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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: loulou42 on 15 November 2016, 04:22:28 pm
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Hi i am desperately trying to know if your own lubrication during sex will still be present when using sponges or a diaphram.And which of these is best to use on or off your period.Thanks.
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Me personally am as dry as a bone when using sponges and have to use lube. I have a syringe I use to put lube high up. In couldn't have sex without it.
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Hey I use sponges and I still get wet enough for sex while its inserted
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Where do you buy these sponges. Ive never used them. Can a guy give u oral while you use them x
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I use beppy sponges, just google it, and no ones ever noticed its there.
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Is there a string to pull them out x
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You can always try make up sponges too (brand new of course and from an unopened pack, not one laying around gathering dust!). You can get wedge shaped ones or flatter foam types and cut them to shape. They don't come with anything to pull them out and you should only use them if you are confident that you can remove them (as they can be a little fiddly to remove). Wash hands and put some lube on the sponge and then inside you after you have inserted them. I'm not sure about leaving them in all day or to see multiple clients over a long period but for a 1 hour booking if you excuse yourself to quickly insert it (literally just before you do anything), then it should be fine in an emergency.
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Is there a string to pull them out x
No, you need to bear down from your cervix and hook it out with your finger. If you've ever used a diaphragm (or a mooncup) it's a similar technique.
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Never used anything like them at all. I wld be scared i wld lose them inside me. But saying that i have lost bookings cos of my period so they may be a good option. I take it i buy them online. Xx
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Yes, I get mine from Amazon. Tip: experiment with one when you DON'T need to use it, so you'll learn the technique and don't panic when you actually do need it :)