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Love.Sex.Dreams

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Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« on: 28 June 2020, 03:20:00 pm »
So it seems since Covid hit, my best regular has gone off the rails. He used to book overnights every month at £2k per night, brought flowers, perfume, champagne and we always had a good time.

He went quiet then I reached out to him to just check since I know he worked he really long hours and kept his job when the virus hit. He replied to me and was normal at first saying he missed me and bought me some lingerie but soon after, he sent a barrage of messages talking about Judaism, 20 texts messages in 30min, really long. He seems to have become a religious extremist. I didn't reply to any of it.

He then sent me a link to a YouTube channel he created and on it he has uploaded close to 30videos that are hours long. In these videos he is ranting and cursing about religion and how everyone else will go to hell, whilst standing close to traffic wearing a weird cultish gown. He has tattoos on his arms (he is polynesian) and we used to smoke weed together and in the videos he denounces tattoos and drugs saying he wants to cut his arms off as he has touched bad things and drugs, also because he has tattoos. I really don't recognise him anymore even though his physical appearance hasn't changed.

He mentioned in these vids that he was diagnosed with psychotic depression and has stopped taking his meds because they are evil. He had never mentioned his mental illness to me prior. I have seen clients with depression or anxiety but the psychosis feature of this guy's illness is something that is not to be taken so lightly. Considering the way he was denouncing drugs and tattoos, why would he think so highly of me to want to see me again and have a normal booking given I am a prostitute and not an angel?

Would you see this guy again? He wants to come back in July


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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #1 on: 28 June 2020, 03:27:42 pm »
Definitely not, he sounds very unstable.

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #2 on: 28 June 2020, 03:29:30 pm »
Is it normal to keep in touch with him, it's your words 'reached out' and the involvement.

If someone sent me the stuff you mention I would be incredibly wary of seeing him again.


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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #3 on: 28 June 2020, 03:29:56 pm »
I’d have blocked once he started the barrage of messages about Judaism, which I am assuming were antisemitic.

For you own sanity, block him and don’t look back.
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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #4 on: 28 June 2020, 04:48:41 pm »
Nope, No, no way. Psychosis is a complex individual illness that can be managed with the right treatments and people do often "find" religion when they have a big or initial episode. However, this guy isn't taking his meds and is behaving erratically. In a booking he could do ANYTHING to cleanse you of your "bad things". I wouldn't see him again. I wouldn't respond to any more messages. You're busy in July. And forever.

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #5 on: 28 June 2020, 05:15:17 pm »
I would cut of completely. An English escort was killed by a regular client on an overnight last year in Croydon. He had seen her for a whole year and that night he suffered a psychotic episode. He told the police he doesn't know why he did it, they were having a great time that night then  "heard voices in his head" and killed her. For no reason. Again: Stay away from people with psychotic episodes, specially when mixed with drugs. Very dangerous combo.

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #6 on: 28 June 2020, 05:25:41 pm »
Fuck, no! If he's psychotic and stopped taking his meds you need to steer clear - his videos sound alarming to say the least.
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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #7 on: 28 June 2020, 08:57:31 pm »
No don’t see him again for your own safety. You can make that 2k a month of hour bookings. You have been lucky to find all this out and have the power to walk away.

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« Reply #8 on: 28 June 2020, 09:09:34 pm »
No not for any money. I know of two escorts who were murdered by mentally ill clients who presented as 'normal'. Both at hotels. They didn't give a shit about witnesses or CCTV. At least yours is giving you the big red screaming sirens.
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Yeah like I'll let the human guineapigs have first dibbs at eating the food that's been sitting in those restaurant freezers for the past 4 months.

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« Reply #9 on: 28 June 2020, 09:45:08 pm »
Nope. You don’t wanna sit through an overnight listening to this or sit on pins and needles worrying he starts.

BTW, how did it all end up with your landlady?

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #10 on: 29 June 2020, 11:43:42 am »
Absolutely bloody not. Stay well clear.

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« Reply #11 on: 29 June 2020, 06:09:31 pm »
Omgg.. no way!!
 All the money in the world doesn't matter if the guy it's mentally unstable... i used to see a guy that i think he had problems but don't know for sure, and all the times we were in hotels and he acted really paranoid (i knew he's on drugs) but he acted more weirder than other people on drugs and i have decided not to see him never again. Safety first xx

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #12 on: 29 June 2020, 06:19:01 pm »
NO!! do not see him please! its likely he will get better once things resume and he gets some help or is back on his meds and will get back in touch with you!

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #13 on: 29 June 2020, 07:12:19 pm »
No not for any money. I know of two escorts who were murdered by mentally ill clients who presented as 'normal'. Both at hotels. They didn't give a shit about witnesses or CCTV. At least yours is giving you the big red screaming sirens.

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Re: Client's behaviour worrying/erratic, would you see
« Reply #14 on: 29 June 2020, 07:18:25 pm »
Wow... Very scary. To be completely honest, I'm not sure why you'd need to ask others wether or not you should see him. I don't think this needs much thought at all really... Block all methods of contact - for your own safety. He's openly admitted to having psychosis. [removed]
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