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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: chloe37 on 17 October 2013, 06:29:18 pm
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Hello Ladies
I?ve read through the forum over the last couple of days and first of all, I think it?s really great. Lot?s of advice here from lots of lovely and experienced ladies.
Like the subject already says, I am new in this business, in fact, I haven?t even started yet, just about to creating my own website and almost done. I plan to go live by end of next week. I found a lot of good advice about safety, incalls, outcalls and where it is best to advertise. I feel that I am ready to go but there is still one big question mark in my head and so far, I could not find an answer.
It is my age. From what I can see, you ladies are all quite young compared to me so I am wondering if I am not too old to start with escorting, I am 37 years. Since I?ve looked after myself, I am in good shape and health and still have all my teeth ;)
I just wanted to have some honest opinions from the experts. What do you think? Do I have a chance or are all the clients looking for the younger girls.
On my website I will tell people about my age and I hope this is not a turn off for potential clients.
I would also like to hear more about your experiences regarding the bad clients. Does it happen very often that you meet someone really dodgy or is it more of an exception?
Thank you all for your help and responses in advance
xx
Chloe
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Chloe, this subject has been discussed on a number of occasions but there is no answer re what the "right" age is.
Clients come in all shapes, sizes, ages and persuasions and so do the girls who service them. When I started prossying I was almost twice your age so you have no problem.
You might be surprised at the age of some of the posters. Many of us have a very young outlook and this may make us sound a lot younger than we really are.
So long as you are not too dishonest about your age eg say you are 25 when you are really 37, you get what I mean?
Good Luck !
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Thank you for your opinion, I am really relieved to hear that.
When I did some research and saw all these absolute stunning young girls on the websites of the escort agencies, I started to feel a bit concerned about it. They all look like super models and if that would be my main competition, it would be quite tough ;)
xx
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Chloe, don't always believe what you see, we are not all "model figures" or ages. Just find out what is a good selling point that you are good at and market that.
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Chloe,
Most often an older gent would prefer not to be with someone the same age as their daughter. They may say differently down the pub with their mates or on online forums but in practice this is often not the case.
Women in their 30s and 40s, 50s are in a position to give older guys a more convincing GFE service. More in common.
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Thank you for your opinion, I am really relieved to hear that.
When I did some research and saw all these absolute stunning young girls on the websites of the escort agencies, I started to feel a bit concerned about it. They all look like super models and if that would be my main competition, it would be quite tough ;)
xx
They look absolutely stunning after Photoshop ;D I don't think it's all that perfect in real life.
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Thank you for your opinion, I am really relieved to hear that.
When I did some research and saw all these absolute stunning young girls on the websites of the escort agencies, I started to feel a bit concerned about it. They all look like super models and if that would be my main competition, it would be quite tough ;)
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That's mainly because these agencies have certain criteria - you have to be 18-30, size 6-10, etc etc AND photoshopped to the eyeballs - they certainly aren't YOUR competition :) The men who will choose YOU will be the ones who want a 30-something year old lady who is *insert what you look like* who offers *insert what your personality brings* who does *insert what you do* :)
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Hey Chloe.
I'm new too and 41yrs a size 14/16, loads of cellulite and stretch marks , have had three kids naturally and a fair few wrinkles lol. I have no idea what the guys see in me but since I started last month I've been really busy and whats more one guy has booked me twice and one guy has booked me three times lol!!!
I advertise on AW and do a bit of webcamming. None of my photos are photoshopped and have been taken by hubby or myself.
There appears to be a pretty big market for 'normal' horny housewifey types so thats the angle i go for when escorting. The youngest client i've seen is 42 and oldest is 80 gulp and I've seen him twice, always worried he'll pop his clogs on top of me (explain that to the paramedics lol)
Webcamming seems to be a bit different and attracts younger ones looking for the milf/cougar type so I run with it.
All the very best with your new venture. I'm sure you'll be great.
Keep posting to let us know how it goes. xx
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Thank you all so much for your responses, you really made my day :)
I love this forum, you girls are so lovely and honest and I can say that my age worries are gone because of you nice ladies.
