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JellyBean

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Normal clothes
« on: 26 November 2017, 08:45:14 am »
Hi Ladies

I have a request from someone to wear ?normal clothes?, I?m trying to work out what to wear or not to see him. I don?t feel comfortable wearing everyday clothes ( I?m jeans and sneakers)I would not feel in work mode. What  would you put  on for a normal clothes request?

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #1 on: 26 November 2017, 08:51:30 am »
Ive been asked this a few times, although they have been more specific, ie please wear a floaty dress or leggings and a t shirt please.
I would go for a casual dress and nice shoes. Maybe with buttons so it's still a sexy thing to take off? With a dress at least you can still have stockings etc underneath.
Maybe ask him if he has any preference x

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #2 on: 26 November 2017, 09:04:08 am »
Is it a outcall Im guessing ? basically they mean nice casual I wear a nice dress with tights nice boots and a  jacket I have had some  say dress like your going for a tesco shop lol x

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #3 on: 26 November 2017, 09:53:56 am »
I've had this a couple of times. I either wear jeans and t-shirt or a office-style outfit e.g. skirt and blouse.
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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #4 on: 26 November 2017, 10:02:38 am »
If an incall I would probably opt for leggings and a vest top.
For outcall probably the same maybe with some low-ish heels and a smart coat. Or a pretty dress and flats.  Just what I would normally wear.

I would say to wear whatever you feel comfortable in (and still feel sexy)
The guy probably just want to see the ?real you?, and have an experience which feels natural.

So as long as you feel comfortable and confident in whatever your wearing, I?m sure he will be a very  happy man.

SimplySinful

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #5 on: 26 November 2017, 10:26:06 am »
If a guys says that I ask what he prefers, what?s normal for one guy is different from another.

For outcalls anyway I always tell gents I will arrive dressed casual smart so as to not draw attention to myself and if they wish I will bring something sexy to change into.

As it happens I just did an outcall where the guy didn?t want me to bring anything else, he was fine with jeans, that?s what he preferred.

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #6 on: 26 November 2017, 11:11:43 am »
If it is an outcall, he might have said that so that the neighbours think that you are a friend or colleague. Turning up in a tarty miniskirt, 4 inch heels and fishnets might get the neighbours talking.

If it is an incall, it might be because he fantasises about women he knows or works with - unlikely to wear Ann Summers lingerie and short skirts. As others have suggested, ask for more details.

When I have been asked for the same with no detail, I go for office work type clothes and probably a skirt rather than trousers - which I think is sexier and allows a stylish strip down to undies without looking slutty at the start. Opaque tights and flat heels bring civy realism rather than the standard hold-ups and heels of the profession.

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #7 on: 26 November 2017, 11:26:55 am »
Hi Ladies

I have a request from someone to wear ?normal clothes?, I?m trying to work out what to wear or not to see him. I don?t feel comfortable wearing everyday clothes ( I?m jeans and sneakers)I would not feel in work mode. What  would you put  on for a normal clothes request?

Sometimes when they say normal it is for discretion or they do not want you tarted up as reminds them of what they are paying for. Most of the time they mean every day cloths.
You could wear leggings with a nice top or jegg8ngs and a nice top.

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #8 on: 26 November 2017, 03:09:26 pm »
I get this too. I think maybe because it's something different or they want to see the real you. For me it's shirt and jeans.
One time I was behind schedule and lost track of time. Just got out of shower and had my dressing gown and slippers on totally starkers underneath when he arrived. Told him to give me five mins to get ready but he said he preferred me as I was and loved it.

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #9 on: 26 November 2017, 03:57:34 pm »
Hi Ladies

I have a request from someone to wear ?normal clothes?, I?m trying to work out what to wear or not to see him. I don?t feel comfortable wearing everyday clothes ( I?m jeans and sneakers)I would not feel in work mode. What  would you put  on for a normal clothes request?

I've also been asked to 'just wear normal clothes' for an evening out call later this week. Like you I'd prefer to dress up a bit - in this case opting for a day dress  (non-fiddly) with a wrap jacket and ballet flats :)

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #10 on: 26 November 2017, 06:07:44 pm »
Thank you lovely ladies for taking the time to reply.

It was supposed to be incall for this morning, i asked him to telephone to discuss normal clothes before the appt this morning and he text,( He has sent many texts) i hate this so this was my reason not see him, instead i went for a run! He text when he was in his country, then when he landed  then to say he can make earlier and i got irritated :P

The information given is superhelpful and i know what to wear when asked for normal clothes :)

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #11 on: 26 November 2017, 06:11:03 pm »
It sounds like he was abit of a timewaster basically and didn't really know what he wanted.But for future reference I just ask them to be abit more clear about what normal clothes as some may tshirt and leggings and some might mean jeans and a jumper.

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #12 on: 26 November 2017, 07:45:00 pm »
Is it a outcall Im guessing ? basically they mean nice casual I wear a nice dress with tights nice boots and a  jacket I have had some  say dress like your going for a tesco shop lol x
Leggings barbour flat boots etc, for my pretend tesco shop ! I did have to say "I don't really go to tesco this bad, ever"

SimplySinful

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Re: Normal clothes
« Reply #13 on: 28 November 2017, 12:41:32 pm »
Funnily enough a prospective client today asked me to wear normal clothes so I just asked:

?What do you mean by normal as everyone is different, do you mean jeans....

Yes he said and specified some other stuff that was normal for him!