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Jade Jones

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My first time went so well!
« on: 31 July 2023, 09:44:56 pm »
Hurrah! I had my first client and things went so well. He wanted some companionship to start, so we had dinner and drinks. Then he let me take the lead when we got to the bedroom. He was clean and polite and wanted to see me again!

I felt so confident the whole time, largely based on the advice and support I got here. Thank you!!!

washingline

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #1 on: 01 August 2023, 02:56:44 pm »
Well done, good wishes for future  :)

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #2 on: 01 August 2023, 03:41:54 pm »
Happy it went well for you. Good luck on your journey xxx

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #3 on: 01 August 2023, 08:43:23 pm »
Congratulations. I’m so happy for you.
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Sue69

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #4 on: 03 August 2023, 09:37:51 am »
My first time client was very I had lots of enquiries before my first meet, some clearly “odd”, I was very nervous all day and then he didn’t turn up, I nearly stopped then!

The next day, one of the others contacted me again, form the arrangement to the meet was only 2 hours so I was busy showering and running the vacuum around and hardly had time to work.  He was fine, a nice gent who I met about 6x, perhaps by then he had tried everything I was prepared to do, he is still active on AW.

Peggy

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #5 on: 06 August 2023, 10:04:27 pm »
hurrah, glad it went well.

PleasureSales

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #6 on: 19 August 2023, 05:04:04 am »
Hurrah! I had my first client and things went so well. He wanted some companionship to start, so we had dinner and drinks. Then he let me take the lead when we got to the bedroom. He was clean and polite and wanted to see me again!

I felt so confident the whole time, largely based on the advice and support I got here. Thank you!!!
Thank you for sharing, and so glad that your experience went well!  After over a decade and (a lot) of daily clients, I still absolutely love my job and remember my first client, who was also wonderful.

May I suggest keeping a spreadsheet of your meets, to keep track of clients and experiences. You will thank yourself later!
Best wishes!

Justine

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #7 on: 19 August 2023, 12:28:29 pm »
Re the above post and spreadsheet idea.  Very good advice. I don't do spreadsheets but keep paper yearly diaries and they have saved me from making mistakes so many times!

Eg. On any given date I write who/what time etc. my outfit/noteworthy details of meeting and client. Most importantly I also write the previous date he booked me. My phone also has the date of our last meeting and a yes or no so the second he texts or calls I know if he's ok to meet again. So quick and easy and works perfectly for me.

I've known other sps who told me they don't keep any records at all and no wonder they get depressed with men not turning up (again!) or showing up and being a pain (again!)

PleasureSales

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #8 on: 21 August 2023, 04:44:43 am »
When I started as a teenager, I kept a written diary with the basic details, fees, what I liked/didn't like, etc.
A few years later I started keeping it all on a spreadsheet, which is so much easier. I've added more columns over the years with destinations, clothes, extras, client preferences, things to remember to be more personal, etc.  My clients are often pleasantly surprised when I "remember" specific details, favorite activities, or wife/family names that we chat about on dates or pillow talk.  It just takes a few seconds to review my notes while getting ready to meet. This is another way to retain favorite clients.

And it's fun to do things like @sum or @counta in Excel to get stats, plus everything is always encrypted for safety. Now with the cloud, I can also see it all from my iPad in the nightstand while still in bed. :)

Leylaaa

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #9 on: 03 November 2023, 06:07:52 pm »
Aww, congratulations for you and I’m glad it went well ^^^

Red_rosie

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #10 on: 06 November 2023, 06:45:23 am »
Congratulations hun!

PrincessPeachie

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #11 on: 06 November 2023, 08:43:30 am »
Hurrah! I had my first client and things went so well. He wanted some companionship to start, so we had dinner and drinks. Then he let me take the lead when we got to the bedroom. He was clean and polite and wanted to see me again!

I felt so confident the whole time, largely based on the advice and support I got here. Thank you!!!

Yay!! I know this is an oldish post but you've got this!!
Best wishes on your working career xx

Racystacey

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Re: My first time went so well!
« Reply #12 on: 17 November 2023, 05:46:29 pm »
Yay, my first time wasn’t too long ago too and luckily it wasn’t as bad as I feared, always a great way to start