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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #15 on: 05 March 2017, 02:47:48 am »
I have refunded clients occasionally but mostly on my term. I think I have only been asked once for a refund for unused time which I did out of goodwill. If the client is easy and I want repeat business, I would offer a refund of any unused time above my minimum of 1 hour. Most times, it's those that book for 90 minutes and are then done by 45 minutes. I would keep my hourly rate and give them the excess of the 90 min rate. Sometimes, they refuse my return so I get to keep the money and look like a nice person  ;D

I find that I very rarely have men leaving early if they have booked for 2 hours or more.

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #16 on: 05 March 2017, 08:21:13 am »
I have refunded clients occasionally but mostly on my term. I think I have only been asked once for a refund for unused time which I did out of goodwill. If the client is easy and I want repeat business, I would offer a refund of any unused time above my minimum of 1 hour. Most times, it's those that book for 90 minutes and are then done by 45 minutes. I would keep my hourly rate and give them the excess of the 90 min rate. Sometimes, they refuse my return so I get to keep the money and look like a nice person  ;D

I find that I very rarely have men leaving early if they have booked for 2 hours or more.

I too have occasionally refunded some of the fee when they've decided they are happy to leave, or they need to be somewhere and didn't allow enough time. It's never under my minimum, and to be honest it's not encouraged them to rebook. I suspect they just aren't interested. On all of these occasions bar one, all services have been on offer, and me perfectly pleasant or the full time. The other time I had been a bit uppety at the start. I'd just moved and had found redirecting everyone very wearing. Back then I didn't sight clients, once I started sighting them at a landmark from which I could point out the door, directing became a lot easier (he'd over shot the door, wouid have had a better chance first time if I'd been able to point it out rather than direct blind from around the corner).

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #17 on: 05 March 2017, 11:40:52 am »
It used to bother me when I first started if a man left early and would worry it was me somehow. I soon realised that men can change after they cum- their guilt kicks in or they feel weird or just they've got what they want so see no reason I hanging around or they genuinely have to be somewhere else and just booked an hour because they think that was the 'right' thing to do or indeed they have over estimated their sexual stamina!  I offer outcalls at an hour minimum but will do 30 and 45 mins incall so if it's an incall they had the choice to book less time so it's their fault they booked for an hour so I don't really have any sympathy.

I never give refunds, even when they have paid for say 2 hours and only last 40 minutes, but I don't think I have ever been asked on an outcall for a refund.

What I have done if someone finishes much earlier than they should and want a refund is explain that it isn't fair as I could have taken another booking for the full amount but I'd add the time onto their next booking.

However, I would say if someone is being a real arsehole or you feel scared you shouldn't feel bad about giving a refund to get them out of your place.

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« Reply #18 on: 05 March 2017, 05:08:44 pm »
It used to bother me when I first started if a man left early and would worry it was me somehow. I soon realised that men can change after they cum- their guilt kicks in or they feel weird or just they've got what they want so see no reason I hanging around or they genuinely have to be somewhere else and just booked an hour because they think that was the 'right' thing to do or indeed they have over estimated their sexual stamina!  I offer outcalls at an hour minimum but will do 30 and 45 mins incall so if it's an incall they had the choice to book less time so it's their fault they booked for an hour so I don't really have any sympathy.

Me too!!! When I did outcalls it was all about me arriving/leaving on time but now doing incalls, its about about them arriving/leaving on time. It used to bother me as well when they'd booked for a 30 min incall but (cum and) leave 10 mins later, but then I realised that once they have busted their nut they dont feel compelled to stay longer for a cuppa or a chat haha! So Ive now switched my way of thinking and pat myself on the back that I can provide a non rushed meet and still satisfy them in 1/2 the time they've booked  ;D

What I have done if someone finishes much earlier than they should and want a refund is explain that it isn't fair as I could have taken another booking for the full amount but I'd add the time onto their next booking.

I was speaking offline to another sex worker who suggested the same thing - giving them 'credit' by adding on additional time to their next booking. I could possibly consider this, depending on the situation Im faced but I wouldnt do this often because Id be having to keep tabs on the extra time Ive given clients and I just want to keep my business simple and uncomplicated. Im just glad this doesnt happen often though otherwise Id be pulling my weave out hahahah!

However, I would say if someone is being a real arsehole or you feel scared you shouldn't feel bad about giving a refund to get them out of your place.

The first time I gave a refund was with a reg. I did it out of goodwill and I told him there and then that I wouldnt be prepared to do it again. Couple of weeks later he had the audacity to ask me again (booked 1 hour, came in 30 min and asked to leave early and wanted a partial refund). I refused and reminded him that last time I told him I wouldnt be prepared to do it again but he wasnt backing down and the situation just got really awkward so I ended up giving him a partial refund just to get him out - and he asked for even more back! Cheeky fucker! Of course I said no and told him that hes taking the $@*%&@* piss - he left in a strop but not before me telling him that he no longer has the option to book me for 1 hour: max for him would be 30 and if he wanted to extend he would have to do it in a booking. I should really just block him but hes so quick and easy. Outside of the ^ hes a nice guy and we have the best banter but I gave him an inch last time and he tried to take a mile this time but he knows the score now.
« Last Edit: 05 March 2017, 05:15:30 pm by Gracious »
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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #19 on: 05 March 2017, 05:22:59 pm »
annoying but im ok with a client booking 30 mins and then turning up and saying he wants 15mins ok but what i wont stand for is paying for 30mins and then cumming in 10mins and then saying, oh il go now il just pay for 15mins il have some money back, like 4 weeks ago! not a chance pal!

