuition lol) that the woman who runs it is going to be closely associated with the woman who runs the agency I almost started work for.  Best advice is go in with your eyes open - and know exactly what you will and won't accept before you go for interview.  If you want to send me a private message, please feel free.

Good luck,

Mimi xx

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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #2 on: 10 March 2012, 09:40:01 am »
Mimi u hv been so kind with ur advice. Really apreciate it mate.
Hey guys anyone else hav any advice re [name removed]? Really want to make sure that I hv a reasonably good experience wen i start. Are there any other recomendations in manchester? Please pm me. I would b ever do grateful.
Cant really talk to anyone else in my life about this.
Also being of infian origin, family is very conservative.
Also havent really seen many indian escorts advertised on the main stream websites. Not sure how i will be received in the industry. Are there any indian origin escorts here who could perhaps share theor experiences wid me?


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« Reply #3 on: 10 March 2012, 10:21:00 am »
There are quite a few Indian escorts, and seem to do quite well. As always, what one man hates another will love, thankfully!

Good luck finding an agency.

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« Reply #4 on: 10 March 2012, 11:29:41 am »
Thnanx for that Cat. Thats reassuring.  :)

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« Reply #5 on: 10 March 2012, 12:37:06 pm »
Zara, I am up in Scotland, and have to admit the number of Indian escorts up here is beyond counting, so do not think that you are a lone worker.  Really, like said above, colour, religion etc does not matter here, what does matter than we are here for each other and to support one another in whichever way we have experience in.

Hope you find a suitable agency.  In the meantime, have a look through Adultwork and try and set yourself up as an indi, then you will be in control of your own monies and won't have to do any work you find you don't feel you dont want to.

Good Luck. xx
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« Reply #6 on: 10 March 2012, 01:30:49 pm »
I would say defiantely work independently you have the control then and the only person involved is you and you only which means much more discretion.  I have seen many sites for Indian Origin women around on AW and private web sites also.  Everyone likes something different thank goodness and to me there is no streotype as it is so diverse.  Imagine if there was we would all become one and the same how boring would that be?

Good luck

zara34

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« Reply #7 on: 10 March 2012, 06:20:30 pm »
Wow,, u guys r so generous wid ur time n advice.
The thng is, I dnt thnk I m independent enuf in myself to go independent as yet. But I can c thats the way to go in da future. I will hav to start to put thngs in place. So I thought start off wid an agency.

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« Reply #8 on: 10 March 2012, 08:30:52 pm »
I never liked the idea of putting someone else in charge of my safety,especially when that persons job is to make money off me. I would much rather rely on myself. You would need to be carefull in choosing and agency and make sure they have a decent reputation.

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« Reply #9 on: 10 March 2012, 08:36:46 pm »
Yes, I can see your point. I just don't hav da know how rite now to go on my own. I need to learn da ropes in soooomany ways. If anyone has any tecomendations for an agency in manchester,, it will b much appreciated. Pm me plzz xx

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« Reply #10 on: 10 March 2012, 10:08:12 pm »
Hmmmm,, until last nite I had never even heard of AW loll. Well thnx to the advice here so far, I hav just registered on AW. Profiles a bit sketchy for now but its there. Will take me some time to figure the site outI thnk loll. I need to have a look now to see watsout there in terms of pay as u go fones etc. Also, I thnk I will need a new bank account. I thnk I heard of online banks. Will have to look into all of that.

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« Reply #11 on: 10 March 2012, 10:29:55 pm »
Zara, I'll say it before anyone else does.  Please don't use text talk on here, it is frowned upon. Don't want to have to come and give you a spanking before you get started.  ;)
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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #12 on: 10 March 2012, 11:22:51 pm »
Zara, I'll say it before anyone else does.  Please don't use text talk on here, it is frowned upon. Don't want to have to come and give you a spanking before you get started.  ;)

To be honest, it's not that it's not allowed - it's more that text talk comes across as very immature, so it's always an additional worry thinking about some young'un walking into one of this industry's many evil traps.

Also, I thnk I will need a new bank account. I thnk I heard of online banks. Will have to look into all of that.

This concerns me somewhat, too! :) As far as I know, "online banks" are just secure websites run by all the normal high-street banks so that their account holders can log in online and do their banking via the web, as opposed to dicking around in a queue in their local branch for 500 hours. I don't think there are any actual "online banks", and if anyone tells you they have an "online bank", you should probably make sure you never, ever give them any of your money to "look after". If you need a bank account, go into a normal bank branch and open one there.

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« Reply #13 on: 11 March 2012, 01:35:49 am »
I shall considered myself told  :P
Noo seriously, thankyou ever so much for even taking the time and reading wot I have to say and guving me advice. Its much appreciated  :)
And Lady Lust, you can give me s spanking any time  ;)  loll (am I allowed to say loll ?!?, only joking  :) )
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« Reply #14 on: 13 March 2012, 06:37:56 pm »
Still doing my reading around on this forum. Its so useful. Some of you hav pm me and given me valuable advice that only a WG can offer. But feel ao isolated. I know I want to do this, I need to do this, for so many reasons. Wish I had someone in life I could share my decision with, without the fear if being judged.
Then sometimes I feel, I havent got it in me. I am not clever enough, sharp enough to pull sone thing like this off. But at other times I think, this would be perfect for me.
Sighhh !!!