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LondonEvie

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New Booking Jitters
« on: 03 October 2008, 02:43:12 am »

 Anybody get booking jitters?

 I have a booking Fri Aft- and it's  :o eep!  I know not to count it as done til done and dusted, but i reckon it's gonna be my first 'real' booking and I'm far more nervous then I anticipated being!  What if I arrive and he thinks I'm ugly or turn out to be crap at being an escort and it goes pear shaped somehow- If he wants a GFE I bet I end up being the kind of GFE who criticizes the way you dress and hates your friends from school.

 I've had three bad-luck things happen this week so I'm due some good and the external stress I'm feeling has made me all anxious, lost appetite etc.

 Is it normal to be nervous before bookings? I feel like a good chunk of it is due to other stuff, but it's like butterflies!  x
« Last Edit: 17 October 2008, 04:43:57 am by Evie »

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #1 on: 03 October 2008, 03:11:12 am »
I'm pretty sure it's normal, I felt like that anyway (and that wasn't even the first time I'd sold sex, I'd done it twice with customers from a champagne bar before). I don't think my jitters really kicked in until the day of my first booking; I had to take the train to London and didn't bring anything to distract myself. I was so nervous worrying that he wouldn't like me. I got lucky with that one though; he wanted me to play a shy schoolgirl so it was ok if I was like a rabbit in the headlights.

You'll be fine. You'll never to be as eager to please as you are now, and that goes a long way.

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #2 on: 03 October 2008, 04:13:34 am »
I was lucky.  I only had a few hours notice of my first booking and luckily he had read my FAQ's and told me on the phone it was his first time with an escort so i just wandered in like id been doing it for years, put him at ease.  he gave me the money straight away but i could feel my hands shaking and i couldnt seperate the notes to count but my bag was on the side behind me so i was able to turn my back to him to count it.  I got really nervous about undressing in front of him, I dont mind my size and the shape of my body but i was suddenly really aware of my wobbly belly and fat thighs but he clearly loved it so i got over that pretty quick.  in fact, the whole thing was over pretty quick, i was back in my car 30mins later  :)

I have a feeling im going to get the jitters with most new clients the first time i meet them but hey, i get the jitters everytime i go on a rollercoaster but it doesnt stop me!!!

you will be fine and im sure you wont critisise him or his freinds... unless he brings them along to watch in which case you have every right!

I will be home when you finish so call and we can giggle like teenagers about your first time  ;)

Have fun petal.

xx

LondonEvie

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #3 on: 03 October 2008, 10:32:29 am »

 Yeah, I don't think it has helped having the other stuff that happened this week is making me anxious anyways and you're right, I'm gungho at Thorpe Park until I'm strapped in then go 'eek!':) be great if it just goes nice and easy :)

« Last Edit: 05 October 2008, 01:07:09 pm by LondonEvie »

Georgi

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #4 on: 03 October 2008, 12:16:34 pm »
You will fine, just fine, honestly.

When he opens the door give a big smile and as you brush past to get into the room give him a kiss - you don't have to get all passionate at that moment but by giving him a quick kiss let's him know you find him attractive (even if you don't)!    There are a lot of men who get anxious before a date wondering if they will satisfy you or you will find their 'abilities' acceptable. 

I have always found that by starting the date off with a kiss is a great way of breaking the ice, making him feel at ease and making that first step to intimacy really easy.     Saying something like 'it's wonderful to meet you or you are just as sexy in person as your voice suggested on the phone makes them feel on top of the world too!     It's all about making them feel wanted and desired and by setting the scene you will find it far more enjoyable and easy to manage.

Anyway, I am sure you will do a great job and it will all go past in a flash.

Have fun!

Georgi x

LondonEvie

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #5 on: 03 October 2008, 04:15:52 pm »


 Back safe, Fab and it went brilliantly! He wasn't in the room when I knocked and I thought 'oh hell!' He'd gone to get me some extra new towels in case I wanted a shower after! It went as perfect as I bet it could have been, and he is going to call me to see if we can do another hour or 2 later tonight!! Older guy, very sweet and very kind and courteous.

  ;D ;D  Big love and hugs to dear lexie for being my security buddy and for the great chat before and after xx My phone is always on for you , thank you again

 Eep has become 'weehee!'

celebate

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #6 on: 03 October 2008, 04:33:31 pm »
well done sweetie

xx

lexienight

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #7 on: 03 October 2008, 04:39:42 pm »
Your welcome my sweet (look... im still awake!!) I'm so proud of us  :D

Text later if you need me. x

brandy@saafe

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #8 on: 03 October 2008, 07:27:00 pm »
See, that wasn't so bad, was it? :)

LondonEvie

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #9 on: 03 October 2008, 08:59:37 pm »

Well, I have a habit of when I'm nervous in someones company I start cracking jokes, so i inadvertently put people at ease really naturally in person, I was far less worried about the act than I was about allied concerns like getting stopped by the front desk or him standing me up! (And I didn't fart either  :D )

LondonEvie

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #10 on: 03 October 2008, 09:50:49 pm »


 I must have done a damn good job, because he's having another hour with me tonight from 23:00-24:00 haha!  ;D

LondonEvie

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Re: New Booking Jitters
« Reply #11 on: 04 October 2008, 02:04:24 am »
It was excellent- Great booking, and he's desperate to see me again. I think it's gonna be just super.