Hi girls, I've been trawling through review sites and realised that I offer very limited services compared to other SPs. Other than the obvious I only offer DFK and COB. I've recently decided to offer unprotected RO and OWO to regulars which I feel is already taking a big risk but if I don't offer these basic services I'm worried I can't justify my price. I think clients would be turned off if I suddenly whipped out a mint-flavoured dental dam when we're about to do the deed. Do you charge more for offering riskier services like CIM, A-levels, rimming etc? Are you worried about the health risk?

I think it's a personal thing and it's hard to say what is GFE & what's PSE in this day and age
I consider what i do is GFE but other would say it's probably more PSE  but to me it's Definitely a GFE service I do owo CIM french kissing toyshow reverse oral 69. To me it's pretty bog standard stuff for Sex work

I don't do anal / water sports Rimming  hard sports gagging and this is what I would say is more of a PSE service but I do offer mild Dom. strap on tie and tease , role play

Some will say that GFE has to include proper French kissing, & owo others will say it doesnt matter

Like I said it's hard to bloody tell so probably not much help
But I would only ever do what I felt comfortable with

I think it's a personal thing and it's hard to say what is GFE & what's PSE in this day and age
I consider what i do is GFE but other would say it's probably more PSE  but to me it's Definitely a GFE service I do owo CIM french kissing toyshow reverse oral 69. To me it's pretty bog standard stuff for Sex work

I don't do anal / water sports Rimming  hard sports gagging and this is what I would say is more of a PSE service but I do offer mild Dom. strap on tie and tease , role play

Some will say that GFE has to include proper French kissing, & owo others will say it doesnt matter

Like I said it's hard to bloody tell so probably not much help
But I would only ever do what I felt comfortable with

My services are pretty much the same as Paris except I don't do CIM and I give watersports.

But agreed, it's a personal decision and only do what you are comfortable with....getting more clients isn't worth fucking your head up for....on one occasion I was new and really needed cash so I agreed to something I wouldn't normally have done...although the client was nice enough and everything else was fine I was upset after which I hadn't expected...I felt like I'd sold my soul for ?75. and it took me a while to get over that.  So have your boundaries and stick with them.

I can't imagine anyone particularly enjoys giving or receiving RO using a dam, and the health risks for us are incredibly low anyway. Likewise receiving rimming (whereas giving is definitely risky). I think OW vs OWO comes down to choice - there is a market for both, and I personally wouldn't reduce or increase my prices if I switched between the two.

Only you can really gauge what price point you feel comfortable at it, but it comes down to pragmatism at the end of the day in my view - you either get enough work or you don't. All other factors being equal (age, build, location etc.) I think it's fair enough that someone who offers PSE with anal, CIM, deepthroat etc. as standard/inclusive charges more than someone who does a vanilla GFE, but we all have our particular likes, dislikes, total no goes and so on.

Stating the obvious but the other thing is of course to go for regular screens, no matter what you do.

Personally speaking, I date women in my personal life and I find dams erm... I'd probably get up and get dressed, but that's just me. That's from personal experience of giving and receiving oral from it. But everyone is different and it is a comfort thing, what I may say 'absolutely no chance' at may be just right for you. And no, I don't charge extra - what you see is what you pay. Like MM says, I get regularly checked (including throat swabs) so I don't worry about STDs and still have an active sex life with my other half.

I don't offer A-Levels, if you go anywhere near there I will react unpleasantly because you've just assumed I'll be okay with that. In my personal life I actually enjoy aspects of anal but that's with a partner I trust. I do offer OWO, but not CIM. Won't allow fingering, too personal; I do allow RO and 69. Toys on me won't happen in a million years - too personal.

Naturally I am quite dominant so I tend to attract clients who want to be submissive as that's a role I feel quite happy in - I offer mild Domination but I'd like to look more into harder Domme as I do have elements of it in my personal life. It is something I get asked about, I just don't want to use my own things on clients plus obviously male bodies are different to female bodies even beyond obvious things like CBT. I offer strap on, feminisation, cross dress, tie & tease, mild bondage etc. Personally I'd like a two bedroom apartment - one for a boudoir, one for a dungeon just your average neighbour! Quiet girl. Never bothers anyone. Never plays loud music. Lovely woman. Next door *thwack* "you have disappointed your Mistress!"

I would consider myself GFE though with a very strong lean towards Domination type services; I've always done what I feel comfortable with. If I tried to be, say, submissive, it wouldn't work - clients know what they're getting when they come to me. This has been longer than I meant it to be, but the chances are they're booking you because you - by existing - are not vanilla. You are the sexy woman in the photographs; the voice on a phone; you're already a fantasy in someone's head. People don't tend to fantasise about vanilla*, although for the client who wants you dangling from the ceiling whilst giving him a foot job and wearing PVC whilst humming Simon & Garfunkel, there are the clients who really do just want a bit of 'normal fun' (their words, not mine). Do what you feel comfortable with, because if you start doing things because you think you should, you run the risk of messing yourself up psychologically imo.

_{* some vanilla things are amazing though. Have you ever craved a McFlurry? Vanilla. There you go.}

I think you need to charge the prices you want to and do the services you want to and not think about what you don't do but what you do do and accentuate the positives.

Don't feel you are offering less than others ever, you will appeal to clients for your own reasons- fothers things will make you valuable to a client such as your location, parking, lovely flat, nice smile, great body, sense of humour, beauty, good comms, good pictures, reliability, your nationality, great hair, being really fucking good at the things you do offer and so on- not as 'sexy' some of those reasons, but they are real things that men look for in an escort and those are the things they are paying for as much as a range of services.

Focus on the positives of what you do and don't worry about what you don't do compared to others. Doing things you don't want to will make you miserable.

you offer RO but consider rimming a risky service? am i missing something here?

you offer RO but consider rimming a risky service? am i missing something here?

I'm not sure... I don't consider receiving oral or rimming to be that risky to me, but giving rimming definitely.