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Amalia08

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stretching time...
« on: 04 August 2012, 02:13:18 pm »
Hi there,

I have a question concering 2 or 3 h bookings. What do you ladies do the whole time and how do you get punters prolong the date? my agency always asks if the guy wants me to stay longer. ..which is almost never happening. it even happens to me that i am done anhour earlier. I know that I provide good service (got the feedback from my clients) but i just dont know how to stretch the time.
I alway start with a glass of wine (max. 1 hour) and then its getting hard to stretch the time between couch and bed.(i m doing outcalls only).
does anyone have any ideas? I thought about taking a shower together or letting him take a bath. but thats also a bit strange to put him in his own bathtub...

cheers
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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #1 on: 04 August 2012, 02:24:30 pm »
Just an idea but why not take along a couple more sexy outfits and ask if he would like a
naughty fashion show?

Go into the bathroom and talk to him as you change behind the door.

Any guys who love our little sexy numbers will like this one, just as long as you don't
make it seem you are trying to waste time!
If you do it then get it right  ;)

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #2 on: 04 August 2012, 03:03:29 pm »
lonnnngggg chat.
long massage.
long dressing up session.with maybe fantasy roleplay
slow naughty stuff..
slow recover from your orgasm!! :-[
get dressed and go..x x

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #3 on: 04 August 2012, 03:32:15 pm »
I used to see how many times I could make them come in the set time (record was 6 times in 3 hours  ;D), I did find if you tried to stretch time, that it made it drag even more and it's easier to just act like you're really, really into it. I don't mean that you have to have someone pounding away at you for 3 hours  :o just have lots of slow 'sensual' sex, and try and create an intimate atmosphere (if possible). Keep all convo light and breezy. Yes chit chat is nice, but I always felt a bit guilty if it went on for too long as when I did 3 hour bookings the price I charged was the equivalent to what I got paid in my old part time job for 2 weeks work.

Just keep stroking and caressing the client, then use your mouth to get them hard again if they're struggling. They leave feeling like a stud, you leave with oodles of cash well earned  :P

Oh, but this is from someone who never did any 'dinner dates' - I really hate forced social situations and was just way happier taking my kit off and doing my thing. Horses for courses I s'pose!

Amalia08

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #4 on: 04 August 2012, 03:51:16 pm »
thanks for the ideas. I have a 3 h booking tonight. i saw him already once. he is totally into lingeie. i gonna bring some... its just, i am pretty new in the biz and i never did striptease or roleplay before in my lif...  ::)
wanna avoid awkwardness  of couse...  :P

Amalia08

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #5 on: 04 August 2012, 03:53:28 pm »
.. naughty stuff... like what for example? sorry  ;)am quite a newbie

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #6 on: 04 August 2012, 05:30:20 pm »
I had a 5hr booking once and he didn't want to leave the hotel room incase someone saw us.

I ended up getting in the shower with him and washing each other, giving him a back and scalp massage, foot rub and then moved on to the rude stuff, that was an hour gone.

If you don't mind clients going down on you and he is agreeable, encourage him to do this, then you can take some time to relax and just mmmm and aaaahhh occasionally. This could give you maybe half an hour, maybe more.

Then a slow bj, be teasing and drive him mad. Use long deep stroaks and use your tongue a bit.  Either let him finish that way, or better yet whip on a condom and let him do some work!  I could easily blow a guy for a full booking, and have done a full hour of oral only on a few occasions.  As long as you keep it sensual and occasionally bring him just to the brink, he will love this!

Let him enjoy the post o glow, if you had sex join him or if you finished him orally clean up, offer him a glass of water, get one for yourself then its cuddles and chit chat and just like that you're at the 2.5h mark or maybe more!

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #7 on: 04 August 2012, 05:42:10 pm »
Tie and tease (him being tied up) would also be good, if he's comfortable with it of course.

xx
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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #8 on: 04 August 2012, 05:44:52 pm »
My first bit of advice would be to not try and drag things out. Clients are not stupid and will not appreciate it as most will know.
Same with massage, alot of guys do not want it so ask before doing at as some see it as a timewasting measure.

Start with a drink and a bit of get to know what the other likes.  In a 3 hour booking most men will be looking at coming at the very least twice so go into it knowing that if it is a 3 hour booking you want him to cum within the first hour so that you have time for a brief break for him to recover before starting again.  So maybe start with some kissing and stroking, then slowly undressing each other, then gentle hand relief and oral (if both ways it is much better as passes more time) then first round of sex.  Have a rest so he can reawaken and then perhaps offer a joint shower or share a bath (bath is better as stops hair getting ruined).  Lots of sensual play and washing then drying off and back to bed for more oral, kissing and sex and your 3 hours are done
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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #9 on: 04 August 2012, 06:42:20 pm »
Personally the longest I'll do a "private time only" job with a new client is 2hrs - I'll OK with 3hrs if I know the client isn't going to expect 3hrs of non stop sexytimes.  Although I once did a 6hr private only booking with 30 mins off for dinner (room service)

I would definitely learn how to do a *good* massage, I usually spend 20-30 mins of a 2hr booking on this

You can also run a bath with candles and scented oils and share it at the start, for a nice intimate beginning (of course you can also tease them while in the bath)

Generally I expect clients on average to come 1-2 times in 1hr, 2-4 times in 2hrs, probably 3-4 times in 3hrs

If it's incall I would definitely have drinks snacks on hand.  And maybe a porno DVD on the TV

Amalia08

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Re: stretching time...
« Reply #10 on: 05 August 2012, 03:56:56 am »
.. just coming back from the booking. it was lovley. the client asked for a duo booking, which prolonged my booking for a few hours.. i had a great time  :)
btw i dont think that all clients expect to come that often. he just wante to come once and all the other ookings where just once... a lot of guys enjoy quality more than quantity... which makes it much more relaxed.
but i ll keep all your good ideas in mind for next time...thanx :)