I need some help with my feelings and my reservation about a booking this Saturday. A new client asked if I had experience of ball busting. I told a white lie and said yes, but I’ve never done it before.

I can’t afford to turn away the money but am now having second thoughts. I assume I just slap his balls or lightly kick him. Then I thought shit what happens if I injure him ?

If I go ahead I could just ask him how to do it. But that’s not very professional.

Firstly, are you sure he is genuine? If he is and he likes what he’s asked for then he will enjoy the pain.

Thanks so much for the advice
Yes he seems genuine. I have just messaged him about any possible injury while we are together. He just replied that he is 47 and already has two children !!
Perhaps he has just used that term to mean CBT anyway, although I don’t have experience of that either

I no longer do any domination type bookings but did many some years ago and enjoyed them but the one activity which I never felt comfortable with was ball squeezing and inflicting pain on them. Imagining the possible damage or injury was awful. However if these men truly enjoy being hurt that way then it's their call. 

OP let's hope he's genuine and all goes well for you (both) if so and good luck!

It's a porn genre.

If you avoid things like heavy boots, the risks are minimal especially as you will be starting gently. If it's just been a fantasy, the reality may well be too much and it may be worth having a bowl to hand just in case they want to throw up, but if it's something they've done before, they will know their limits and will guide you as to how much harder they want it.

There are several ways to do it:

1. Them standing, legs apart. You stand the around the distance of your leg away and kick appropriately, either by standing on one foot, other leg's thigh parallel to the ground and then use that leg for the kick, or do a 'I'm a football goalkeeper punting the ball away' action and use the whole leg. The latter is harder to control though.

You can tie their wrists to a door via 'over the top' straps which means a) you can spin this out and b) they're not going to hurt themselves collapsing on the floor.

2. Them kneeling in front of you while you're seated, knees apart. Again, get the distance right and it's easy.

If you tie their hands behind them here, there is a risk of them keeling over (but they've got less far to fall!) so you can just have them put their hands on top of their head when they're ready for the next strike.

You can also have them move on their knees forward to 'assume the position' each time. Have something on a hard floor - even dried pulses - and that'll hurt them too.

3. Have them on their hands and knees (or that, but lowing their head to the floor) facing away from you. It's easier with you seated, but you can also do it with you standing. Has the advantage that their penis doesn't get in the way and is probably the easiest way for a beginner to be on the giving end.

Again, you can have them move to the right position when they're ready for the next one.

Doubtless other positions exist...

Barefoot = less impact, but your toenails can complicate things. Light shoes can make it harder for you to judge the force of impact. They may well have a preference, and if so, will usually say.

Get them to sign a disclosure that they actually asked for this?

Very shaky legally, it's actually not possible to consent to your own assault - old law still exists.

Very shaky legally, it's actually not possible to consent to your own assault - old law still exists.

I’m still worried about this. I obviously have messages between us as proof. I’m going ahead with the booking and I’m just going to be really gentle to start with

Thanks for everyones advice and help, especially xw5. I had the session today and it all went well.

As soon as he arrived he got on all fours and told me to sit on a chair. He provided his own paddle. I slapped his balls and he told me when he required it harder. I was quite surprised how hard I was hitting him in the end.

I didn’t want to risk hurting my toes or damaging my nails so I wore my gym trainers for the next part. He was happy with my choice and he just stood with his legs apart. It was more difficult than I thought getting the distance right. I wish I had played football at school as my co-ordination wasn’t great 

He left happy and said he would rebook in a few of weeks time. I’m hoping he does.

Cutelsa

Good to hear he was genuine and it went without problems.  You must be quite relieved! 🙂

Glad it went well.