Regarding proper condom usage, definitely be sure to put them on properly without any air trapped inside. And be sure to use the correct size (have a whole range, and don't be afraid to give up on an ill-fitting condom and change it for a bigger or smaller one - better to be safe than sorry, and you'll soon be able to eyeball the size required correctly anyway ).

I did learn the hard way that proper application of lube is necessary with condoms. It's just much safer. I actually had a client the other day say, "Oh, you don't need any of that" when I popped a bit of lube on the condom but I replied that it's just for the latex (although, TBH, a bit of oral from a client does not generally cause a woman to experience gushing natural lubrication!) and he was fine about it. No decent client wants the condom to tear. I have heard of girls applying lube internally before the start of a booking, but have never quite figured out how they disguise the taste if the client wants to do RO? (Did once read a review where the client was delighted that the escort's vagina tasted of strawberries, though, so perhaps there's nothing to worry about!)

Regarding the issue of whether your client knew the condom had broken... who can say? It's quite likely that he did notice a change in his sensation, but he may honestly have been so naive re. condoms that he didn't know what had happened. A person who is not a sex worker is much less likely to have our relatively in-depth knowledge + experience of contraceptive use, although I do think a wise client ought to educate himself and not wait until something goes wrong to learn about how to use condoms as safely as possible.

But that's pretty much irrelevant to this situation. If your client definitely didn't sabotage the condom (e.g. you were the only person to handle it from start to finish), then he's probably not a bad client - just either naive, or a bit silly if he did know what had happened and still didn't say anything.

Oh - I think extended sex and multiple position changes can definitely require a reapplication of lube. It can be a bit awkward, when the porny stereotype is that all women want to be hammered at for yonks, but it's why I'm being extremely genuine and honest when a client finishes 'quickly' (e.g. not going on for ages) and I say that I much prefer to have sex more than once than to have the same sex go on for hours! The latter is much more comfortable, especially when the required use of condoms means also using enough lube to avoid breakage of the condom and/or a sore foofoo.

Also I tend not to use durex as I've heard they tend to break. My first breakage was with durex so I switched to a different brand. Second breakage my client brought some durex dotted condoms he wanted to try. So from now on durex are a no go for me!

Xx

DId you check the dates on his condoms?  Sometimes men keep them around for years and the latex degrades and will be prone to splitting.  Its one reason I always advise women to never use a clients condoms but to have a large range of different ones so he will be happy using yours.  I have different sizes, dotted, ribbed, different flavours, different makes, not latex so there is never an excuse for a client to need me to use his.
It could also be the wrong size.  I have been escorting for four years and have (touch wood) never had a condom tear or rip on me.  I actually got the nurse at the gum clinic to show me how to put them on properly (you will be amazed how many owmen put them on wrong) and also which sizes to use.  The nurses are happy to do this and spend time with you until you get is right.  It sounds silly but I was doing it wrong before I did this job but never realised. 
I felt a bit foolish asking but it really was worth it to me.  Now I can just look at a cock and know the exact size I need.
Again many people do not know what size to use hence splitting.

We are not taught it and we all have to try and figure it out ourselves so sometimes we are bound to be wrong so asking at the clinic is actually a good idea

Exactly the same happened to me the other week, regular client and I used a Mates Skyns (latex-free) one and it split when using from behind. I reckon it was a lubricant related issue, I had already been with his friend for half an hour and had stupidly forgotten my lube 

All the above posters have put what I'd say, so just get a check out at the clinic when you can. hugs.

Kirsten xx

(Did once read a review where the client was delighted that the escort's vagina tasted of strawberries, though, so perhaps there's nothing to worry about!)

I know this isn't a laughing matter but, you made me chuckle Emily.

I have had 2 breakage's in my life, once about 4 years ago with a big turkish man who pinned me down after I said we have ot stop and carried on. Luckily I was working with another girl and she came to my assistance, no cum inside me but being the first time it had happened plus the fact he got voilent with me scared the shit out of me. The girl I was with Cut open a lemon and shoved it up my pussy, she said it would kill anything he may have left behind. How dangerous that was at the time I have no idea, but I was to upset I had no idea. I was taken straight to the hospital for the morning after pill because I wasn't on any other contraceptive (I am now)

The second time it happened to me was about a month ago and this was due to the whole pulling int he condom back porn star thing spoken about by Strawberry. He put it near me and before it got "in" it tore, so up I jump clean myself up and get downt he clinic, it didn't go in but I had to make sure nothing got in. I'm of course fine, but the first time I had this happen to me was frightening.

Both times this has happened to me I have been using Durex, which I still use, but have just brought myself a box of Mates after opening up a discussion about what other ladies use. I would highly recommened using added lubricant too, its protects the condom therefore protects you.

Get yourself checked out, weather of not he knew what had happened doesn't matter now, its done.  Just concentrate on looking after you, go get tested and take it from there. 

Emily xXx

Thank you all so much for the replies, the information is invaluable.

Has anyone ever heard of putting lube on the inside of the condom too, to enhance the sensation for the client?  (I'm concerned with that in that it would help him finish faster.)  It's not necessary, and may even be difficult to do while remaining sanitary, but I was just wondering.

Thanks so much to the escorts who admit that this happened to them also -- makes me feel not so alone and like I'm going to fail at this.  Also, asking at the clinic is a great idea.

Could someone please elaborate on the pulling the condom/bouncing thing?  How and/or why is it done in porn?  I don't think I've ever seen this.  Do you just mean hard thrusting?

I'll try. Might not be from porn, I don't watch very much no need to but I assumed it might be something influenced by it!

Bloke kneeling thrusting in very quickly then coming completely out so his penis is totally out of the the body, then is shoved fully back in again, with full force of the body behind it and then quickly withdrawn out again. It's almost as if he's 'bouncing' back out off your hips. I don't know about other ladies but I find this doesn't allow the entrance to be eased open each time, and result is it causes extra friction which pulls the condom tight over the head so there's no spare loose bit(can also catch on the outer skin too).