So I had an email yesterday, from someone saying "hi there "uses real name", I see your from l********* like me, would love to come and see you soon"

I'm from a smallish town. Most people know each other!!

I only have face pics in private, I'm guessing he's brought my pictures.  I haven't emailed back yet, wwyd?

I don't want him telling people!

Why would he tell anyone? His own privacy is probably as important to him as yours is to you. Could be married with a family, or a local celeb, or anything.

If you don't want to see him, just be *fully booked* for his appointment requests. Oh, and change your location to OUT of your area. Only by a mile or 2, but it makes all the difference.

edited to add - you have face pics as your main profile pics