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someonesomewhere

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #15 on: 26 November 2018, 02:55:00 pm »
The oil/condom things always amaze me that it's not widely known.
It's on packaging for starters.

I had a punter ask for a massage at the weekend. Explained that I am waiting for a delivery of oil-free stuff (usually organised but spilt the last lot)
Oh, it's ok. I don't have any allergies
Oh, so it's just a massage you want?
Him no.
After explaining about oil and condoms, he was surprised and said the other wg's use baby or coconut oil. And nothing is washed from massage to fucking. He trusted the wg's to know what they are doing is safe for both parties.

We need to get this out more because of the implications of what can happen.

saltysweet

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #16 on: 26 December 2018, 01:36:30 pm »
Both naked unless he's not paid full rate then I'm in lingerie.
If he's paid extra for B2B I do slides on chest and stomach, never directly on his cock. My hands do cockwork, so I guess fluids don't bother me that much.
I only drape the bits I’m not working with on frosty winter days or if they have poor circulation- ‘ice cube toes’. Men usually run hot though.

In their heads they want hours of body to body on their fronts, but for a cheap cheerful massage, I do a couple slides on their back only, zip zip.
If they're a pain or handsy I won't do any B2B at all, it's up to my discretion. For expensive massages I do both sides nicely....laaaaang time.

Outcalls-I charge £50-£60 cab massage or escort.
« Last Edit: 28 December 2018, 08:55:09 pm by saltysweet »

Guava

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Re: Massaging clients
« Reply #17 on: 21 March 2019, 02:33:26 pm »
Yes it will - polyisoprene condoms are not oil safe and should not come into contact with anything oil based - you need water or silicone based lubes. Coconut (or other) oil is only safe with polyurethane or nitrile condoms, if you can find them :).

Thank you Amy for clarifying this and apologies for my late response.

I have questioned this before both during my tantric massage training and at the GUM clinic. On both accounts I was assured coconut oil with Mates Skyns was ok, even being provided with a supply of these condoms from the clinic.

I have now returned to my original belief that they are indeed incompatible.

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