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Harlot

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Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« on: 17 April 2019, 11:35:39 am »
Hiya ladies.

I offer a massage with either hand relief or OWO.

I always leave 15 mins at the end for their cock time, however I’ve had a few not being able to come within those 15 mins so I’ve had to stop them at the end of time.

My rates aren’t as expensive as escort rates, so I wouldn’t want to spending more then 15 mins on their cocks.

Those that do massage, how do you deal with this?

I do feel bad for them, I give it a great massage but I would like them to cum as well x

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« Reply #1 on: 17 April 2019, 11:52:50 am »
This thread is your bible, pretty much says it all-
https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/dropping-half-hours-at-home-location/


I do massage and escort and have the same timings. Most clients won't need prompting.
You can pretty much guage if a client is a delayer once you lay hands on the first minute.
I warn them in a jokely, wink-wink, way it's 10, 5, 2, 1 minute till the end of the session and they usually cum.
I leave 7 minutes for them to get dressed so I factor that into the cock time.

If they're older eg over 40 they may have specific medical or psycological ejaculation or erection issues they
will never fix so I'm prepared for them to be angry, moody and blaming.
My ears grow very, very small and I can't hear anything they're saying.

They may protests about their cock history or your ability.
Don't get drawn in, that's a disaster, it will escalate into a blaming competition.

If no cum despite my several jokey warnings, I announce the session is finished, I wash my hands, get dressed and start cleaning the room and go bathroom. I tell them to come out when they're dressed. It's not an ask.
Sometimes you may need to say you have a client standing outside for his booking, that usually works fine.

Some men will never cum at all due to psych, health, surgery or cancer reasons.
Some will warn you others won't. Cumming is their responsibility we enable it but can't force it.

You will find every kind of pleading, blaming and bizarre illogical comments it's all poop eg
You shouldn't have told me the time/ You should have told me the time
You're holding too tight / You're holding too loose
What do you want me to do? Oh I didn't know you want me to cum!
Oh I never cum...I didn't know I had to tell you that!
Oh I only cum if I get rimmed, sucked, prostate...didn't you know that?
I thought you carried on till I cum!
Oh I haven't cum since 1999 my dear





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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #2 on: 17 April 2019, 12:03:42 pm »
I am a massage HE provider.  I leave 15 mins for happy Ning time and that's all.  I only had 1 so far not cum, but that was down to his medication rather than running ou of time.  Now I do have a few who are hard work.  I think of these as porn death grip Wanking clients, no Wanking or sucking will make them cum.

So if in the final few minutes tell them you will get on your knees and lick their balls whilst staring up at them into their eyes as they wank furiously staring down at you.  This does the trick sometimes, as a man knows how he likes it pulled.

If they are clearly taking the piss, by avoiding cumming.  Tie them it's stockings to the table for happy ending.  Their brains are focused on the restraints instead of trying to no cum.  I find it's about distracting their attention away.

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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #3 on: 17 April 2019, 03:49:15 pm »
I don’t agree about the seven minutes getting dressed as part of cock time. If the pay for an hour I start on the cock at 45 mins and I don’t give up the the hour is over.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

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« Reply #4 on: 17 April 2019, 04:15:36 pm »
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« Last Edit: 17 May 2019, 12:19:07 am by 80s synthetic »

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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #5 on: 18 April 2019, 12:22:30 am »
I don’t agree about the seven minutes getting dressed as part of cock time. If the pay for an hour I start on the cock at 45 mins and I don’t give up the the hour is over.

When I go for a massage, in a very respectful sports massage place, my undressing and dressing time is included in the hour I book. Is there a reason why you don't do this?

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« Reply #6 on: 18 April 2019, 04:50:14 am »
When I go for a massage, in a very respectful sports massage place, my undressing and dressing time is included in the hour I book. Is there a reason why you don't do this?

I just think if they pay for an hour they should get that. If they come five or ten min before the end then that’s a bonus. But I wait till the hour is up before I stop.
I'm glad I got all the Cynthia Payne books before the prices rocked to sky high.

Nora batty

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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #7 on: 18 April 2019, 11:05:15 am »
When I go for a massage, in a very respectful sports massage place, my undressing and dressing time is included in the hour I book. Is there a reason why you don't do this?

I don't think it's more about short changing or giving the client extra time.  It's more about the client getting the full happy ending time.  So deducting dressing time from happy time would be a big no for me.  But the massage time could be cut down to ensure the client gets a really good massage with a full happy ending time and still have time to dress.

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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #8 on: 18 April 2019, 11:21:45 am »
Just tell them at the beginning that you will start with the serious HJ 15 minutes before the end, and if they need more time than that, they need to tell you, now. (Or indeed if they know they will come in seconds.)
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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #9 on: 18 April 2019, 11:30:46 am »
So many take the piss with time but are too tight to pay for the time they actually want. I have had men trying to still delay coming when only 2 minutes left of the booking. The ones that do this and then struggle to cum and expect you to give extra free time are just awful people, if i get a professional massage as much as i am enjoying it when they say it has ended i get up and get dressed i would never expect or dare ask for a bit longer for free.

Unfortunately this is because sex workers in there mind is not classed as a proper job so they push many boundaries or try to.

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Re: Massage with HE clients not cumming in allotted time?
« Reply #10 on: 20 April 2019, 12:19:39 pm »
I had one laughing about how he had an escort very upset thinking she was bad or ugly because he could not cum.
He told me he can not cum when lying on his back but the escort did not know that and kept sucking and playing with him to prove she was not ugly and could make him cum.
Some clients are bullying freaks and playing on nice people

Times up get out 

I learnt the hard way after being too nice for too long