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cinderella2012

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Re: need some advice PLEASE HELP
« Reply #15 on: 01 February 2012, 03:20:02 am »
You guys are all right, I shouldn't go.. idk maybe I'm just to eager to get started, and as you guys said they do pray on the one's that has no experience like myself. No he just knows ceecee, and doesn't know where I live. Thank god for this sight. Lols I'm just a hard headed person, and once I've made my mind I just qo w. It && never think about the what if's! Thaank you guys so much!

cinderella2012

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« Reply #16 on: 01 February 2012, 03:41:23 am »
Thank you quy, all of are all riqht. Idk maybe I'm just so eager to qet started. It. Sounded so qood, which just couldn't be. Like y'all said they prey on the non-experience && its true. Thank god for this site, because I would of went.  As you quys see I'm very hard headed, and try to convience others that its riqht when it Wronnq!!! Lols my down fall. But thank you quys so so so MUCH :-* I do appreciate it.

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« Reply #17 on: 01 February 2012, 06:10:17 am »
The ladies here may be from across the way, but I agree 100%...  Im in the US as well, and I am a black provider too, and I can tell you...if they are the ones telling you it will be hard to get work as a black provider, then they are putting craziness in your head. 

This is 100% trafficking and a scam.  I really suggest that you block and forget the lawyer, this other so called escort, all of it.  If you want to go to Seattle and work, then yes, book your own ticket, get your own hotel, and go on out there.  I work in FL, and its pretty slow here, so I tour on my own.  It can be done...I started touring about 4 months after I started escorting.  Booked myself a roundtrip ticket, got a hotel, advertised myself in the city I wanted to go to, got a few prebooks and I was off. 

There have been stories of a guy here in FL who would fly girls here promising them the same things this guy is offering you...and he had a female accomplice who was actually his wife or gf, I forget which, who would say she was an escort he had helped out, which was not true..she was jsut part of the scam.  They would end up trapping the girl in his house, have her work while taking the money she made, leaving her with no money to get back home and no way to leave.  It was all mental...he had them convinced that after a certain timeframe, that he would give them all their earnings at once...never happened. 

Please take heed and dont say anything else to these people.

LucyA

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Re: need some advice PLEASE HELP
« Reply #18 on: 01 February 2012, 08:25:18 am »
There is a forum that has has a bit more info for escorts working in USA called Stripperweb.com. If you post in the "Other Work" section, im sure they could give you a few more pointers.

I would also be wary, you heard so many stories nowadays of girls being conned, if its too good to be true, then normally it is.

 Just do some security checks, has the girl got a website / profile, has she got reviews. Google her and the guys name, even the (agencys?) name before you make a decision.

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« Reply #19 on: 01 February 2012, 10:20:26 am »
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If he's a lawyer, he should know how incredibly illegal moving people across state lines to work as prostitutes and how even more illegal to profit from this work is. What sort of a legitimate professional would be prepared to put their career, reputation and even their freedom in the balance to take this type of risk? One who hasn't got much to lose.

Amy just nailed it. He's a web predator. An ol' school pimp in some run down building looking for naive newbies while passing himself as a wealthy lawyer. You're not going to be making any money because he'll be administering it and keeping it. He'll put up ads for you and send you to clients with no screening process whatosever, but he'll lie and say "Don't worry, They're all friends of mine". Till you bump into an undercover vice cop (pimps are a high priority for them). That's usually how most women get arrested for prostitution. I think you're completely bonkers giving your personal information to a total stranger and letting him become your pimp, seriously.
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Dexi Delite

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« Reply #20 on: 01 February 2012, 12:46:26 pm »
Cinderella.  You say you checked this guy out on the web and you think he comes up kosha.  Anyone can put up a website with false information about themselves and make it seem credible.  Have you actually been in touch with a lawyers assosiation to see if he is listed as a lawyer and not barred. As the others say, it sounds like a scam and people like him should be reported to the police for trafficing.
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cinderella2012

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« Reply #21 on: 01 February 2012, 04:20:26 pm »
Yeah I agree with it all, I just thought workin with an agency was better, but most are just scams and low life pimps. I rather go independent, and look after myself.. to many creeps out in the world. Thaank you ladys.

cinderella2012

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« Reply #22 on: 01 February 2012, 04:26:02 pm »
Floridaa, yes that's what imaa do. Lucky I have a thing on my phone that can block peoples numberima just work as an independent, and screen them myself.

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« Reply #23 on: 01 February 2012, 06:41:51 pm »
Yeah I agree with it all, I just thought workin with an agency was better, but most are just scams and low life pimps. I rather go independent, and look after myself.. to many creeps out in the world. Thaank you ladys.

There are some good agencies... But any that will fly you to them and put you up and make the promises this guy did is not one of them.  As far as I can tell, this "lawyer" isnt even claiming to be an agency...has pimp written all over it.

I second joining StripperWeb - Other Work section.  Theres some good USA specific industry info there for escorts, but its not as active or focused as this site is for escorts...its for strippers first and formost, and has a healthy cam girl community.  The escort community is very small there still.  I also joined this board because its actually geared towards us and when it comes to general discussion, Ive learned and related to a lot more here in my time lurking, and decided to become a member :)

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« Reply #24 on: 01 February 2012, 10:13:47 pm »
Wow... well there is soo much good advise here... here here Amy... I must say in my early days I posted stuff here when I was not sure... but I discoverd I was not sure for good reason.... I would say with experience in the industry you become confident to make your own decisions based on gut feeling, or at least I have.... and if I have a wee gut feeling that something is not right, I wide birth it.  For me it is a mini alarm bell sounding.... a red light flashing to stand still... think.... and why put myself in possible danger, is there an amount of money I would do this for? Urrr no..... There is always another call or booking.  So this will not be your only option.

You are getting some advise from some very experienced ladies here who have either seen, heard or experienced it over the years.  Things that have been said here have not been written lightly and it is only your welfare that is being cared for. 

Stay safe.

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