I have lost all motivation to escort and think it is starting to show no matter how much of an act put on. The money is good but the leap from this to civy gets me.

Knowing how it will go gets me anxious. I have had opportunities but the amount of business missed throws me back.

I tried dealing with but would like any tips if so. Or if any have been in a similar situation.

Time is nearing with just uploading my cv. Before enough is enough. 

How did those escorts overcome any similar situation?.

I thought three days off refreshed me.

I still am polite but deep down am thinking what the hell with this. I give a good service as they are happy.

It is pushed to the back of my mind during bookings showing confidence.  Then wham bam after it all comes flooding back to me.

I used to enjoy escorting alot. I so want to get my mojo back. No matter how hard I try to progress some thing is missing.

Oh dear...

I like the suggestion of just seeing regulars, I might try that myself. I have also stopped providing some or the services that I dont enjoy. I used to offer some things that are outside or the norm, as it attracted lots of clients. I just can't do them any more.

The one thing that keeps me going is the thought that finally, at the age of 42, I can afford to get my teeth straightened. So, the money gives me a huge incentive to put my game face on and give a great performance!

Do you have a lot of long bookings? I much prefer the quickies and half hour appts to the hour long ones. When someone books in for an hour, I feel my heart sink. That's not because I dislike the guys, but I have a touch of ADHD, so staying focussed for an hour really exhausts me. Many of my guys have about 20 minutes sex and then the rest of the hour just chatting. That's what exhausts me.

Anyway, maybe it's burnout and you need a proper chunk of time off xx

Do you think having a month off would help and have a good relax?

If it is possible financially of course.

I do not have much motivation winter months but work harder spring/summer onwards.  Strange isn't it.

Hi MD,

Is it possible that just having three days off isn't really enough to get your mojo back? That's little more than just a normal weekend, and if you're burnt out that time goes in a flash.

As others have said, is it possible financially for you to take a longer break - maybe two or three weeks? You might feel better if you were able to have proper time away from escorting.

Especially as it's summer now and the weather is nice - it's hard to struggle on at work if you're not feeling it, knowing you could be outside relaxing or doing any other nice thing you want to do.

Might you be able to have a proper rest to weigh up your options? Aside from essential living costs it doesn't have to be expensive.... even reading a book in the park or sunbathing with a home made picnic is lovely and might give your mind a bit of a break. xx