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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Lauren993 on 15 April 2021, 03:36:16 pm
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Hi
My first post on hear after just recently finding out about this forum, I am in need of some advice please.
I have a regular client who has asked me to do a role play driving situation for him, he has a foot fetish which I have know problems with, we have had role okay situations before pretend dinner dates at my place at my table where I surprise him with some footsie under the table etc.
Anyway he has recently told me he has a “pedal pumping fetish” he explained to me what it was etc I said in conversation it sounds good and he has now asked me for it in a meet.
He wants me to drive my car with him in the passenger seat in some black heeled ankle boots so he can watch me work the pedals which I though I’m okay with that, but he has asked as well if he can go to a country lane somewhere quite and park on some grass or mud and get stuck so my wheels are just spinning and for me to act like a damsel on distress.
He said that I won’t be stranded has he will push me out and he has offerd a very good fee for this to happen.
I just wanted to know if anyone else has come across this before and for some advice, I don’t have to much of a problem doing it as he is a regular just never herd of this before.
Hope this all makes sense.
Lauren xx
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I've heard of this, have role played something similar using webcam (in my cam room not my car).
Is it worth it to get stuck?
I wouldn't put my car at risk.
Also my insurer told me carrying paying clients invalidates insurance, however you may not say this if asked.
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Just wanted to know if anyone has done it before, if so how it went and what should I expect. Iv never got my car stuck before xx
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Is he willing to push the car out of the mud once it gets stuck? he may be safe but the whole experience sounds stressful. Sounds like he's paying to see you stressed out.
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Is he willing to push the car out of the mud once it gets stuck? he may be safe but the whole experience sounds stressful. Sounds like he's paying to see you stressed out.
Yes he’s said he will push me out and I won’t be stranded, he wants the damsel in distress act kind of thing and wants to watch me “pump on and off the Pedals” trying to get unstuck
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Why don't you turn this round and consider what you would advise an escort who was asked to do this and was seeking advice.
Personally, I would not do this, it all sounds like too much hassle. And if you do decide to proceed, charge extra.
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My response would be 'fuck off', but if that's not your reaction I would charge him a shit ton of money.
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My response would be 'fuck off', but if that's not your reaction I would charge him a shit ton of money.
This.
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This is very detailed and I would need to amend it to suit my own needs. For a start, I wouldn't be using my own car. Not a chance!! You can wreck a car by messing about like this. Would his fee cover any repairs? A car write-off? ???
If he paid a high enough price (silly money, maybe an overnight fee?) I would meet him and swap over cars. If anything went wrong, it is him who has to get the Breakdown company in the middle of the night.
Also remember, you will be in a public place and potentially face other people's interest. If he has any intentions of shenanigans out there too, well the criminal offence and embarrassment factor alone would need around 10 grand minimum to compensate :[ (payable upfront of course >:D)
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Not a chance I would entertain this, mainly for the very good points Pheonix made above ^^^
He's not Superman so there's no guarantee that he could actually push the car out and then you could end up in a very embarrassing situation and worse case scenario, with a big bill for recovery/repairs.
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This is very detailed and I would need to amend it to suit my own needs. For a start, I wouldn't be using my own car. Not a chance!! You can wreck a car by messing about like this. Would his fee cover any repairs? A car write-off? ???
If he paid a high enough price (silly money, maybe an overnight fee?) I would meet him and swap over cars. If anything went wrong, it is him who has to get the Breakdown company in the middle of the night.
Also remember, you will be in a public place and potentially face other people's interest. If he has any intentions of shenanigans out there too, well the criminal offence and embarrassment factor alone would need around 10 grand minimum to compensate :[ (payable upfront of course >:D)
These are my concerns too, he has offered me to use his car but Iv only been driving just over a year so the though off driving a new car and the fact I would t be insured on his car made me think mine would just be easier, ass for things getting a little further he has been a weekly refuse for around 12 months since I started it’s just foot related with him, with me releasing him by hand before he goes so that’s not to much of a worry for me x
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These are my concerns too, he has offered me to use his car but Iv only been driving just over a year so the though off driving a new car and the fact I would t be insured on his car made me think mine would just be easier, ass for things getting a little further he has been a weekly refuse for around 12 months since I started it’s just foot related with him, with me releasing him by hand before he goes so that’s not to much of a worry for me x
This concerns me the most.
If you do it you have to be in control, and under zero pressure.
Does he, has he known you are a new driver?
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If you go ahead with this, full expect more ridiculous requests from him. Give them a cm and theyll take mile.
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If you go ahead with this, full expect more ridiculous requests from him. Give them a cm and theyll take mile.
