So, 5 days ago I had one of my wisdom teeth removed. The pain was doable but yesterday it was getting worse and I ignored my body telling me it wasn't feeling ok anymore. I thought I'd do my two bookings today and would go to the hospital on Wednesday but this morning my saliva was green, I had a foul taste and my first thought was it might be infected.
Called with reception of the surgeon and they told me I should come immediately. So I mailed my two clients on 8.30 AM this morning (one appointment was on 11 AM, the other at 1 pm, telling them my situation and that I'm sorry but I couldn't do the session because of the above. While one was a bit understanding, the other got totally passive aggressive (like mailing with fuck and angry because he took a day off for our one hour session). I cancelled on him once before 6 months ago because of a migraine, and 3 months ago he cancelled on me. He is saying I'm not reliable, and blabla. He suggested I could do the appointment after the hospital but my incall place is a 2,5 hour trip by public transport and I already cancelled the location and have to pay for it as well. Besides, I'm not sure if I can do a session at the quality I normally give so for me it's a no go.
My stomach turned because I greatly dislike this mess with clients and particularly conflicts. Besides, I offer kinky sessions with kissing and I pointed out to him that this wasn't possible now.
Now I feel like I have to make it up to him, he is also insisting on a solution in an unpleasant way. He and I played only once (besides the two cancellations) so he isn't a regular who I would like to keep. But I kind of feel obliged to make it up..
What would you do?