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StarGirl90

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I feel like giving up before I've started :-(
« on: 15 July 2014, 08:47:02 pm »
I'm new to escorting and I want to do it independently.
I've signed up to AW but I just don't know how to use it its so complicated. I also don't have an incall place I would have to book hotels. I feel at a total loss with it all I just don't know where to start. Any help/advice would be much appreciated.

I'm in Leeds if that helps xx

amy

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Re: I feel like giving up before I've started :-(
« Reply #1 on: 15 July 2014, 09:15:07 pm »
Hello Stargirl and welcome to SAAFE :)

Whilst it's not ideal that you've already signed up to AW before doing your research, it doesn't sound as if you've read the main SAAFE site? There's a lot of info on there that ought to help you get started - read through there articles and you can start to plan your boundaries, rates, how you want to work and so on.

You can also find out a fair bit of general stuff using the Search box on the forum, and this includes specific help with Adultwork which you can have a plough through with the separate dedicated board at the top. If you can't find what you're looking for after all that we're all here to help :D.

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Re: I feel like giving up before I've started :-(
« Reply #2 on: 15 July 2014, 09:52:41 pm »
Also check the seeking / offering section of the forum maybe you can find an in call place.
And post an advert there too xx
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Re: I feel like giving up before I've started :-(
« Reply #3 on: 15 July 2014, 10:31:49 pm »
I know what you feel. I am still on the starting curve myself.
First was doing outcalls only, my place wasn't suitable for anything and money were important.
Then I have rented out decent apartment, but for safety reasons and for the area it is in, I cannot overdue with incalls (neighbours etc).
Now I will do some hotels, just to give it a go, and see if might do better money in it. But in my own town, it will not last forever.
Sooner or later I will need expensive incall apartment. So still long way to bigger income and piece of head.
I was banging my head against the walls many times, believe me, I am still doing it, but well, if it's long shot, must be done.
Keep strong, don't overspend and you'll be there sooner than later.
Hugs x


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Re: I feel like giving up before I've started :-(
« Reply #4 on: 15 July 2014, 10:55:37 pm »
I can relate. I don't use AW, but I know that the work can seem overwhelming and confusing and exhausting. When you're just starting out is the most discouraging time, I think. Like any new job, it takes time to get in the swing of things. All I can say is that after you nail your first couple of clients, at least in my experience, it gets a LOT easier. Good luck, hun! I'm sure you'll figure it out.