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wishlist

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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #15 on: 05 March 2017, 07:11:49 pm »
Quote from: Kay on 05 March 2017, 06:36:13 pm
I'm not sure... I don't consider receiving oral or rimming to be that risky to me, but giving rimming definitely.

no neither do i.....my point being exactly that  ???
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Miss_Lorrainne

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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #16 on: 05 March 2017, 07:41:12 pm »
Quote from: Wailing Banshee on 05 March 2017, 11:51:54 am
I think you need to charge the prices you want to and do the services you want to and not think about what you don't do but what you do do and accentuate the positives.

Don't feel you are offering less than others ever, you will appeal to clients for your own reasons- fothers things will make you valuable to a client such as your location, parking, lovely flat, nice smile, great body, sense of humour, beauty, good comms, good pictures, reliability, your nationality, great hair, being really fucking good at the things you do offer and so on- not as 'sexy' some of those reasons, but they are real things that men look for in an escort and those are the things they are paying for as much as a range of services.

Focus on the positives of what you do and don't worry about what you don't do compared to others. Doing things you don't want to will make you miserable.



Thanks for your responses girls! I forgot that services are just one (albeit an important) aspect that clients look for and you're right that I should focus on doing better in what I offer than try to offer a something I feel uncomfortable about. I can't perform well if I don't enjoy it. I'll be absolutely clear about my boundaries when I communicate with clients and that should avoid any disappointments.

Off-topic, the services I mentioned (and others) are low-risk compared to BB but you can still be infected. 
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Luciexx

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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #17 on: 06 March 2017, 04:51:10 pm »
Quote from: Miss_Lorrainne on 04 March 2017, 08:56:43 pm
Hi girls, I've been trawling through review sites and realised that I offer very limited services compared to other SPs.

Another question is, "Do escorts trawl through review sites?"   I do admire your efforts, though... :)
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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #18 on: 06 March 2017, 07:25:41 pm »
I offer an extremely limited service excluding OWO, CIM, A-Levels and even Kissing of any description yet I charge at the higher end for my area because I won't work for less. Guys still book me. Your fee doesn't reflect your services it reflects how much you are willing to take in order to offer any service to a stranger.

Don't feel pressured to be a performing seal just because you believe you are expensive and charge extra for anything you wish to. Also don't attempt to imitate other women they work one way but you have to work your way.

Good luck in finding your balance.
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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #19 on: 06 March 2017, 08:27:19 pm »
Quote from: Luciexx on 06 March 2017, 04:51:10 pm
Another question is, "Do escorts trawl through review sites?"   I do admire your efforts, though... :)
I don't trawl! But trawl is also a word I use but yes I look. Hey I know all the advice is don't look but I can't help it. A bit like picking my nose lol
I certainly don't read every word on there unlike here.
I started off working with no knowledge of either of these sites, no friends in the business ( that I know off ) stumbling along, doing what I thought was right ( but was mostly wrong ) and found the other site first.
Yes, I learned quite a lot.  :o
Then I found this site and learned even more...  ;D
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Naughtyforty

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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #20 on: 06 March 2017, 08:41:36 pm »
Sorry Amy. Bit off topic
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Luciexx

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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #21 on: 06 March 2017, 10:27:31 pm »
Quote from: Naughtyforty on 06 March 2017, 08:27:19 pm
I don't trawl! But trawl is also a word I use but yes I look. Hey I know all the advice is don't look but I can't help it. A bit like picking my nose lol
Then I found this site and learned even more...  ;D

Picking my nose.   ;D  Love the analogy.  I appreciated your input on this, Naughtyforty.   :D This thread was such an eye opener.  I'm often quite naive, the last one to notice things, which go on behind the frontline escorting scenes. 

I also find that a client cannot dictate escorts as to what to offer or pressurise escorts for more services to offer unless he is her "pimp", which is widely known to be illegal.  There are reasons why some people do not offer or receive uncovered services.  There are hundreds of strains of hpv viruses, for example.  There are viruses which are implicated for crippling certain functions in your immune system/associated with triggering autoimmune diseases, besides risks of catching known STDs.  There are some anecdotal stories that certain healthcare workers are prone to inflammatory diseases, potentially as a result of unusually high exposure to human body fluids etc.   Nobody knows or nobody studied the long term effects of these uncovered services.   Knowing these odds, it has to be a personal choice. 



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Re: Limited Services?
« Reply #22 on: 06 March 2017, 11:09:36 pm »
Just do what your comfortable with and charge what your comfortable with, that way you will only attract the clients you want and be paid what you want to be paid, if you start doing things you consider to be risky, your clients will feel your awkwardness , there are clients for all services x
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