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Raven 1

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Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« on: 26 November 2023, 06:56:35 pm »
I am not sure if it’s my due to my perimenopausal age or because I’m highly stressed at the moment  (money issues, as I can’t work a civvy job due to a physical disability and mental illness (mainly caused by civvy jobs); but I am having sporadic bleeding. My periods have become irregular, but I am also having random bleeding which is not a period.

I have my first incall day in a few days and I had random bleeding today, although I purposely booked hotel as I was not due on. I’m not sure whether I should cancel hotel now.

Do any of you have advice on what to do if you have clients and just start randomly bleeding or how to manage this issue as an escort?

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #1 on: 26 November 2023, 07:12:06 pm »
Use preventative measures by inserting a sponge. Beppy or Gynotex are good and both available online.

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #2 on: 26 November 2023, 09:33:53 pm »
I've gone on microgynan
Solved my bleeding and perimenipausal symptoms.
Also regular full sti checks which I know we all do but a lot of girls are just paying for the throat bacterial ones for convince at the moment rather than going the clinic
My local sti clinic has helped me with loads of other stuff too like thrush, bladder urgency issues. They are really helpful.
But I'm sure you already get full checks xx

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« Reply #3 on: 26 November 2023, 09:37:09 pm »
Sorry sounds a bit odd that response of mine what I was meaning was they actually cover gynae issues too so some can make referrals or point you in the right direction.
They once gave me antibiotics for a Barthomlew cyst which I was convinced was something else

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #4 on: 27 November 2023, 10:02:32 am »
Have sponges and use flavoured coloured condom. 😂
I find passante chocolate & Strawberry are good for this

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #5 on: 27 November 2023, 12:50:01 pm »
Buy black condoms on amazon....sponge.. Dim lights

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #6 on: 27 November 2023, 01:00:33 pm »
Don’t take advice online . … see a doctor ?!

Spotting and irregular periods happen to a lot of us myself included .

Many many different reasons why it happens x

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #7 on: 27 November 2023, 01:29:34 pm »
Don’t take advice online . … see a doctor ?!

Spotting and irregular periods happen to a lot of us myself included .

Many many different reasons why it happens x

Yes do seek an appointment with your GP, spotting is a symptom of peri/menopause but it can also happen due to fibroids, STD's or a cervical polip. Once you know your reasons for spotting then you can use a sponge or one of those flat silicon mooncups they sell online designed for having sex while on your period.
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« Reply #8 on: 27 November 2023, 01:55:17 pm »
This is exactly happening to me now. My period is either early, late, hardly anything there or very heavy. I cannot plan anything as never know what's happening and sometimes the swelling of belly and period pains are not even signs i will come on. Been taking a herbal supplement that has helped with some symtoms.

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #9 on: 27 November 2023, 02:21:49 pm »
This is exactly happening to me now. My period is either early, late, hardly anything there or very heavy. I cannot plan anything as never know what's happening and sometimes the swelling of belly and period pains are not even signs i will come on. Been taking a herbal supplement that has helped with some symtoms.

Can you name that magical herbal supplement? Going through the same thing  ??? I'll PM you.
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« Reply #10 on: 27 November 2023, 03:01:13 pm »
Really helpful advice - thank you everyone.

I am planning on seeing Doctor too, but all the other advice is good for thought.

Is the herbal stuff Agnus Cactus? I did take it when I was younger and it was very good.

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« Reply #11 on: 27 November 2023, 03:03:21 pm »
English Green ai am having exactly as you’ve described.

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #12 on: 27 November 2023, 06:27:36 pm »
Beppy sponges are great, I do not get spotting but my cycle is not so predictable and can start a week early or late. But spotting in between should be checked out to make sure your uterus and its lining is OK. Always best to just check with a GP and get some blood tests on your hormones to.

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« Reply #13 on: 27 November 2023, 06:39:21 pm »
Really helpful advice - thank you everyone.

I am planning on seeing Doctor too, but all the other advice is good for thought.

Is the herbal stuff Agnus Cactus? I did take it when I was younger and it was very good.

Yes it is called PremEeze or something and i had uncontrollable bloating for most of the month too. Looked bad.

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Re: Maybe happens to Older escorts - need advice on how to handle?
« Reply #14 on: 28 November 2023, 09:54:57 am »
I had all the erratic periods for four years. I could not use Beppy as bad clotting.

Anal enabled me to stay afloat lol.

Now periods all behind me!