Heyyy Maddi,
I am in the same boat as you! I started at a brothel yesterday but had worked myself into such a high state of anxiety that I left after 2 hours. I don't mind though, it is to be expected. So tomorrow I am going in fresh, maybe with a pre-nerves-vodka and am going to give it all I have! Just watch out with girls giving advice. There are the authentic girls who want to lead you in the right direction then there are the the jealous ones who want to lead you astray as you are competition to them.
Just think of it as Tinder with a price tag.
Good luck xoxo

Hey girlies, I’ve been considering escorting for a while now and finally decided I’m ready, I’m currently in Scotland but wanting to do a London tour can anyone recommend the best areas to escort in London and also any workable apartments. I’m a bit nervous about working from an apartment alone  what advice can you’s give for safety too, Maddi x

This advice is for after corona virus has disappeared. Try and base yourself near one of the main stations in London. I’ve always done really well in Victoria/Blackfriars/Euston/London Bridge.

Hope this helps a little.

Hi and also my advice is that if you plan on outcalls you need to be very cautious. My first job was a outcall and I got the guy to send me a WhatsApp of his drivers licence that had the address on. So you can be sure its genuine and if anything happens you have his details too. Also for extra security you can ask for a picture of a bill to cross check and a deposit too. Your safety is top priority. A genuine client will be happy to provide that info. I have to be very careful because I was nieve and ended up with a stalker.

So my other advice from my own experience is to not get too friendly with a punter. Even if he seems really nice and keep the chat about your private life away from the pillow talk. Never become friends or except favours. I did work from home to start off but now I rent separate place.


Also if you state no bareback and a guy then asks, Be very cautious. I had this once and in doggy position somehow the condom cam off.

Set your standards high, I have been treated with more respect sexually from my regulars than from guys I have dated. It's all how you put yourself across when doing a profile. I keep my profile professional and I get higher quality guys. Something you learn along the way.

If you get calls from guys insistant on being your last client then that's a red flag. Normally no guy wants to be the last on in, But if a gang or guy wants to rob you then he knows you've worked all day or night and have money.


Hide your money too, Keep a 30 min booking amount incase you end up in a situation where some guys demands your earnings. You can say you only had one 30 min booking.

And very important to trust your gut, A few times I've felt very uncomfortable with a client but it's rare. Talking on the phone gives you the best indication of a person and again use your instincts.

And you will get guys who know your new to the game and will see if they can push boundaries be it a finger up your bum when you have not agreed to it or getting extra time out of you. Be clear before booking what you do and do not offer.

Remember they get your body and your best girlfriend act but not your mind and it's just a physical service. But I find the girls that do the best and have the best bookings are the ones that have good personality and manner. I find most punters want a regular and they will book you for longer because you are good company, Offer them that bit more. Most married guys want to feel sexually like they did at 18 and some excitement.


Feel free to message me with any questions or for advice. I can only go on my experience and the nieve mistakes I have made.

Hopefully after this CV virus we can continue to work. Stay safe hun x

I definitely see that point of view but personally I tried a escort agency and they only care about getting clients and did not  the welfare of the girls. Any establishment will see profits before the girls. Its still pimping, From my personal experience.

Being Independent you can set rules, And see less men too or more and Vet them agency just want to get guys in the door. I started off independent then tried a escort agency thinking it would be better lol (Check out thread already on joining a escort agency). With any establishment or agency it's about making money. As a independent you can be smart and vet....Vetting is so important . How you offer your services too. If you want to make easy money then target the guys that just want to F**K or be classy and get guys that woll appreciate a women and want more than just a f**k but also conversation and a intimate experience. Believe it or not most guys want a connection too. Some girls will offer it all and use certain terms men will instantly get hard to. From my experience I can see fewer guys but get better quality and feel good myself. I'm not into one In and one out.

Some girls think escorting is just about sex, Its not. But I would avoid parlours and agency work.

Also I hope you aren’t referring to me when you say that many escorts think the job is just about sex because I am one of the few that know this . I apologise if your not but it’s just the way I took it!

In parlours then it kind of is just about  sex, but being an escort going to hotels and homes and having longer bookings, then it’s about who you are as a person, or rather who your pretending to be, and how you make the men feel, lots of women find the talking bit and hearing the clients’ issues more difficult than the actual physical stuff but I am the opposite, I love hearing all their issues and always have, 95% of my clients have said that I’m so easy to speak too and I hear this in my real life too and I think it’s because I can get right into an issue and imagine what people are thinking when they say/do certain things, and I don’t shock easily, I have lived the opposite of a sheltered life, let’s just say it’s been a colourful life and I hate conventional and always have, always will, and I never ‘get’ hookers that think conventionally, I think being conventional almost means that you have little life experience.

Folks, I'm completely lost - the OP asked about working in London and for incall place recommendations? Were these posts meant for the 'Crap experiences with agencies' or the 'Reasons not to be an escort' threads - I realise I'm exhausted but I literally cannot make head or tail of what's happening here?