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #20 on: 05 March 2017, 05:57:06 pm »
Occasionally I've given a partial refund is if the client has booked an hour (incall)  came within minutes and looked as if he can't come again, doesn't like massage etc and I haven't particularly 'clicked' with him...I've sometimes said in these circumstances "Do you want to make it half hour?" and given ?30 back. Its generally only when its been to my benefit ie; in that I can then get back to my phone and not miss any other calls.


 Although I once gave a client half his money back on a overnight (incall) an hour or so into the booking after he suddenly pinched my nipples hard so I did the same back to him but harder (he almost cried and he made up an excuse about having to get back home  ::) )  I just knew that I couldn't bear to spend a whole night with such an annoying fool.

Other than that an outcall is a minimum of one hour whether the client 'lasts' that long or not.  Remember *some* guys would happily have an escort travel for longer than the booking duration...Fuck that!!
« Last Edit: 05 March 2017, 05:59:43 pm by katrina »

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #21 on: 06 March 2017, 08:15:27 pm »
This never happens to me either because being outcall my minimum is one hour whether I stay for the full hour or not. I have never been asked for or given a refund in my life. Once the money is in my hands they have to pry it from my cold dead fingers to get it back.
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« Reply #22 on: 06 March 2017, 11:17:39 pm »
Theres a fine line between being too soft and being too harsh, I would have just stayed and had small talk to make up the time, sometimes talking actually builds a connection and gets you return custom, I dont think in this instance I would have given a refund, but I would have been willing to stay the remainder of the time.

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #23 on: 07 March 2017, 08:57:44 am »
Never , I've had guys book 1.5 or 2 hours and exploded twice in minutes .
I just make a cuppa if they want or see if they can go again otherwise I say bye bye .

I've never had anyone mention it at all .


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« Reply #24 on: 07 March 2017, 10:05:47 am »
I do refund on occasions but only if I feel like it and if it benefits me but if they ask its a definite NO

yesterday Guy booked half an hour but cum within 10 mins of me just giving him a bj
I offered him the option of staying and having a massage and seeing if wanted to cum again that was fine or I would charge him for 15 mins which is ?60

He opted for the ?60 and I made a joke of me paying him for sex lol
I was happy as I got ?60 for a bj & 10 mins of my time he was happy cos he got ?20 back so we were both happy .




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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #25 on: 11 March 2017, 12:43:47 am »
I do refund on occasions but only if I feel like it and if it benefits me but if they ask its a definite NO

Good point. He didnt actually ask, I offered - but the other guy who did ask on two ocassions was just taking the piss. I wont let him do that again!
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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #26 on: 11 March 2017, 02:49:33 am »
A new client who said during our booking chat liked things slow was hot for sex when he arrived. I tried everything I could to slow things down but this became awkward. He lusted for a BJ and after he came really easily he was gone after 20 minutes. I said he hadn't had his full hour and said he could stay but he was off and gone! This was the second time in a row this happened with new clients.

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« Reply #27 on: 11 March 2017, 04:26:08 am »
A new client who said during our booking chat liked things slow was hot for sex when he arrived. I tried everything I could to slow things down but this became awkward. He lusted for a BJ and after he came really easily he was gone after 20 minutes. I said he hadn't had his full hour and said he could stay but he was off and gone! This was the second time in a row this happened with new clients.

LOL! Love the quick n easy guys! Nice that he just left instead of asking for some money back  ::)
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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #28 on: 11 March 2017, 12:57:48 pm »
Never ever offer refunds, you are losing money for a really dumb reason and you need to make clients understand that they are paying for a block of time. What they do with that time is up to them and if you or they leave early it doesn't change the price. If you allow people to take advantage of you then they'll eat you up. I've had clients who finish after like 10-15 minutes and don't want to stick around for small talk but none have asked for refunds. Many of my 30 minute incalls end 10 minutes early.

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Re: NEW clients who reduce booking time
« Reply #29 on: 11 March 2017, 01:46:04 pm »
Never ever offer refunds, you are losing money for a really dumb reason and you need to make clients understand that they are paying for a block of time. What they do with that time is up to them and if you or they leave early it doesn't change the price. If you allow people to take advantage of you then they'll eat you up. I've had clients who finish after like 10-15 minutes and don't want to stick around for small talk but none have asked for refunds. Many of my 30 minute incalls end 10 minutes early.

I agree totally. I would never give money back (I've only done this once when a client was being difficult and pushy and I felt unsafe). You've put that time aside and would have potentially turned down other bookings for it. It's the same principle for other time-based businesses, like if you showed up to a massage appointment and decided you only want half an hour and expect money back.

If a client is dithering on the phone about how long to book, I always encourage them to book the shorter period of time and they can extend if they want after arrival if I'm able to accommodate them. I don't mind just charging an extra ?40 to make it a full hour if it's an extension.