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mysticaldreamer

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Thinking Of Escorting Any Advice Ladies?
« on: 26 September 2008, 06:55:35 pm »
Hi there, I'm seriously thinking of escorting and wondered if anyone has any advice? I am a married mum of 3 with my old mans full backing. He's ok as long as he still gets his lol would really welcome and appreciate any advice or experience you may have. Many thanks Debs.
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lexienight

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Re: Thinking Of Escorting Any Advice Ladies?
« Reply #1 on: 27 September 2008, 02:27:11 am »
RESEARCH RESEARCH RESEARCH!!! make sure you look in to all options ie independent, agency, parlour.  be absoloutly sure you are comfortable with the choice you make and without a doubt know you will walk away if it feels shit once you start.  Dont get scammed by assholes who want your money up front (escortopia etc...). 

I have spent as much time as possible looking at directory sites, forums, other ladies websites, all sorts of things to try to know what my limits were and what i was prepared to do.  Im still "green" and expect to make mistakes but at least i know what im getting myself in to and im not sure everyone always does.  i certainly didnt watch belle de jour and base my expectations on that!!! lol

Cant comment on the hubby stuff because i dont have that issue to think about.

good luck.

L.x
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mysticaldreamer

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Re: Thinking Of Escorting Any Advice Ladies?
« Reply #2 on: 27 September 2008, 10:19:28 am »
Hi Lexi,
Thanks so much for your reply, I am thinking independent work would work best for my situation. I kind of already got my foot on the ladder so to speak. I have an arrangement with a guy I have known a while I met in a chat room many moons ago. His wife passed away last yr and that when he approached me. I am unable to work in a mainstream job lets say. I have a damaged nervous system or somethin Consultant still prodding about for the answer, But fortunately it doesn't stop me being able to perform in that way. Hubby hasn't complained even if I cant always feel much lol.
We have had our ups and downs over this the last few months but now I reassured him that it is something I am looking at as a job like any other.Just a bit different. He is supportive of the choice I am thinking of making. With 3 growing boys to feed and clothe and hopefully send to uni ( sooner than I would like ) I am thinking of a way of earning that I am good at (I am by the way lol) and that I dint have to work 40 hours a week at. I am doing lots of research ( which I think hubby is liking ;) as he gets to see all the beautiful ladies sites )
If you can think of anything else I would appreciate it.
Many thanks Debs x
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Re: Thinking Of Escorting Any Advice Ladies?
« Reply #3 on: 27 September 2008, 02:32:39 pm »
With regard to a relationship, my first agent told me to either tell Mr Hermione everything about the job or tell him nothing.  I have taken the "tell everything" approach and it has worked very well, with the single exception of the time my client was an adult baby!  That was more info than he wanted to know! ;D
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mysticaldreamer

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« Reply #4 on: 27 September 2008, 04:29:41 pm »
Hermione you have got me and the hubby in stitches here. That is defiantly the way things are with us we talk and share everything. I think thats the only way to be. He tells me about his delivery job and I would tell him about mine. Its nice to get feedback and replies might make the decision easier.
Thanks Debs
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