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jellib33

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Marrying clients?
« on: 19 November 2018, 01:24:27 am »
Hello everyone.

I was wondering if you know or have married a client. It is going to sound stupid like the movie pretty woman. I have a new client in his mid 30s and I find him attractive. I am in my late 20s. He has a successful career in the medical field, good looking. He said he is new to this and I figured since I don't have a boyfriend we have now become fuck buddies. I want to see if I actually have a chance or if I'm most likely getting played. Lol.
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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #1 on: 19 November 2018, 06:43:43 am »
Is your intention to marry this client?I think there's a few threads on here about relationships including clients.

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #2 on: 19 November 2018, 02:12:01 pm »
Has he asked you out?

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #3 on: 19 November 2018, 02:52:08 pm »
No but he mentioned the typical sailing date or ball. Of course this could be all talk as well, and right now we don't have that kind of relationship. He only comes over for a few hours to f*ck. lol think I am answering my own question
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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #4 on: 19 November 2018, 02:59:33 pm »
You get what you want out of this but don't have expectations
Is he paying you for Sex currently? Or is he getting it for free? 

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #5 on: 19 November 2018, 03:41:36 pm »
I think you need to decide if you are going to date him before you stat worrying about marrying him don't you?Bit of jumping the gun there!You might not even get on outside of a booking.

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #6 on: 19 November 2018, 06:38:29 pm »
Don't know the full story here.. But if he's coming over for sex and you met in a transactional relationship manner...
Then surely hes just taking the opportunity?
Not sure what this has to do with marriage but I don't want you to get hurt..

Ive had clients genuinely interested in me before and they would NEVER not pay for a session. They would ask me out on a date if they have developed feelings.
It's completely fine, a bonus really, to have affection but please never stop charging.
If you get a proposal that WON'T be because you gave it for free. The direct opposite usually happens..

I think you need to learn a bit more about how men think.

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #7 on: 19 November 2018, 10:07:43 pm »
I understand. He is coming by and we are having wild sex for free. I mean he is good looking but yes we can guess where it's heading :-X
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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #8 on: 19 November 2018, 10:14:57 pm »
I do know several escorts who have ended up marrying their clients but I think your getting a little ahead of yourself on this occasion since it doesn't even sound like your even formally dating and you yourself refer to him as a "fuck buddy".

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #9 on: 20 November 2018, 01:49:03 pm »
my friend married a client and he ended up noncing her daughter off, im not saying all clients are peados but be careful as you dont no what his intentions are. would u really want to marry a client? he could throw work in your face at any oppourtinty. if he cheated on u he would just think oh well she has sex with other pepole so its ok, xx
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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #10 on: 20 November 2018, 02:00:18 pm »
I know a friend of mine who married one of her white British clients (she’s black african) -the worse mistake of her life
He was physically and emotionally abusive towards her and child which she had from another guy ..always complaining she was giving him sex as much as he wanted.
He continued seeing other escorts and spending on them for overnights while my friend sat with her child no bills being paid.
He eventually threw her out n divorced her and tried to get her deported.
She’s back to escorting after three years marrying tht idiot.

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #11 on: 20 November 2018, 03:01:09 pm »
my friend married a client and he ended up noncing her daughter off, im not saying all clients are peados but be careful as you dont no what his intentions are. would u really want to marry a client? he could throw work in your face at any oppourtinty. if he cheated on u he would just think oh well she has sex with other pepole so its ok, xx

So could any other person punter or not.

It's a risk with anyone unless you don't ever tell them, then of course you are at risk of blackmail and further upset.

It is quite possible to form a relationship with a client, and marry them, just depends on the two people.

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #12 on: 20 November 2018, 03:37:30 pm »
Sounds like he’s taking advantage tbh. Be careful x ::)

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #13 on: 20 November 2018, 03:38:08 pm »
There's a few threads about relationships with clients, but where have you got the idea of marriage from? Is this something he's hinted at?

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Re: Marrying clients?
« Reply #14 on: 20 November 2018, 04:01:45 pm »
I understand. He is coming by and we are having wild sex for free. I mean he is good looking but yes we can guess where it's heading :-X

If you guys are only meeting for sex he's a fuck buddy as it hasn't moved into the dating territory yet. However you're already hearing wedding bells :-) Be careful of getting hurted and don;t forget fuck buddies can last for years as he has a good thing going on (for free). in the meanwhile I wouldn't invest emotionally in this guy, but hey ho enjoy the good sex while it lasts :-)
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