Hello ladies,

I have been reading the Forum for sometime and am considering returning to escorting at a very ripe age - somewhat over 50.

I have been away from escorting for 20 years and never imagined I would consider going back into it.

However strangely enough this pandemic has made me rethink my life.  Locks downs have given me a lot of time to think.  And I really enjoyed escorting and I'm alone right now and to be honest do not want a coventional relationship ever again i.e. monogamy etc - even with swinging.

I miss the sex, the men, the other women - yes most of my friends were escorts.  Straight people I have found I cannot relate to them.

My husband (now dead for several years) and I were active swingers - think Donald and Jacquiline in the Benidorm TV series  but I don't want to do that again.  I don't want to give it away for free - and I don't want monogamy or swinging.

I want to do sex work and socialise with clients - I do like talking also!  Since I enjoyed it so much I have been thinking after I have had all my vaccinations - I might just try it again.

I am also kinky - so plenty of scope.

I just wondered - do you think I am being totally unrealistic trying to start this again at my age and during what is still a pandemic - or even just after it is over?

I just want to enjoy what I can before I really become too old to escort - whatever age that is - but I know no-one can go on for ever.

The money would be nice also!

I'd really appreciate your input - like has the market gone down? - or is already too overcrowded? - even for someone at my age? etc.

Thanks,

Flower

If you go onto aw or any advertising platform and do an age search for 50-70 there are many many ladies doing just the same as you. There is definitely a market for the mature lady. Some gentleman are uncomfortable going to see someone young enough to be their daughter.

I think you should go for it. There is money and a market for anyone and any age in the sex industry.

If you go onto aw or any advertising platform and do an age search for 50-70 there are many many ladies doing just the same as you. There is definitely a market for the mature lady. Some gentleman are uncomfortable going to see someone young enough to be their daughter.

I think you should go for it. There is money and a market for anyone and any age in the sex industry.

Thank you that is a very nice reply!

Your brilliant, glad your going back to escorting too.
I dont think age is an issue if you have the right attitude and enthusiasm 
I have returned though I never thought I would .
Fingers crossed I'll have the confidence again to start seeing clients.
Enjoy  yourself xx 

Hello and welcome back Flower!

Before I started escorting I thought I would be too... fat/black/ordinary looking etc

But there is no such thing... I realised and essentially wished I had started earlier.

Women of all ages colours shapes are infinitely as beautiful as they feel.

Lockdown made me realise how much I adore this job.... and although I only accept 10% of enquiries due to my bullshit radar and general laziness - I am looking forward to going back.

I love that you were recognised by that punter - kinda proves that you haven't physically changed much at all.

Go for it.

Hi Kiss,

Thanks so much for the encouragement!

I am sure you will do fine - I've had a look around and there is plenty of demand for older ladies - especially if you like going out to dinner etc as well the full companionship - like I do - charging of course.  Some older gents genuinely like older women - and some young ones.  I got told I was a MILF - didn't even know what it meant.  Now I do!

Love your motto and "old vintage" 

Take care,

Flower

I feel a whole lot brighter now!

Hi Flower, I’m over 40 and plus size and very much in demand, so don’t sell yourself short you will be just fine x

Hi ladies,

Thank you for your lovely responses (and private messages).

You are right - there is room for everyone in this profession/market.  Human sexuality comes in all forms.

You are all so enouraging.

Sometimes we all say something we don't mean so no worries for that lady.  I've been there too.

Take care,

Flower

I firmly believe there is someone for everyone in this industry so I think if you want to do it, you should and don’t let age or anything else hold you back. 😊