This is the 2nd best advice a new Escort can be given (the 1st being money upfront of course)
and my thoughts exactly.
What next? Following you around Asda as you gently caress the new season Asparagus and fondle the sweet spuds for firmness?
He may be a trusted regular, but he's trying his luck big time ::)
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Is it really worth it? accepting this type of booking seems like it could be a lot of stress and a headache.
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Lauren993, I've just seen your post and I'm curious. Did you do it? He was asking you to put yourself in a position of difficulty in an isolated area.
I hope you are ok either way.
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Lauren993, I've just seen your post and I'm curious. Did you do it? He was asking you to put yourself in a position of difficulty in an isolated area.
I hope you are ok either way.
I haven’t done this yet as it’s been very dry everywhere, I think it’s more of a foot fetish thing if I’m honest as his main thing will be looking at my feet working the pedals wile I’m stuck and he wants me to wear block heel ankle boots,
I am good thank you x
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Although your unlikely to damage your car be aware it might sudde ly find traction.
Recall when I was in my early teens, went to a lake with some lads and when we came to leave the car would not grib up the grass slop. So we pushed, the car suddenly launched and ended up in a wall. Also make sure you have a back up plan incase the car gets stuck and the guy can't push it out.
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I could NOT be arsed with this. Far too likely to go wrong. You could easily get your car stuck.
Let him be content with watching you drive.
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I haven’t done this yet as it’s been very dry everywhere, I think it’s more of a foot fetish thing if I’m honest as his main thing will be looking at my feet working the pedals wile I’m stuck and he wants me to wear block heel ankle boots,
I am good thank you x
Glad you're good Lauren.
Please bear in mind what the negatives of his requested scenario are. I know it sounds like (fairly) easy money but sometimes they can be the worst in my own experience. Good luck though and if it happens, hope it goes brilliantly in your favour!x
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Glad you're good Lauren.
Please bear in mind what the negatives of his requested scenario are. I know it sounds like (fairly) easy money but sometimes they can be the worst in my own experience. Good luck though and if it happens, hope it goes brilliantly in your favour!x
Anything that involves me leaving my place never sounds like easy money?!
If you are willing to go through with it make sure you charge him plenty to cover all eventualities!
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Don't use your own car, you could ruin your car and you may have to pay some hefty repair bills. I would be scared that he may try to murder me and I wont be able to get away from him. You're taking a risk!
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Don't use your own car, you could ruin your car and you may have to pay some hefty repair bills. I would be scared that he may try to murder me and I wont be able to get away from him. You're taking a risk!
If he was going to murder her he can just as easily do it at their normal pla e of meeting?
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Does he know how long you have been driving for?
Maybe he is pushing the idea on you because you are a relatively new driver, he might suspect you will play 'the damsel in distress' more than a more experienced driver?
There is no telling that this won't snowball into more requests for meets such as this either which could put yourself and your car in a sticky predicament!
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If it dosnt make you comfortable and it's too much of a risk dont do it.
Hes just a punter not somone who is of any real value to you.
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I know a lot of ladies feel safe with regulars but youve always got to remember that you can’t trust any of these men, you only see him for 1 hour a week (I presume) and think about how easy it is for us to put up an act for an hour, it’s no different for a punter, my worry is the fact he wants you to go down a country lane and get yourself stuck where HE is the only person around to help you, anything and everything could go wrong here! I would advise you not to do it because he sounds like he’s taking advantage of your nature. Plus, like the other ladies said, what will it be next month? Getting yourself stuck on the hard shoulder whilst he’s the only one to come to the rescue. This sounds more than a foot fetish to me, sorry I hope that doesn’t sound harsh I’m just thinking of your safety
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I know a lot of ladies feel safe with regulars but youve always got to remember that you can’t trust any of these men, you only see him for 1 hour a week (I presume) and think about how easy it is for us to put up an act for an hour, it’s no different for a punter, my worry is the fact he wants you to go down a country lane and get yourself stuck where HE is the only person around to help you, anything and everything could go wrong here! I would advise you not to do it because he sounds like he’s taking advantage of your nature. Plus, like the other ladies said, what will it be next month? Getting yourself stuck on the hard shoulder whilst he’s the only one to come to the rescue. This sounds more than a foot fetish to me, sorry I hope that doesn’t sound harsh I’m just thinking of your safety
The so called 'Suffolk Strangler' was a very well known Punter in the area, with no previous issues or cause for concern.
He was a repeat customer of several of the women and they had visited his home and vice versa, if I remember correctly 🤔
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I've heard of this, have role played something similar using webcam (in my cam room not my car).
I think Ive had him!!