Welcome. 
The clothes sound great! Make sure they are easy to get on and off though!
If you havent already, read the main Saafe site. Theres all the stuff you need from safety tips, timewasters.
As far as the date goes, Its entirely your choice, every client and situation is different.
Its a learning curve to say the least.
Make sure you get cash up front and pop it in another room. You dont have to do anything you feel uncomfortable with.
If you are sure you want to go ahead then good luck to you and remember you if its not for you, you neednt do it again.
Also if you look at the section on safety buddys, you could ask
Penny about this in a PM.
Let us know how you go on.

it can be incredibly nerve wracking and sometimes ive felt sick with nerves before they arrive. But TRUST me - its never bad and 99% of the time the men are lovely and make an effort to be nice and sociable. And the other 1% are usually just boring shy men but totally harmless.

I answer the door in a short dress thats easy to remove, and i usually just wear a nice thong and bra underneath with heels. I greet them with a hug and ask them if they found the flat ok and if they got parked ok etc (just to make a bit of chit chat to break the ice). Try and be really smiley and chatty if you can because this will put them at ease too.
i then take them to the bedroom and offer them a shower or a drink and let them hang their coat up etc. And i ask him for the money too which i put in another room.

The client will usually want you to take the lead so after a bit of chatting you should start kissing him.... and then everything else will fall into place make sure you have the condoms and lube and tissues etc close by so you dont have to get up from the bed and ruin the moment.

keep an eye on the time and when its getting close to the end you could get up and offer him a quick shower or a glass of water. Get yourself dressed etc and they will usually take the hint to get themselves dressed too.


Good luck you'll be fine. Its never as scary or awkward as you imagine it to be xx

2-Have a spare bottle of lube in that room, & pop a bit on below that way if  your good to go & he'll think it's natural, it can really help with comfort if your nervous. Also keep some condoms in that room, so when you've counted the fee you can pre-tare the wrapper & put it in your bra/hold up etc. There is nothing worse then oily hands from the massage bit, to then goon to fumble with a wrapper for the sexual bit.

Excellent points! (I'm making a mental note about the pre-opened condom thing; genius.) Just make sure you aren't using any oils for massage that aren't condom-safe unless you make a mental note to wash your hands before putting the condom on and lubing it up, etc. I'm not sure of the precise statistics or chemistry that makes condoms weaker if used with non-safe oils but I can't say I care - when it's my safety and my vag concerned, I just take EVERY precaution.

Thank you all for the replies!

I have my first booking! Its for tomorrow evening and to be honest I'm a bag of nerves yet
looking forward to it all at the same time!

This is the first time I have done anything like this before, I've never even had a one night stand let
alone sex with a stranger. I know I'll be well nervous undressing in front of someone i don't know but i
guess I'll be fine!

Well here's to tomorrow 

Best of luck or your first appointment Angie,your nervous now but in a few months time it will be no more nerve wracking than making a sandwich (gosh what an erotic comparison )

Its funny about the undressing thing as i am the reverse,i dont like getting re-dressed in front of clients or my boyfriend either. Its totally wierd,no probs whipping it all off put putting it back on makes me feel really akward.
I always have a nice silky kimino robe to slip into at the end of incalls,it saves seeing them to the door in the nuddy or having to fumble back into my dress which is now creased to hell and back from being left slumped on the floor

Quote from: Simone on 06 May 2010, 08:13:05 am

I always have a nice silky kimino robe to slip into at the end of incalls,it saves seeing them to the door in the nuddy or having to fumble back into my dress which is now creased to hell and back from being left slumped on the floor

Ooh, this is an amazing thing, too. I keep meaning to replace my fuzzy old bathrobe with something more boudoir-ey!

As long as your offering a 'high class' fuzzy bathrobe experience then it should be fine emily

Where are all the clients who have a fetish for escorts in pyjamas and fluffy slippers during bookings thats what i want to know? Ive never ever met one,i suspect they dont exist outside of my fevered imagination.

I always have a nice silky kimino robe to slip into at the end of incalls,it saves seeing them to the door in the nuddy or having to fumble back into my dress which is now creased to hell and back from being left slumped on the floor

I do the same, I also feel that getting dressed before showing the client to the door gives the impression that I am not going to have a shower after he leaves.

Where are all the clients who have a fetish for escorts in pyjamas and fluffy slippers during bookings thats what i want to know? Ive never ever met one,i suspect they dont exist outside of my fevered imagination.

Actually, I mentioned something along these lines in conversation with a client and he said that he wouldn?t mind as it is the woman underneath that matters. So being me I put him to the test and the next time he came I greeted him in my old terry toweling robe and bed socks. We had a good giggle and he got pretty frisky when he found a silky cami and French knickers underneath.

Not too sure how it would work with a new client though, hehe.