Author Topic: Married and not telling your husband (Read 3904 times)

ana30 · « **Reply #30 on:** 18 August 2021, 09:23:15 pm »

Hello OP,

So from what I'm gathering you have a husband who lives far away, doesn't provide (properly) financially for you, he's also not taking care of the kids physically or financially, he's also asexual and hasn't met your sexual needs for the last year. You're also stressing out that he might find out your escorting. You're in a no win situation. I'm not trying to be judgemental (because I don't know your story) but me thinks if you get a divorce (and alimony as you have 2 kids) your life would be so much less stressful. I understand that being indian a divorce is more complicated because of the traditional culture but you really don't need this guy.

Maz · « **Reply #31 on:** 19 August 2021, 01:47:18 am »

I'm speaking as a massive cynic when I say this (based on my escorting and personal experiences in the love/men/sex department), but fuck it - if you can get away with it and are happy enough then carry on and make sure you don't get caught. If possible, I'd divorce him in the long term though.

I don't know about others, but the majority of my clients have spouses and so for me, I don't see how anyone can pass judgment when we are making a leaving, either fully or partially, off (mostly) men that cheat.

TrueVoice · « **Reply #32 on:** 19 August 2021, 06:32:19 pm »

I would not say anything because you won t do it all your life.Some men live very well cheating on their partner.Family unity is more important than little secrets ,and anyway won t bring anything positive to both of you.

Femme fatale · « **Reply #33 on:** 19 August 2021, 08:30:58 pm »

You do not know what your husbands doing while away besides everyone has their secrets
Your doing nothing to harm anyone your making money to keep yourself afloat so to speak.
Do not guilt trip yourself please.

Harriet_Lille · « **Reply #34 on:** 31 August 2021, 10:15:44 am »

My (now ex) partner was with me from when I was 15 so he knew that I was getting into when I did first dip my toes in at 18, and he was fine with it. I was open with him about things, the good and the bad. It does help when they don't mind either. But some do mind. He was ok with it all the way through our relationship until our separation.
The point is, you can't keep it hidden forever, and if god forbid something bad happens, you need to be able to talk to your husband. He's your life partner and supposed to be your best friend, you can't keep it from him forever. You are going to have to open up and tell him.

lillybliss · « **Reply #35 on:** 31 August 2021, 03:28:07 pm »

H L, no she does not have to tell him as the lady comes from a completely different culture and could cause trouble for herself by telling him, so really the decision is for her to make, also it's great that your husband doesn't mind the fact you have been a whore since you were young but not everyone's the same.

indianwoman33 · « **Reply #36 on:** 13 September 2021, 11:40:47 pm »

Hi

I just want to say a thank you to all the ladies on here that have been so so kind and honest in their words. It really helps and you have no idea how much. Blessings to you.

lillybliss · « **Reply #37 on:** 14 September 2021, 06:57:08 am »

Hope you're doing ok x.

indianwoman33 · « **Reply #38 on:** 14 September 2021, 09:30:00 pm »

Yes thank you Lilly xx

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