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ssfox

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First Time
« on: 07 May 2021, 01:10:06 pm »
So this happened in August last year and I’d like to do this more regularly. How did your experiences compare and any advice on AW alternatives that don’t require ID?

So I took the plunge and became an escort. It feels mad but was easier than I thought. Firstly I’d like to thank the forum. Before I booked my first client I read a lot of your articles and had been puttering around here for a while. Now I’m all signed up.

I booked a short let from a well known app and told a friend that I had a tinder date lined up at a bar. The flat was so close to the bar that I said I would message at pre determined times and ping my location.

So I had three bookings that spontaneously became four. It was actually quite difficult to line three nice seeming people up. I spent a long time planning before taking the plunge. The first two were pretty grey guys that I’d not look twice at. However they were kind, gentlemanly and clean. Both took showers which was a blessing as he was obviously a smoker.

The third was very handsome but really knew it. He kept saying how lucky I was that he was young and athletic with a large member LOL. The whole thing was cringe and I must say mercifully short. I’m not sure if I got him off or if he just closed his eyes and thought of himself. I really wanted to pack it in for good as he was so creepy. Kept pushing boundaries, tried to stay longer etc.

Anyway I’d made more in a day than I usually do in a week. So I was going to chalk it up to experience and not do it again. But I thought before leaving I’d check out my listing email again and I had a rather nice message from a man wanting a longer meeting. It all seemed a little TGTBT. But my spidy senses felt good. However after the last one I really wanted to vet this one. So arranged to meet him in the bar.

He was lovely. Just my type. Rugged and manly. He was open about the fact he is married and why he likes to see escorts. I confessed it was my first day but neglected to mention he was not my first client. We had a couple of scotches and returned to the flat. WOW! It just got better.

Without me asking he discreetly places the payment fanned our on a table so I could count it without being obvious. Then he pushed all the right buttons by being assertive but by no means aggressive. We undressed each other. He went down on me with gusto and talent. I was so into it I had to remind myself to slow things down and get a condom. Anyway he left me glowing.

Had to play it super cool as would love him to return  and due to being married I guess he doesn’t want people catching feels. Things did run over a little and without me asking he tipped me pro rata.

Kind of excited to do this again and supliment my income. I’ve had problems signing up to AW. Any advice on what I should do if I don’t like the idea of providing ID?
« Last Edit: 07 May 2021, 01:12:08 pm by ssfox »

SquirtyQueen

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Re: First Time
« Reply #1 on: 07 May 2021, 01:41:31 pm »
Wow! What a great first day!
I get most of my business from AW and yes you do have to provide your passport details and also a veri picture. Of you do go that route make sure you wear sunglasses and tick the option to hide the Veri pic from users. Otherwise clients copy and use them, especially if it's the only face pic you post.
I haven't used VivaStreet or Gumtree but they seem to be the next most popular.
Also, how did you get your initial clients? And have you not worked since August?

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Re: First Time
« Reply #2 on: 07 May 2021, 01:58:07 pm »

I get most of my business from AW and yes you do have to provide your passport details and also a veri picture. Of you do go that route make sure you wear sunglasses and tick the option to hide the Veri pic from users. Otherwise clients copy and use them, especially if it's the only face pic you post.

Profile pictures are now hidden by default. I am pretty certain that if sunglasses are worn in the verification picture, AW will reject it.

ssfox

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Re: First Time
« Reply #3 on: 07 May 2021, 02:03:39 pm »
Wow! What a great first day!
I get most of my business from AW and yes you do have to provide your passport details and also a veri picture. Of you do go that route make sure you wear sunglasses and tick the option to hide the Veri pic from users. Otherwise clients copy and use them, especially if it's the only face pic you post.
I haven't used VivaStreet or Gumtree but they seem to be the next most popular.
Also, how did you get your initial clients? And have you not worked since August?

It was a massage ad on gumtree where I “subtly” failed to mention massage. Since August I’ve had 3 spread out outcalls. One was from my first day, the second was horrid. The man was gross and smelly. The last, once again, was very fun. Not through any channels but a chance meeting. Very exciting and felt like a fantasy.

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Re: First Time
« Reply #4 on: 07 May 2021, 02:42:28 pm »
Profile pictures are now hidden by default. I am pretty certain that if sunglasses are worn in the verification picture, AW will reject it.

I wore sunglasses for mine, it said (or used to say) that they would accept veri pics with sunglasses.

SquirtyQueen

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Re: First Time
« Reply #5 on: 07 May 2021, 08:54:37 pm »
Profile pictures are now hidden by default. I am pretty certain that if sunglasses are worn in the verification picture, AW will reject it.
I wore sunglasses on mine and I'm really pleased I did as that pic has popped up on a well known review site!
And yes I agree they don't currently auto publish the pics, but well worth keeping an eye on the tick box for permissions.

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Re: First Time
« Reply #6 on: 07 May 2021, 10:28:09 pm »
I’m glad it  went well for you but the reality is, walk down the street and maybe even fifth or sixth guy you might find attractive - these are your client. They aren’t all attractive but they have the potential to be the nicest clients ever. Be firm on your limits and expectations within your profile, be strict in your profile. Best of luck. X

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Re: First Time
« Reply #7 on: 08 May 2021, 11:25:56 am »
three points  I picked up

1. don't tell them you are new, there are guys that prey on newbies and push boundaries

2. don't drink alcohol while working

3. don't go over time, whilst you got paid this time it, see point 1.

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Re: First Time
« Reply #8 on: 09 May 2021, 08:39:51 pm »
I had the same reluctance with AW, ID. Once they ask for ID you get about 48 hours to respond then your account is blocked. Not sure how you get around it.
« Last Edit: 09 May 2021, 08:48:41 pm by saltysweet »