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Ami

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Hi girls,

So, I was wondering, if any of you have time could you please give me some advice on what is probably a very trivial matter indeed  ;)

A new girl has started in my area with a very similar escort name to mine and I'm pretty pissed about it tbh. I'm mainly upset cos when I started out I trawled through the profiles of the girls in my area and choose my name accordingly. My escort name is made up of two names (both derived from films I like  ;D) and this newbie has chosen the same first name and a rather similar second one. We are also both redheads....

There is not really much I can do...it is a free country after all! But am I a really shallow person for being so annoyed with her?! My instincts kinda tell me that yes, I am! I know there are a trillion more important things going on at saafe at playing to be my ego should not be one of them, but I'd like to hear your thoughts if you have any anyway!!!

Love from a grumpy escort! XX


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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #1 on: 14 April 2013, 01:12:06 pm »
Hi girls,

So, I was wondering, if any of you have time could you please give me some advice on what is probably a very trivial matter indeed  ;)

A new girl has started in my area with a very similar escort name to mine and I'm pretty pissed about it tbh. I'm mainly upset cos when I started out I trawled through the profiles of the girls in my area and choose my name accordingly. My escort name is made up of two names (both derived from films I like  ;D) and this newbie has chosen the same first name and a rather similar second one. We are also both redheads....

There is not really much I can do...it is a free country after all! But am I a really shallow person for being so annoyed with her?! My instincts kinda tell me that yes, I am! I know there are a trillion more important things going on at saafe at playing to be my ego should not be one of them, but I'd like to hear your thoughts if you have any anyway!!!

Love from a grumpy escort! XX

You definately have the right to be annoyed, I know I and many others would be after all our name is our brand.

Ami

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #2 on: 14 April 2013, 01:23:33 pm »
Cheers Chrissie.

Do you think emailing her is a bit too much?

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #3 on: 14 April 2013, 01:26:59 pm »
Is her profile similar to yours as well?
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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #4 on: 14 April 2013, 01:41:54 pm »
Do you think emailing her is a bit too much?

If you do decide to email her remember to stress that the name confusion will damage BOTH of you. It's in her own best interests to have a unique name so try to make your message 'helpful' rather that accusing her of name stealing.

R xx

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #5 on: 14 April 2013, 01:46:12 pm »
aww, thanks guys, I really appreciate it.

No her profile is very sparse and her photo reveals her full face. Nothing hidden... Full on I.D!

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #6 on: 14 April 2013, 01:49:23 pm »
Guess I could take it as a compliment as well!!

I'm Amelie Cleo and she has called herself [removed]. What do you think. Too similar?
« Last Edit: 15 April 2013, 03:12:22 am by Daisy_ »

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #7 on: 14 April 2013, 01:59:02 pm »
Not close at all.  My name is Dani and when I started I chose the name as there were none in my area.  I did have a surname but found that a few new girls joined and used the same first and surname as me but just put an x next to it.  Talk about annoyed.  Now that is close but first names are hard to find that are not already in use so as long as the second name is totally different dont worry about it.

After all I was dani delight and then there were three other girls will the same name after a year or so but with xx or x or _xx.  That is what I call being alike.

I am now dani gold and now there are a few girls who have decided to change their surname to the same as mine :FF

Nothing to do about it but suck it up.  IN another few months there will be yet another girl with the same first name as you.  Its because there are only so many names suitable for an escort after all you would not see many called ethel or Paual or any other normal names although no idea why
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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #8 on: 14 April 2013, 02:05:46 pm »
Haha!Ethel! Gertrude would be fun! :)

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #9 on: 14 April 2013, 02:37:00 pm »
Ethel thats my next name, I can see the stroking Willie jokes already lol.

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #10 on: 14 April 2013, 03:43:56 pm »
I dont think you should worry too much. Cleo and [removed] are not similar. Although I would be annoyed too.
« Last Edit: 15 April 2013, 03:14:35 am by Daisy_ »

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #11 on: 14 April 2013, 05:30:54 pm »
i put the B on mine for as there are lots of escorts that work under the name of Paris so having the B just make it a bit more easy to recognise me

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« Reply #12 on: 14 April 2013, 06:33:58 pm »
I can certainly commiserate... I had a fabulous nickname "curvy crumpet" but about a year later I started getting emails from clients telling me that there were 3 other CC around too now all of a sudden.  When I had a look at their profiles they had set theirs months after mine up.  Yes it pissed me off but what can we do?

I just changed my name again and have noticed a few with similarities again but hey ho, I take it as my reputation will preceed any other wannabe's.

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #13 on: 14 April 2013, 07:46:29 pm »
I have always worked under the name  Natalie     Natalie Brown   Natalie b  and Natalie 40ff since i started   even when i worked in

brothels  i had to be Natalie as even if they named me Chloe etc  i would still refer to myself as Natalie and confuse the clients lol

realistically  there are only so many names to go around . Maybe we should start using middle names as well >.<

I only started advertising on the internet in 2009  and never bothered to see if anyone was using the same name as me as i have used

mine since the late  80's 

 ( what i am trying to say is she may have been using the name just as long as you or longer but advertising in a different area /place

 working in a brothel etc  )

lots of the names i see on the internet girls used to use years ago especially  ones with innuendos  but sometimes people have the

same ideas with out copying or havent done research to see if some one is using the same one  ie id i had looked and some one was

using the same name as me  from 2006  i would feel it is still MY name as i have used it longer and why should i give it up ?

just playing devils advocate lol  xx


 

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Re: New girl started in my area with practically the same name as me.
« Reply #14 on: 14 April 2013, 07:57:10 pm »
aww, thanks guys, I really appreciate it.

No her profile is very sparse and her photo reveals her full face. Nothing hidden... Full on I.D!

I'd say this shows the actions of a pimp, and it's probably a complete coincidence. Keep her saved to your hotlist though, just in case.