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amy

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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #30 on: 15 March 2012, 01:48:43 am »
Zara, they're right - whilst we really don't want the English police on here picking everybody apart (and it's time to get back on topic now, please) it's very important to communicate effectively and by not making any effort to write your posts properly you are making it far more difficult for the members here to read them. The danger of this is that they'll give up and won't bother any more.

There is a spellchecker available when you are writing your posts, but the main problem here is that I think you're rushing - nothing is so pressing that you need to substitute single letters for words or leave out all the vowels, and you'll get many more helpful responses if the members here can figure out whatever it is you're asking about.

That said, good/crap written English is no indicator of intelligence (or lack of), life skills or anything else other than crap written English. The problem is that people will assume it is (which when applied to things like advertising is definitely not what you want).
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« Reply #31 on: 15 March 2012, 08:59:50 am »
Hi Amy, you are right. It was me rushing. Also I often use my ifone which I am only just about getting used to loll. However it does seem a little bit like the English Police I have to say. If people find it difficult to understand then please accept my apologies, I will keep this in mind.
Having said this I am a little disappointed that not a single message since my last post is actusl advice regarding the questions I had asked. When I logged in I was happy to see there were some responses and I do find the advice so useful, but it seems like everyone just got so caughtup in the style of writing (and I do take all your points on board).
All I would say is that you must allow some flexibility guys as sometimes people are pushed for time and I really dont see how on a forum like yhis if I was to replace a you with a 'u', or a why with a 'y', then why should it be such an issue?
Trust me, if I was writing to a client, or an advert, or in a more professional setting, I would not be using text speak or abbreviations. But I understood this to be a more informal forum.
Anyways, I do take your points on board, and will continue to watch it. I want all oc your advice to be invaluable and really appreciate it. However, I also want to be able to express myself freely and dont want to be on my guard all the time xx

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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #32 on: 15 March 2012, 09:19:11 am »
Well prior to your previous post Zara a lot of ladies took time out to give you a lot of really helpful advice.

As to expressing yourself freely its perfectly possible to do this in the style of your last post.  I use my phone fairly often when posting and the only thing that creeps into my posts then are extra full stops  ;D

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« Reply #33 on: 15 March 2012, 09:44:02 am »
Yes they did Mellow and I have said this many times before and will say it again, all of the advice in this forum had been invaluable. I always feel so grateful when ladies take so much time out to write to me. To be honest, I can see that even with this issue, their primary concern is my potential safety.
Anyways , I hope to move on past this xx

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« Reply #34 on: 15 March 2012, 12:24:12 pm »
Hey Zara

Just a quickie (don't want to get told off!) to say I'm sorry if I came across as unsupportive - it really was just to look out for you.  Hope all is going ok x

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« Reply #35 on: 15 March 2012, 12:55:22 pm »
Loll not at all, I took it as well intentioned, and I am learning that every industry/profession hasbits own standards and that is fine xx

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« Reply #36 on: 15 March 2012, 01:03:23 pm »
Great stuff.  So how's it going on AW?  Any further contact with the guy in question? x

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« Reply #37 on: 15 March 2012, 01:30:57 pm »
Well, he usually tends to send me a message after 9 pm. I am still in conversation with him I suppose. I just dont understand how he does not have a landline? I suppose it is possible. We shall see.
I have however recieved a number of other requests since putting up a couple of ameaturish pics on AW. I am in the process of negotiating, but, and please dont laugh,,, I have this bloomin coldsore that has appeared out of no where, how can I take a booking looking like this ? Seriously ! I hope its gobe by next sunday because I am hoping to arrange it for then. Its a shame because he sounded genuine and was interested in meeting up tomorrow but I do not feel confident now in view of this ginormous cold sore lolll.
Anyways, how about you? How have you been ?

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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #38 on: 15 March 2012, 01:35:31 pm »
Cold sores !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!   Another thing that blights the life of an escort at times.  :(
Beauty is nothing to do with having a pretty face.
It is about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart,
And most importantly a beautiful soul.

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« Reply #39 on: 15 March 2012, 02:09:02 pm »
Oh no darling poor you!

I'm not a coldsore sufferer (touch wood) so can't really advise - except for the obvious really - i.e. no kissing, owo etc.  My advice would be to get some zovirax on it quicksmart! And make sure you're looking after yourself, i.e. getting enough sleep and vitamins/minerals as they can occur when you fee run down or stressed.

As for me, I'm fine thank you! Got my first booking later on today and quite excited! As long as I don't do something stupid like trip over in the hotel reception, I'm sure it'll be fine!

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« Reply #40 on: 15 March 2012, 02:12:20 pm »
Wow, I am so excited for you. I hope it goes well. All the best xx

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« Reply #41 on: 15 March 2012, 02:15:13 pm »
Thank you lovey! I shall let you know! Take good care x

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« Reply #42 on: 15 March 2012, 11:00:55 pm »
I had this idea in my head that somehow if they send me pics that wud mean they r genuine


What's to stop a guy emailing you a pic of their mate/brother/boss and passing it off as themselves?

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« Reply #43 on: 16 March 2012, 10:03:36 pm »
Yes you are right. It was a stupid idea  :- :-[
Loll xx

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Re: new to escorting
« Reply #44 on: 17 March 2012, 02:02:11 pm »
Hi Zara, how's things going?  Feel free to PM me if you want x