I?m so sorry to hear about this!! Some clients really do ruin it for others
I think you need to look at this logically. So I?m gunna try help
- why are you worried about the film? Because you were escorting or just because you met an older guy (assuming he was older than you) and he filmed some kissing/stripping , no sex
- this could have just been an ordinary date with someone you met and he could have set you up
- if the film did get out, which it probably won?t, what will it actually prove? Not a lot considering you didn?t have sex. It would have shown you noticing the camera too, which doesn?t go for good film making, and even if he cut the end out what would footage would he have? Not much reallly, some kissing, stripping and an abrupt end.
- I?m guessing you are not from the states, you are from UK? So even in worst case scenario and he did put the footage online, the chances of anyone ever finding it, considering how tame the footage is, are very very slim! I know that?s horrible to think but it?s true. There?s millions of porn content on the net already. The chances of anyone ever finding it are slim.
I don?t think this guy will post it online anyway. He probably wanted it for his wank bank. The fact that you?ve caught him and deleted it has probably put him off anyway. I?m not sure he?d go to the effort to recover the footage, especially with no sex parts
As others have said, I think sending a letter to his home with his real name will be enough to stop him doing anything silly with it and it will show him you know who is he. Express in the letter that the footage was taken without your consent and that you never give permission to use it or share it.
Keep your chin up!! Xxx