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lauren.nico2020

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Limited services
« on: 18 December 2023, 02:55:55 pm »
Hey girlies , so most might of seen what happened to me afew months back, I had my first bad expierence with a customer. It’s totally knock me . I’m so paranoid now with new customers , and I really don’t like them touching me atall. So what do I say when someone rings me up and says can I do this and that .. and I don’t allow it, but I also don’t want to drop my prices.
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KirstyKiss

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #1 on: 18 December 2023, 08:51:13 pm »
Doesn’t your profile state the services you do and not offer?

If they ask for something you don’t offer you just say no (before they book).

Screening is very important to get rid of boundary pushers and timewasters.
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DBLM

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« Reply #2 on: 18 December 2023, 11:15:39 pm »
You can offer very limited services and high prices.
Be excellent at the things you do and take control of the situation.
Then make sure it is spelled out clearly in your profile.

Refer everyone to your profile/website and they will know. There is no need for endless discussions over and over. People who are genuinely going to turn up will have read about your service and just contact you to make a booking.
Questions - generally mean they are timeswasters.

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Flo

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« Reply #3 on: 19 December 2023, 12:19:23 am »
I agree with DBLM. I have always been very open about the things I don't do (it's specifically mentioned) and my rates are hovering slightly around or above average. Don't feel bad about your rates, sexual services are still a luxury!
The key is to be clear about the things you do well and use your marketing to attract the type of client you want. Are you good at kink, massage, perfect blowjobs? Are you sensual and patient with older clients? Do you have any speciality or niche? There is a lot of scope to limit the amount of contact you allow a client. You'd be surprised at how many like to be tied up and teased! Perhaps you could think about massage or sensual dom services if you need a break from full service.
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lauren.nico2020

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #4 on: 19 December 2023, 12:28:38 pm »
Quote from: KirstyKiss on 18 December 2023, 08:51:13 pm
Doesn’t your profile state the services you do and not offer?

If they ask for something you don’t offer you just say no (before they book).

Screening is very important to get rid of boundary pushers and timewasters.

My area is predominantly viva street based so you can imagine the calls I get 😂 people don’t read my services and what I offer , so will constantly ask my prices and services . I do have a AW , but it’s completely dead, a couple of feedback that’s it ,
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lauren.nico2020

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #5 on: 19 December 2023, 12:30:30 pm »
Quote from: Flo on 19 December 2023, 12:19:23 am
I agree with DBLM. I have always been very open about the things I don't do (it's specifically mentioned) and my rates are hovering slightly around or above average. Don't feel bad about your rates, sexual services are still a luxury!
The key is to be clear about the things you do well and use your marketing to attract the type of client you want. Are you good at kink, massage, perfect blowjobs? Are you sensual and patient with older clients? Do you have any speciality or niche? There is a lot of scope to limit the amount of contact you allow a client. You'd be surprised at how many like to be tied up and teased! Perhaps you could think about massage or sensual dom services if you need a break from full service.


The dom services sounds brilliant, do you have to take lessons or classes for domination as that’s one thing I’ve never done
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Flo

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #6 on: 19 December 2023, 02:05:07 pm »
I think it depends... If you wanted to become professional dominatrix working from a dungeon then you would probably want some lessons on how to use the equipment and how to conduct a session safely. I just do mild sensual domination, tie and tease, light spanking etc
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lauren.nico2020

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #7 on: 20 December 2023, 06:02:51 am »
Quote from: Flo on 19 December 2023, 02:05:07 pm
I think it depends... If you wanted to become professional dominatrix working from a dungeon then you would probably want some lessons on how to use the equipment and how to conduct a session safely. I just do mild sensual domination, tie and tease, light spanking etc

Where did you learn that if you don’t mind me asking , I would deffo like to try something diffrent 
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Mirror

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #8 on: 20 December 2023, 06:14:37 am »
Quote from: lauren.nico2020 on 20 December 2023, 06:02:51 am
Where did you learn that if you don’t mind me asking , I would deffo like to try something diffrent

I learned from the right clients who just happened to either want to go in that direction or had a lot of experience eg a masochist who taught me everything he knew about being caned.

I then took an online full day lesson from an established Domme (who also offers them in person but it was lockdown and I am a long way from most cities).

Fetlife can be a good resource.

There's a kink & fetish 'alternative' event in London with workshops, attended an off shoot of theirs closer to my location pre-pandemic, then one in London post pandemic - they also have a YouTube channel with useful talks on it particularly about consent etc which is really important (and not quite what you might think).
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KirstyKiss

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #9 on: 20 December 2023, 04:16:01 pm »
Quote from: lauren.nico2020 on 19 December 2023, 12:28:38 pm
My area is predominantly viva street based so you can imagine the calls I get 😂 people don’t read my services and what I offer , so will constantly ask my prices and services . I do have a AW , but it’s completely dead, a couple of feedback that’s it ,

That’s why I don’t use VivaStreet. Claim to be a sex worker advertising site but you can’t actually describe your services. Ludicrous.

I don’t have time to answer one million questions from the people who use it and can buy a lawnmower on the next page.

Can you not perhaps update or revamp your AW profile?
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MissElvira

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #10 on: 23 December 2023, 11:40:58 pm »
I stayed very clearly on my profile what I enjoy andcencourage and very clearly state what I don't like and don't offer. If a guy trys to finger me I tell yhem I don't like it, I'm a bossy vocal women in bed and although for Escorting I'm the dream Girlfriend experience I have learnt that men need instructions on what you like. I don't offer PSE or anything I don't like and I get respectful guy's.

The older guys like the sensual GE and tie and tease and french kissing which I prefer and they love stockings and suspenders.
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fallen angel

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« Reply #11 on: 26 December 2023, 09:49:30 pm »
Quote from: MissElvira on 23 December 2023, 11:40:58 pm
I stayed very clearly on my profile what I enjoy andcencourage and very clearly state what I don't like and don't offer. If a guy trys to finger me I tell yhem I don't like it, I'm a bossy vocal women in bed and although for Escorting I'm the dream Girlfriend experience I have learnt that men need instructions on what you like. I don't offer PSE or anything I don't like and I get respectful guy's.

The older guys like the sensual GE and tie and tease and french kissing which I prefer and they love stockings and suspenders.

I am very much the same but struggle with the french kissing. I find that the majority of guys just don't meet my standard of oral hygiene for this service.
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Mel

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« Reply #12 on: 31 December 2023, 11:56:13 pm »
I recommend to offer limited services. Perhaps even no intercourse at all. Perhaps nothing what goes close to female lower parts. Perhaps even not being completely naked. Just doing something with the man. Whatever you feel good with. Before the date: ask him what you offer. So you can figure out if he was reading your profile. In the end of the call repeat it. E.g. Ok, tomorrow, we will me for 30 mins. This will be a (service) date. And tell something about the atmosphere. E.g. my appointmets are a date. I am not offering role play or bdsm. Just example. Be formal as long as possible. Do not animate. If the guy does not want to meet you this is fine. Some women beliefe every call is a potential date. It is not. And this is better to believe. Things can go wrong if you have no ideas about your potential target group.
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Peggy

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #13 on: 09 January 2024, 12:45:19 pm »
I started offerring sensual pegging with lots of kissing and prep and guys seem to love it.
I also offer GFE plus massage.
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Lara123

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Re: Limited services
« Reply #14 on: 19 January 2024, 03:17:53 pm »
If they're ringing you up asking explicit questions they're guaranteed to be a timewaster x
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