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sammy s

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Re: Motivational tips?
« Reply #15 on: 16 July 2010, 12:57:44 pm »
I think newgirl is right in what she was trying to say about every month putting a bit of money away to be able to spend on yourself, whether its a new dress, a night out or jo malone candles.
Its always nice to have something to look forward to and if there is something that you really want to do such as a holiday then it can really motivate you to get your bookings done.

I sometimes feel intimidated to voice my opinions on this site now as there is always someone that is going to take offence to what is only meant to be friendly supportive advice.
Everyone has different opinions so none of us are going to 100% agree on every piece of advice offered on here.

I also think webcamming would be a great idea. I used to do it full time when I was younger, and yes its incredibly boring but you don't have to be anywhere near the punters and will still make decent money.
Obviously it depeneds on how much time you put into it etc but you could potentially earn 100 quid a day at least. More if you have things like private gallerys and movies on your adultwork profile.

Good luck with it all and let us know how you get on x x x

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« Reply #16 on: 18 July 2010, 07:07:06 am »
I think if you weren't doing this as your ONLY source of income is nerve racking. As a lady who does this and has a civvie job, I can't tell you how sane I am to know I don't need these wankers to pay my bills. Try the workforce one more time. Instead of having friends lie, tell them you were married or in a relationship, and he didn't want you to work. Once you realized he was trying to control you, you left, and am more than ready to get back in the workforce. I just hired a lady who hadn't worked in three years since her autistic son was born, and her bastard husband left her because he couldn't take the pressure. I even gave her a bit more money because of it(I know people with autistic kids. It takes a fortune to get daycare and the special classes and therapy they need). I don't know how true it all is, but I'm a sucker for hard luck stories.

Good luck to you!
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Amber Sweetpetite

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Re: Motivational tips?
« Reply #17 on: 18 July 2010, 10:37:25 am »
Hi Simone.


What a crap situation. Realistically, it dosen't sound as though you want to be escorting, but I guess needs must when the devil drives!

My suggestion for getting through the actual time with clients would be to try and find another persona..preferably a sex mad nymph. Only allow that persona to see clients, never you. Having her go do the work while you retreat to a pleasant corner in your brain may help.

It sounds as though you have tried everything that you realistically could to sort work out, but if that is your chosen field, don't stop trying. Go for more interviews, but be honest. Say you were travelling, looking after a sick relative, anything that could cover intermittant employment gaps.

Whatever you do, don't give up. Just see everything you do now as a means to an end.

I hope that you are feeling better today!

xxxx



I like your idea!

Amber Sweetpetite

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« Reply #18 on: 18 July 2010, 10:38:49 am »
Have a go at webcamming.  Its in your own home, ?20 of kit will get you going and you are in total control. On AW they take 30% but you ust adjust your price accordingly.  I do msn cam shows for a 10min minimum ?15.  ?1.50 a min thereafter. You can ask for more if you do phone chat too.

On direct cam I set group at ?1.20 and private at ?1.70. Like all things there are peak times so you do not sit there and waste your time.  Lunchtime, between 4.30 and 6.30 and after 11pm there is the most traffic. Its mindless but it's free money really. I can make about ?70 in an hour after 11pm if I wear stockings and heels.

Wave your boobs! Lol.


I have thought of doing this and sounds like a great way to make a little money. I really need to look into it.

Amber Sweetpetite

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« Reply #19 on: 18 July 2010, 10:40:05 am »
I find touring extremely exhausting. I always treat myself to a little something to make it feel worthwhile. I've just got back from Dublin where I bought a Vivienne Westwood handbag in the sales and also had a manicure and pedicure in a posh salon.