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Sass

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Massaging clients
« on: 14 November 2018, 01:21:08 pm »
Hello, forgive me if this is somewhere on the forum already but having searched I can't seem to find anything. I just have some silly questions regarding massaging clients.
I am starting doing full body sensual massage with body to body but I have some questions. I appreciate help from anyone.
When doing erotic massage, do you have your client naked or with underwear on? My thoughts are if they are naked and you are body sliding, (depending on how turned on they are) I would be concerned with coming into contact with bodily fluids i.e. pre cum. I will have my knickers on during massages but may offer naked body to body. How do you ladies do it and what are your thoughts?
Also do you drape towels over your client whilst massaging areas or do you have them lying down uncovered the whole time?
Thanks for any help

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #1 on: 14 November 2018, 03:30:31 pm »
I used to do body to body but stopped after doing it once lol. Understandably they want full nudity to get the maximum benefit. I stopped because one cheeky fucker did try and slip in without a condom. He did try to make out it was an accident. After that, I stopped because at that time I was able to stop him but there was no guarantee I could stop the next punter.

For massage in general, I discuss this with the client. Some want to keep their boxers on. Some want a towel. Others don't. Some want me in boxers/pants/thongs, sometimes stockings, full underwear, naked etc.

It's about communicating with them to find out their preference and deciding based on that chat if I will book and do the massage.

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #2 on: 15 November 2018, 09:31:12 am »
He sounds like a charmer!..Cheeky fuckwit! Yes you're right about the communicating, I'll add that to my screening to find out what they're about and really after. Thanks for replying.

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« Reply #3 on: 15 November 2018, 04:10:25 pm »
I offer body to body while they are laying on their front but once they turn over onto their backs then the condom goes on right away "so there's no accidents"
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« Reply #4 on: 18 November 2018, 12:07:16 am »
Welcome to the world of sensual massage, Sass! :)

1. In the beginning, I send them to take a shower, they come back and are naked.
Hop on the table.
2. I usually drape a light cloth on them, I actually don't know why I'm doing this but I'm kind of trapped in a set of mindless routines at this point. I get rid of the cloth as the session progresses.
3. Good point re pre-cum, Sass.
A bit radical solution, but I stay in large lycra granny panties. It's a shield from body fluids and unwanted intimate intrusions.
It's a boundary. A chastity belt. It also holds the wobbly bits together.

And a side note - use Dri Pak laundry soda to get rid of the oil. xx
Feel free to PM me for the links to granny panties and a cloth.  :D

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #5 on: 19 November 2018, 11:49:12 am »
Thanks for the advice VoluptuousCurves, I actually thought of putting a condom on them when they turn over but wasn't sure how that would go in a massage, glad to hear I'm not alone in that idea! x

Thank you 80s synthetic for the welcome and your advice too! That's very helpful, I do actually have a cloth to cover them, I suspect it may be a very similar one to that you use as you call it a cloth and not towels. I agree with the large panties! And it being a boundary, the main reason why I want to keep mine on! I will pm you though for the links, that would be great! x

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #6 on: 19 November 2018, 02:27:00 pm »
massage oils and condoms do not mix, they corrode the Condom so be careful of oil on cocks and hands.  Wash off both areas.   Some clients know this and use the this as a way of breaking the Condom accidentally on purpose.

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« Reply #7 on: 19 November 2018, 06:15:18 pm »
Oh yes, I remember reading a thread on that, I think it was the non-latex condoms that were ok with oil, but don't quote me on that as I'm not completely sure without looking again.
massage oils and condoms do not mix, they corrode the Condom so be careful of oil on cocks and hands.  Wash off both areas.   Some clients know this and use the this as a way of breaking the Condom accidentally on purpose.

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #8 on: 19 November 2018, 06:21:49 pm »
Does anyone think it would be reasonable to do body to body on the back of their body but not on the front? Instead doing a sensual, intimate massage on the front with HE. Does anyone do this?

Also, veering off topic slightly, what do people think or do about charging for travelling to outcalls?



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« Reply #9 on: 19 November 2018, 07:56:02 pm »
Done Tantric Massage now for 4 years and never once offered Body to Body on the front..

No one in my previous massage agency did either. Unless they had very large boobs so their lower body didn't touch.

seraphine

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« Reply #10 on: 20 November 2018, 01:40:39 pm »
Done Tantric Massage now for 4 years and never once offered Body to Body on the front..

Same here. I do an occasional frontal slide, but not as far so that my face is near theirs.
When standing I slide my breasts but they are not fit for purpose of a tit wank.  :D
Still, even small breasts feel nice and comforting, even if you touch their abdomen with your chest, it's a nice connection; just like holding hands. Depends if you're comfortable with it, of course. You don't need to get more intimate with a client than you wish - and being able to maintain this boundary is a great luxury of working as a masseuse IMO.

Re outcalls - I can't be arsed to do them, but it's common to charge extra for that.

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #11 on: 20 November 2018, 09:07:32 pm »
massage oils and condoms do not mix, they corrode the Condom so be careful of oil on cocks and hands.  Wash off both areas.   Some clients know this and use the this as a way of breaking the Condom accidentally on purpose.


If you are using organic coconut oil, you must use latex-free condoms.  I use Mates Skyns.  The oil will not degrade this type of condom in any way.

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #12 on: 21 November 2018, 12:49:03 am »
If you are using organic coconut oil, you must use latex-free condoms.  I use Mates Skyns.  The oil will not degrade this type of condom in any way.

Yes it will - polyisoprene condoms are not oil safe and should not come into contact with anything oil based - you need water or silicone based lubes. Coconut (or other) oil is only safe with polyurethane or nitrile condoms, if you can find them :).
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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #13 on: 21 November 2018, 10:12:40 pm »
When I massaged for years, first I did body to body when he was face down and, when he turned, I did a bit of body to body. I never had the problem that you have had. Maybe it's because I always avoid rubbing the genitals. I always have my ass as far as possible, besides, this looks very sexy in the mirror. In this way he can not touch you and he gets excited by the image in the mirror.

I do not know if I'm explaining myself well. The condom is also a good idea. If you put the condom you can make sexier positions and you can have more friction. this will help him cum in less time. ;)
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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #14 on: 22 November 2018, 12:59:07 pm »
Thanks everyone for the replies and thanks 80s for answering about the travelling charges. Going to start charging extra, I can't keep subsidising out of my massage fee!  :o