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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Mature and elegant on 29 September 2018, 06:21:54 pm
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Hello everyone. Throughout my whole career iv aonly seen men 30 and older because I'm 49 (Turning 50 ehhh the big 5-0 ) . But recently I decided to open up to all ages. 18 and up of course. I was just wondering if anybody here has advice on how to work with the younger side of the age bracket (18-25). Things they like, positions to be expected, do they ecpect MSOG lenth of time they usually book for, the amount of TW there are ect. Iv read alot abiut the subject through the forum but would like some more info. Thanks
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What is MSOG?
I'm 45 and nearly 46, and I couldn't care less how old punters are. I don't find any pattern specific to age in terms of bookings either - as with everything else some are a pleasure to deal with and others are not :).
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What is MSOG?
I'm 45 and nearly 46, and I couldn't care less how old punters are. I don't find any pattern specific to age in terms of bookings either - as with everything else some are a pleasure to deal with and others are not :).
Multiple Shots On Goal.
Quick Google reveals.
I find every person is different, age has very little relation to behaviour.
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I am older than the OP and have worked for a good few years now. I have never put age restrictions on my profiles and see the younger ones (very early twenties and even the occasional younger than that as long as he doesn't obviously look far too young and none have) from time to time as some young guys either want to tick an older woman off their list or just have a liking for them.
Most of the young ones I have seen as far as I remember have been no more virile or energetic than the older men. In fact some of those around 20-30 can be a bit lazy and selfish and are happy with the whole experience so the sex part isn't necessarily harder work.
Idiots and time wasters can be any age. The same for those who are naturally great at sex, any age can surprise you.
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I haven't noticed any patterns with regards to age and attitude, or whether they are TWs or what they are into sexually.
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I'm 51 and will see anyone from 18 up, though AFAIK I've only ever seen one teenager. I've seen quite a few 21-35, and they've all been fine (I do screen quite carefully to weed out the idiots, like most on here).
I actually enjoy the PIV side of sex, so if they want a few goes that's fine, but honestly, can't say I've noticed it makes all that much difference, i.e. most will pop once in 30m, maybe twice in an hour - more is pretty rare.
You probably just need to make your services clear, as I think perhaps if any generalisations could be made it's that porn has influenced the under-25s more, so some of them expect a shaved pussy, CIM, anal, facial etc. to be standard - you have to make sure they understand the type of booking they'll get from you.
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You probably just need to make your services clear, as I think perhaps if any generalisations could be made it's that porn has influenced the under-25s more, so some of them expect a shaved pussy, CIM, anal, facial etc. to be standard - you have to make sure they understand the type of booking they'll get from you.
Might you and/or others please be able to share some dialogue or 'script' to use during your booking process to test levels of understanding? I always worry about free phone wanks and need to get better at checking my services are fully understood. I also worry about coming across as 'bossy'.
Ta
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Thank you all for your posts. I have a booking tomorrow with a 24 year old who I'm sure is ligit he has mostly positive feedback. I'm so nervous! I haven't been nervous for a session in a long time
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The only age restriction I now have is no over 60's. Many of them are needy, phone pest pains in the ass who often want to go over the time and try emotional bollocks to get you to stay.
Script - surely you ask them what they want from the meet? And then you go from there. I have no set script as every call is different. Seasoned punters know how it goes so ask about things. Others, not so sure so talk a bit. The idiots I tell them to go away, think and come back to have an adult conversation. If they cannot talk about what they want, then there is no booking for me.
The wankers. You know they are doing it because of the breathing and the questions. I just tell them to go away, read my profile and then if interested come back to make a booking. The wankers will still try and get you to answer them. Or I twist the questions back to them, that confuses them.
Bossy. You have to be bossy in this business. Too nice and that's when they take the piss, become phone pests and boundary pushers.
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Thank you all for your posts. I have a booking tomorrow with a 24 year old who I'm sure is ligit he has mostly positive feedback. I'm so nervous! I haven't been nervous for a session in a long time
Best of luck. ;)
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I think it's just a case of making everything as plain as possible in your profile or your FAQ. If they have any questions (and they always will) just try to gauge whether they've actually looked at your profile recently.
