Hi everyone,
I’m completely new to this so I’m hoping to soak up as much knowledge as possible from you lovely experts if I can!
I’m at square one and have a lot to learn, but don’t quite know where to start. I have a profile on AW and am planning on offering mild Domme kink-related sessions. This might change depending on how things go and evolve.
I have a few questions if that’s okay -
Is it a good idea to buy a second phone and have a pay as you go sim to arrange my bookings, rather than using my own number? Is that what everyone generally does?
How does everyone screen their booking requests? I read an article online that said to ask for a selfie with their driving licence or passport - is this too much to ask? I would have assumed it would put most clients off for fear of being outed or their identity used etc. What other ways I could screen potential clients?
Is it okay to work from my home address? If not, where/how do I work? I won’t be taking enough bookings to cover the cost of renting another property
I’ve considered the pros and cons of doing in calls and out calls
In call pros - no travelling, no risk of hidden cameras, I’m comfortable in my own home, I have a video intercom
In call cons - client knows my address and could turn up to cause issues, neighbours are sometimes nosy (I live in a block of flats and you have to walk past other people’s doors to get to mine) and I think they’d realise what I’m doing if I take more than a couple of bookings a week (does this/will this even matter.. how do other people deal with this?)
Out call pros - client doesn’t know my address
Out call cons - risk of hidden camera or additional people there, if I travel and they cancel it’s a waste of time and money, uncomfortable in unfamiliar surroundings
How do you try to keep yourself safe, for example if I have a client coming over, should I tell someone his name, number, what time the session is booked until and message them afterwards to let them know I’m okay? I’ve told one friend that I’m considering sex work and I’d be able to tell her, but she also has a life of her own and a job, so she may not see my messages instantly, and I can’t expect her to be my ‘look out’ forever.
If there are already guides and posts that cover these things, please could someone point me in the right direction, I really appreciate it. I’m sure I’ll have missed glaringly obvious things so please let me know absolutely anything and everything. Thank you for any advice and guidance!