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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Serendipity on 17 May 2018, 10:34:40 pm
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My friend who is an escort too, has been found out by her two neighbours who were supposed to be her friends. Anyway, they’ve got quite nasty with her and are telling people, so she shut her profile down. It’s now come to her attention that they’ve contacted the police. What outcomes could happen? Would she get in trouble as it’s rented property?
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There was a recent post about this that some of us were chatting about.
What borough is it in?
If it's privately rented, yes, she'll be in breach of her rental agreement.
Do they have proof she's escorting and not just got lots of male visitors?
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If she's working as an independent escort police can't and won't do anything. She's not breaking any laws. When I had an argument with my ex he called police on me saying I am whore. They stayed calm and said: so what? it's not illegal. They are not interested in bullying independents.
Personally I wouldn't close my account down. Just remove any face pics and identifying photos with tattoos etc
Nearly every rented property have a clause in the contract saying property can't be used for business purposes or illegally, imorral things. If landlord finds out she may be evicted.
I always stay polite to my neiboroughs but never too friendly. They are all nice but it's better if they don't know much about me.
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There was a recent post about this that some of us were chatting about.
What borough is it in?
If it's privately rented, yes, she'll be in breach of her rental agreement.
Do they have proof she's escorting and not just got lots of male visitors?
They took screen shots of her profile and also she did admit it by Facebook messenger when confronted. But no actual proof I don’t think, perhaps she can say she saw a few and then went to being outcall only? Xxx
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If she's working as an independent escort police can't and won't do anything. She's not breaking any laws. When I had an argument with my ex he called police on me saying I am whore. They stayed calm and said: so what? it's not illegal. They are not interested in bullying independents.
Personally I wouldn't close my account down. Just remove any face pics and identifying photos with tattoos etc
Nearly every rented property have a clause in the contract saying property can't be used for business purposes or illegally, imorral things. If landlord finds out she may be evicted.
I always stay polite to my neiboroughs but never too friendly. They are all nice but it's better if they don't know much about me.
Well would the police get in touch with the landlord? I can’t imagine they would, as I can see that being a major problem. I’m driving to hers tomorrow and we are going to the police to explain everything rather than wait for them to knock on. Her anxiety is through the roof and she’s scared of them - they’ve been round to shout at her and are sending vile messages to her and her partner. She’s looking for other properties now so hopefully she can move soon!
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It’s in Cheadle, Staffordshire. They took screen shots of her profile and also she did admit it by Facebook messenger when confronted. But no actual proof I don’t think, perhaps she can say she saw a few and then went to being outcall only? Xxx
She don't have to explain herself to anyone. Deny everything and tell them you don't know what they talking about.
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Well would the police get in touch with the landlord? I can’t imagine they would, as I can see that being a major problem. I’m driving to hers tomorrow and we are going to the police to explain everything rather than wait for them to knock on. Her anxiety is through the roof and she’s scared of them - they’ve been round to shout at her and are sending vile messages to her and her partner. She’s looking for other properties now so hopefully she can move soon!
No, I can't imagine the police would be interested in your friend, but they might well be interested in these messages. Make sure she keeps everything she's sent and if she can remember to, note down anything and everything that's been said and when, especially if it's remotely threatening.
She'll be in breach of her lease, but she's not breaking any laws and these neighbours threatening and blackmailing a lone woman is something the police ought to be keen to discuss with them.
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No, I can't imagine the police would be interested in your friend, but they might well be interested in these messages. Make sure she keeps everything she's sent and if she can remember to, note down anything and everything that's been said and when, especially if it's remotely threatening.
She'll be in breach of her lease, but she's not breaking any laws and these neighbours threatening and blackmailing a lone woman is something the police ought to be keen to discuss with them.
We went into the police station and spoke to an officer who was so lovely. You were right, they aren’t happy with the neighbours nasty behaviour and have asked if my friend wants them to go round and have a word with them, so my friend is going to sleep on it and then decide. The officer also said she wasn’t aware of any complaints from the neighbours, so she thinks it was just a petty threat to upset my friend. Thanks everyone for their comments! Xxx
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Only problem i see here is if the neighbours contact her landlord. do keep in mind that if she admitted to it on facebook messger that screenshot will be sent to the landlord.
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if the neighbours want you out they can become quite nasty stopping clients going in doing damage to there cars while they are in having there service i had this in the past done to me. Just be aware neighbours can go to extremes and if you do not own the property you are breaking the lease.
Probably best if you think about moving as you're neighbours now have it in for you.
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if the neighbours want you out they can become quite nasty stopping clients going in doing damage to there cars while they are in having there service i had this in the past done to me. Just be aware neighbours can go to extremes and if you do not own the property you are breaking the lease.
Probably best if you think about moving as you're neighbours now have it in for you.
My friend has handed in her notice, and is looking for somewhere new to live now as she feels so uncomfortable, and the two girls have told the rest of the street. I’m going to rent a room to her so she won’t have to work from home anymore so it should all work out :) x
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My friend has handed in her notice, and is looking for somewhere new to live now as she feels so uncomfortable, and the two girls have told the rest of the street. I’m going to rent a room to her so she won’t have to work from home anymore so it should all work out :) x
I can understand it would be nearly impossible to work from her flat. If anyone knows they will watch her home closely and every visit would bring another gossip. It's really upsetting how another people look at us. Like as we are something less then anyone else :'(
I would move out aswel and maybe try not to exchange Facebook and number with her new neiboroughs?
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I can understand it would be nearly impossible to work from her flat. If anyone knows they will watch her home closely and every visit would bring another gossip. It's really upsetting how another people look at us. Like as we are something less then anyone else :'(
I would move out aswel and maybe try not to exchange Facebook and number with her new neiboroughs?
Yes I’ve told her to not befriend the neighbours - sadly she did and the three became very close, and even went to be Caribbean a few weeks ago together! Not only has she lost her home, her income for the time being, but also her close ‘friends’. Not a good time for her :( xxx
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It’s in Cheadle, Staffordshire. They took screen shots of her profile and also she did admit it by Facebook messenger when confronted. But no actual proof I don’t think, perhaps she can say she saw a few and then went to being outcall only? Xxx
There is excellent support given by a company called Brighter Futures in that area. I know they work closely with police so one of the support workers there may be able to give advice and support etc......
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