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Marbles6245

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Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« on: 27 June 2024, 08:07:16 pm »
Hi!

You probably have heard of these questions a billion times already but anyways, I'm just going to say it anyways since I need to let this off my chest.

I have been having a long think about doing this for a long while now, esp in terms of getting additional income plus the fact that I like the idea of having a good work/life balance, esp with balancing with university work and the idea of doing a typical job, sounds very stressful for me but also have had history of struggling to get into long-term employment, due to education taking a massive priority over it.

However the idea of starting off independently sounds rather scary for me esp as someone, who doesn't really know anyone that does this but as someone, who would be considered a BBW, I know for a fact that I would most likely will not be accepted to any agency, due to my sizing but also that with not having any professional photos, no flat I can use either for incalls, and my body imperfections etc has made me think twice about doing it esp with the amount of competition living in a big city, but honestly the more I let my fears get into it, the more experiences I will miss, hence why I genuinely want to give it a go, despite it all.

I'm probably overthinking this way too much. However, as a potential BBW escort, I suppose what I'm asking is how do I get started? especially as a newbie, who certainly does not fit with the "typical" beauty standards, esp in a big city and not do it, completely alone as well.

If you are able to give any advice, I would honestly appreciate this so so so much!  ;D


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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #1 on: 27 June 2024, 08:51:24 pm »
Welcome Marbles6245

Have you read the main SAAFE site? There is a lot of startup information there :)

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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #2 on: 27 June 2024, 09:17:20 pm »
Welcome Marbles6245

Have you read the main SAAFE site? There is a lot of startup information there :)

Hi,

Yes I have, which has definitely helped massively, thank you! But now I'm looking for advice esp from those who are same demographic as me sort of thing but also speak to others directly about it too, so I don't feel alone in this >.<
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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #3 on: 01 July 2024, 09:58:13 pm »
I wouldn't presume you won't be accepted by agencies or parlours(if they have them near where you live) it is worth phoning up and asking. Just be honest about your size or show an unedited photo of your body. BBW is subjective. What are your stats? People may be able to give better advice then.

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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #4 on: 02 July 2024, 07:48:42 pm »
My stats are size 16, 34C, 4''11 so thats what I meant by not being likely to being accepted by major ones in my area since often the limits are between size 12/14 from my research so far, though I could be not looking hard enough idk :0
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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #5 on: 03 July 2024, 12:23:39 pm »
Yeah. I would still check. A lot of agencies will put size 12 when really they are a 16. I guess at your height a size 16 would be classed as a BBW but quite small one. If you don't fit "normal beauty standards" it probably better to be in a bigger city because then you can reach a wider clientele. And I'm sure lots of men will be into your look.

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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #6 on: 03 July 2024, 02:20:42 pm »
Yeah. I would still check. A lot of agencies will put size 12 when really they are a 16. I guess at your height a size 16 would be classed as a BBW but quite small one. If you don't fit "normal beauty standards" it probably better to be in a bigger city because then you can reach a wider clientele. And I'm sure lots of men will be into your look.

I do certainly live a big city, so thats definitely a huge plus on my end, theres quite a bit of bbw alternative girls in my area so theres definitely a market for my types. I just need to market my nerdy/geeky aspects of myself now so I stand out etc xD

I thought that was the case with some agencies I've looked at, some girls honestly look just like me but some agencies would put down size 10/12 and I'll be thinking like there no way that can be true, as someone who used to actually be a size 10/12. Glad my instincts confirmed this and that my paranoia just overran with it. Can say, this has certainly been useful and a confidence booster so hugely appreciate it! Thank you!
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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #7 on: 03 July 2024, 03:59:37 pm »
Yeah it's definitely normal for agencies to take a couple of dress sizes off. And 5 to 10 years off your age too.

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Re: Thinking of starting sex work [was: Need Advice...]
« Reply #8 on: 03 July 2024, 07:06:13 pm »
Yeah it's definitely normal for agencies to take a couple of dress sizes off. And 5 to 10 years off your age too.

Ah damnnn interesting. A-lot of people have often said to me that I look alot younger than my age so that might also be a huge advantage for me as well. :0
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