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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: LadyBelle on 03 September 2014, 01:45:40 pm
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Hi Ladies and Gents,
So here is the back story. I had a flat in Paddington, was doing quite well for myself (though struggling with rent at times) and then BAM! I got ill, very seriously ill. I had to stop working back in June, had to lose my flat and relocate from London back to Wales.
Now I am better, I have to start work from point zero again. I need to find a new flat, find the money to get into the flat and move back to London, does anyone have any advice or words of encouragement. Losing my flat broke my heart and even more so that I had to leave London. I love London and now Im stuck out in the sticks, in North Wales with literally nothing but fields and stuff lol. I have one private client who pays well, I hope he doesnt drop me, but thats where I could get the money from the flat.
Anyone willing to cheer me on a bit, I am feeling a bit defeated by everything and would give anything to be back in London working right now.
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Sorry that you seem to be having a bit of a shit time of it at the moment.
I moved out of London a few months ago and do miss it too as work was always busy and there was so much cool stuff to do in the city on my days off.
Could you offer incalls at your place in Wales or are you limited to outcalls only?
Also have you tried webcamming as if you charge 1.50 for group and 2.50 for private chat you can make quite a bit of cash if you're on for a few hours in the evening. Although you do have to wait 2 weeks for payment to be processed and adultwork do get a cut (30% I think) but it's better than not earning money. Also private galleries and movies can be quite lucrative if you price them right and upload often.
I hope things improve for you soon and you're able to move back to London :)
Xxx
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Hi yes I think you should try webcamming for a little while the time to get some money to find a flat...
I pm you for the flat too
hope you ll be fine
xxx
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I would try it baby steps at a time. Perhaps like the others suggest and try other services while you save.
You could move to a more lucrative part of Wales and escort and save. Many first time lets are only for six months so this would allow you to work, save and go to where you really want.
Edit to say. I would totally avoid the route of borrowing off a client for more than one reason, it would be a totally NONO for me, could turn nasty.
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Hi hope your starting to feel much better , sorry to read you've had to move away from such a great location because of your circumstances. I love Paddington area. By any change can you tour at the moment to a major city hotel or apartment short let if it helps to raise cash? school holidays over so could be busy for you.
phone chat whilst your at home make more credits and relax at same time. :)
if you need to check out low cost hotels in cities take a look at saafe touring site .
good luck x
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Is there any local hotels you can provide incalls from?
Perhaps doing incalls one day a week?
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Most ideas are already posted above, just wanted to wish you luck in getting back on your feet again!!
You'll get there, you've done it before, you can do it again, even if it seems daunting after loosing everything..
Good luck hun! :-*
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We all started at 0. Maybe you can tour to london? Just go on day by day, you'll always make something in the first week being tehre. Maybe travel around & get the benefits of touring to build up the cash.
If it makes you feel any better, when i first started it took me a month to make 3 months rent, i worked everyday for a month & by the end of the month i had my own nice place.
Buckle down, but don't burn out. Pizza & dvd breaks are a must hehe. Good luck xx