I will go live with my website and ads next week and I promise to keep you posted, especially after my first client, this is going to be quite exciting. I have to admit that I am pretty nervous but since I thought about it for a long time, I am now ready to rock ;)
Lots of hugs
xxx
Chloe
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Thank you all so much for your responses, you really made my day :)
I love this forum, you girls are so lovely and honest and I can say that my age worries are gone because of you nice ladies.
I will go live with my website and ads next week and I promise to keep you posted, especially after my first client, this is going to be quite exciting. I have to admit that I am pretty nervous but since I thought about it for a long time, I am now ready to rock ;)
Lots of hugs
xxx
Chloe
I know you said you'd read a lot of the forum Chloe, but (if you're completely new especially) don't forget to read the main SAAFE site (http://www.saafe.info/) as well - this board is really just an offshoot and there's a lot of important information on there for getting started :).
(Oh and I'm 40, 41 in January :D)
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Hi Amy
thank you, I am just about to read all the warnings about Mr Ward and a guy from London who is using lots of different usernames and targeting new girls on AW.
I will create my profile on AW next week, so lets see if I receive requests from these weirdos.
It is a shame what some of the girls had to go through with this freaks.
I will spend this night to read through all the safety advice, thank you all so much.
xx
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Hi girls
hope you all had a great weekend.
Just created my profile on AW and was quite happy until I received an email that I need so upload a face photo and ID to proof my age so they can activate my profile.
I have read through the advertising section on saafe and the advice is not to do this.
Any idea if my profile will be suspended if I don't send what they have requested? ???
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Chloe
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Hi Chloe
As far as Im aware if you don't verify your account you simply wont have one.
You may get well meaning people saying to start another but I think you will be in the same boat with any profile you open. Being of the older persuasion Ive never had that problem. :'( :D
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Hi girls
hope you all had a great weekend.
Just created my profile on AW and was quite happy until I received an email that I need so upload a face photo and ID to proof my age so they can activate my profile.
I have read through the advertising section on saafe and the advice is not to do this.
Any idea if my profile will be suspended if I don't send what they have requested? ???
xx
Chloe
Yep, as LadyLust said, if they're requiring you to verify, then it's mandatory. You won't have a profile without doing it.
You can upload ID and delete once verified, hide the face pic etc.
They only ask newbies to do this at the mo, but I'm sure we all will have to at some point soon.
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Hi Ladies
you both were right, if you are not providing ID and a verification pic the profile will be gone within 48 hours.
This seems to be a new mandatory thing since there were lots of fake profiles, so it's not too bad that they try to protect
the genuine escorts and clients.
So I did what they ask me to do and all is good now, did hide my verification pic, wasn't my best shot ;)
And the timewasters are already busy with filling my inbox. out of 6 there is maybe one genuine, let's see.
Thanks again for your help and advice.
xxx
Chloe
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Hi girls
I know it might be the wrong place to post it but I just wanted to let you know that tonight, I had my first client and I wanted to give all of you a BIG HUGE THANK YOU for your helping hand and all your advice :-*
It was an outcall to a hotel and the guy was really lovely, I had a great time :)
My next outcall will be on Thursday evening and I hope and pray that it will be similar to tonight but I feel so much more confident than three hours ago.
I know it won't be like that with all clients but I just needed to tell someone that my first experience was great and I felt secure, safe and relaxed mainly because I was well prepared, thanks to this website and all the lovely people here.
So my advice to all newbies on here, listen to these ladies and read everything what you can find on the main site.
Sleep well everyone
Big hug and xx
Chloe
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Glad to hear it Chloe, if you choose you clientele wisely (usually the perks of being independent) you can have some amazing times. Just keep your head screwed on and get yourself a trusted safe buddy to tell you where you are at all times then you should be fine!
Oh and always try and get on here as and when you can, the advice is brilliant and invaluable ;D
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*thumbsup*
Well done, onwards and upwards from here on :)
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Yay! High five ;D