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elvis

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« on: 01 November 2011, 11:08:58 pm »
I've been given the run down by many of you now, and that there s just not that much work out there for a straight male escort.
I ve always been a little bi curious, and if the money was right, I d like to try it out.
How the hell do you go about starting out.
I certainly don t want to be sucking any old cock, it would have to be high end clientel.
Where do i start?





[Edited to remove all caps - there's no need to shout.]
« Last Edit: 01 November 2011, 11:10:45 pm by amy »

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« Reply #1 on: 01 November 2011, 11:21:32 pm »
We don't suck any old cock either, Elvis. But you should be able to do so provided said cock is clean - that's why the owner is giving you money. The idea that 'high end' clientele even exist, let alone are better than anybody else with the same amount of cash in his hand is bollocks.

The way to start out is by reading the main site to learn about the basics like setting up a website, tax and self employment, health and safety and all the rest of it. Have a look at who is advertising in your area and check through some of the directories (Gaydar and so on) to find out roughly what the average hourly rate is (it's likely to be lower than the female equivalent) and even set up an AW profile - I've heard from gay men that they actually had far more luck with the everyday AW site than it's sister site Gayswap, which is pretty quiet.

And I would seriously think about going out on the pull and getting some experience - Joe Punter isn't going to be that enamoured if he's handing you a fistful (no pun intended) of cash and you haven't got a clue what you're doing. You can market yourself in an 'I'm really straight and just desperate for cash' way and it'll work too (dress chavvy for full effect), but you'll have some nasty shocks in store if you go in completely blind.

There'll be folk along who know more than me in the meantime, but the main site should be your first port of call.
« Last Edit: 01 November 2011, 11:24:41 pm by amy »

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« Reply #2 on: 01 November 2011, 11:31:32 pm »
Hi elvis,

There's a few threads in this forum regarding "the myth of the male escort". The group of women out there willing to pay a guy in exchange for sex is very very tiny (if existant at all). There's quite a few scams websites out there promising you female clients in exchange of some fee. Please don't fall for these thieves. They prey on naive young men.

But...the best way is to find it for yourself. So why not give it a try, take some pictures, make a (free) website to start and get some ads out there as an indie male escort. Try the free listings, AW, Eros and try to find ways of marketing yourself as a male escort for women. Give it a shot (why not?). See if you get any responses. You have nothing to loose besides your time & energy. Do it as a little "side job" (don't even think in quitting your actual job).  You'll find out for yourself if there's a market for you.

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« Reply #3 on: 02 November 2011, 12:57:01 pm »
We don't suck any old cock either, Elvis. But you should be able to do so provided said cock is clean - that's why the owner is giving you money. The idea that 'high end' clientele even exist, let alone are better than anybody else with the same amount of cash in his hand is bollocks.

The way to start out is by reading the main site to learn about the basics like setting up a website, tax and self employment, health and safety and all the rest of it. Have a look at who is advertising in your area and check through some of the directories (Gaydar and so on) to find out roughly what the average hourly rate is (it's likely to be lower than the female equivalent) and even set up an AW profile - I've heard from gay men that they actually had far more luck with the everyday AW site than it's sister site Gayswap, which is pretty quiet.

And I would seriously think about going out on the pull and getting some experience - Joe Punter isn't going to be that enamoured if he's handing you a fistful (no pun intended) of cash and you haven't got a clue what you're doing. You can market yourself in an 'I'm really straight and just desperate for cash' way and it'll work too (dress chavvy for full effect), but you'll have some nasty shocks in store if you go in completely blind.

There'll be folk along who know more than me in the meantime, but the main site should be your first port of call.

I agree with Amy.  Trying it out for size, (pun intended) works for us ladies as well.  I would imagine that if you tried to back out from a gay encounter, being a man, the punter might not be as amendable as he might be for a lady.  Take care.

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« Reply #4 on: 02 November 2011, 06:14:44 pm »
If it was me, I'd actually book an experienced gay escort! Pay him for his time (a good couple of hours), and tell him exactly why you're booking him. He'll know exactly the kind of thing you'll be expected to do as an escort, and you can try those things with him. That way, if you hate it/can't do it, you're with someone who understands and it's not an awkward situation.

I think it's a worthwhile investment. Your other options are to just pull a gay man on a night out (a bit cruel in my opinion), or to pitch up for a client and hope for the best (like Pandora said, could turn nasty if you're not able to manage the booking, esp if the client's forked out for a hotel).

I think you need to know if you can do it before you take a booking on. Us ladies are lucky, a bit of lube and physically we're good to go, whether we're feeling it or not. You've got to get it up and keep it up! I'd rather lose a couple of hundred quid finding out I can't do it, than risk getting my head kicked in by an irate punter (or worse).

Keep us posted! xx

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« Reply #5 on: 02 November 2011, 08:46:58 pm »
If  you get the right look and do the right marketing, you will find that there is a market where male clients will pay to suck you without expecting the favour to be returned.

Whether it's you paying or being paid, 'a couple of hundred quid' is more than most male escorts can charge.



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« Reply #6 on: 02 November 2011, 09:15:04 pm »
Is it? Oh! Soz, I just based that on what I charge  ;D I knew male escorts got relatively less per hour but I didn't think there was that much variation really. You've missed a trick there, Richard, you could have jumped in and offered an appointment before he knew the real prices hahahaha (only joking! We don't rip our own off!)

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« Reply #7 on: 03 November 2011, 01:36:59 am »
I certainly don t want to be sucking any old cock, it would have to be high end clientel.

I do love this myth that charging higher prices automatically means better looking, cleaner clients. Soap and water is actually remarkably cheap and in my experience, you cant judge someones personal hygiene or their manners by the cash in their wallet.

R xx