Punter: Have you got an hour appointment for 10:30?
Me: Yes. Can I confirm you've read my profile and know what's on offer and what isn't?
Punter: Yep.
Me:OK, please call me at 9:00 to confirm the booking
Punter calls at 9:00: Definitely coming. Where are you?
Me: (I decide whether I like him. If so....) That's great, so just to check you're looking for a full personal service for one hour and you understand that everything is covered.
Punter: Yes, that's fine/Wtf?
Me: (accepts the respectful guy and blocks the other)
That's just an example because like Someone says, every call is diifferent.
Look out for questions such as 'what are you wearing', ' what will you do to me' etc. These are not serious questions and the guy is probably just having a wank. Cut him off so you can free your line for genuine enquiries!
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I generally prefer seeing guys who are over 30, but it's not about the sex, more that they can have a sensible conversation once the sex is done.
I accepted a booking with a 19 yr old once and once he'd come it was just DEAD. He very clearly realised he wasn't going to go twice but we were only 15 mins into the hour. So I relentlessly wittered at him for a good 20 mins, culminating in this gem:
Me: I love working in this location because there's every type of food within 10 mins drive, especially my fave, Japanese. What type of food is your favourite?
Him: I dunno, whatever my mum puts on the table.
😐😐😐
Hope your booking went okay OP!
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The only age restriction I now have is no over 60's. Many of them are needy, phone pest pains in the ass who often want to go over the time and try emotional bollocks to get you to stay.
The problems I have with that age bracket is they might have issues using a smartphone so the comms are bad, texts might be unintelligible or in screaming caps. They are more likely to be a little weird i.e. you can just feel them staring at you with heart eyes or asking personal questions. I prefer the guys who just fuck and leave.
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Update: I had a good time, he was really sweet and pretty good looking. My only complaint is he was very selfish, but after years in this line of work iv come to expect AND understand that. They are paying for a service they should get what they want. I was curious why he chose to book with me and he told me honestly it was because of my age and bum ( I am very proud of it, it's my one feature that stayed in tact all these years). So after getting to know another, and some foreplay I went down on him. He was shaved which is something I'm not used to and I kinda loved it. It gave me good access. After that i suited up and rose CG. After maby about 30 seconds he asked for RCG. I was little upset because I liked watching his face react to me riding him. So we did that for awhile, then he asked for doggy (this boy could not stop stairing and grabbing my ass). We did that for awhile I asked if he wanted to try anal but he has no desire to do so. Finished him off on my breasts. Gave him a kiss goodbye and he was off. So it turned out everybody is right, there really is no difference in sessions with youngers, every man is different not considering their age. Only noticeable differences was the dirty talk was different ( id throw in a "good boy" or "keep going stud") and his load was muchhhhh larger than your typical load. It just kept shooting lol
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Yea the load can sometimes be surprising. I have a toyboy and he still surprises me on occasion with how much he shoots even though it's not his first load. So what I would advice is with the guys in their 20's, because there can be a lot, and it just shoots everywhere is avoid facials, and even when aiming for boobs be aware of how you are both positioned. Haven't had that issue with older guys.
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Yea thank God he didn't ask for CIM. I offered it too lol. I don't think I woulda been able to handle it
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This just reminded me of a booking I had the other day. I was finishing the guy off with my hand and when he shot his load it landed all over his face ;D and there was loads of it. ;D
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Yes those younger guys can really shoot their load and some accidentally landed on my face which I was not expecting the other week so not the best as I like to be prepared for a facial by wearing glasses to protect my eyes ....
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One of my young ones managed to get it up my nose. We we both crying with laughter at that one. The youngest client I've seen was an 18 year old and the oldest was 77. So far in my experience it's the older ones who expect every minute of a booking to be taken up with something sexual. The young ones have been more intimidated and shy, much more so than I owuld of thought.
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I've had several loads up my nose and one in my ear!
Glad your booking went well OP!