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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: EvelynWho on 17 September 2019, 12:20:24 pm
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Do you have a limit to the amount of condoms you will allow per booking?
Yesterday I had a client plough through 5 in a half hour session.
And not for the first time, at least once a week a client will use well over 2/3 condoms in a short amount of time.
If it’s a longer booking I’d expect to use maybe 3/4 for 1.5hrs +.
But for hh it seems silly to be getting through so many ?!!
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I’d understand obviously if they snap or break, fine.
But yesterday it was a case of, first he touched it after touching his penis.
Second one he put on while I was washing my hands.
Thirdly he went soft and it rolled off onto the floor.
Fourth one he said was feeling too tight.
Fifth lasted about 20 seconds before he took it off to cum anyway.
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Am I just being a snappy whore today? Is it just what comes with the job, getting through mega packs of condoms every few months. ? Lol xx
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No, I'd be annoyed with an idiot like yours, but they're not exactly expensive given our hourly rate, and I rarely have less than 120 in the house.
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No, I don't limit them. And it's not like a lot of us pay supermarket prices for them, or don't bother putting them down as an expense.
I do know someone like that though op. Goes through them loads. In his case too much coke.
Only reason how I know is that he asks me to add more to my order.
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If too many condoms are used I know there's something wrong with the session, my management, his expectations or his hydraulics. One is all I need 99% of the time, but usually I have a spare, for example the rare times there's some anal/vag action involved. But one is the norm. I have a strict cross contamination prevention procedure so don't allow clients touching condoms my hand is always on it. Unopened condoms are hidden out of sight and out of their reach so they can't pick them up. If Mr floppy visits I don't continue with penetrative sex or covered oral, and I tell them that's my decision, I then swap to handjob. They're fine with that.
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Often they go soft so condom comes off to assist them getting hard again before the next one used it can happen only 2 or 3 times at worst but I have enough supplies.
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5 is excessive, absolutely. In 30 minutes? I'd have been PISSED OFF. After 2 I start giving them the side eye, lol.
There's a cpl stories floating around on a monger/punter site I lurk on about girls charging $25 for the 2nd condom🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️, which if true, is awful. Enough guys have chimed in, in agreement that I'm inclined to think it's true & not an urban legend, but it's just 1 more thing to make the rest of us look bad. Apparently their ads are saying MSOG but if they want that 2nd fuck, hey! Cough up another $25! It's upselling during the session & man, the clients hate that, plus it's sneaky.
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Yeah that may seem a lot but it would never annoy me or even bother me. It’s just part of the job and better to be safe so I don’t really see the issue.
I buy a pack of 144 for about £16 so that’s 11p each. 55p worth of condom is really nothing to worry about :FF haha
Maybe you’re buying them in an expensive way?
I use mates and buy a big boxes off amazon
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No but if someone is changing it all the time that would mean he's either not relaxing, too busy distracting trying out different things, or I'm unsuitable for him ie he's not requiring the type of GFE I clearly advertise!!!!
I find multi-condom bookings balance out with those who don't require a condom because they don't involve intercourse. A little like the overrunners which balance with those who voluntarily leave bang on or within booked time, although to be honest I find the over runs tend to win if I let them.
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I don’t have a limit in terms of how many condoms I’m willing to get though per session - safe sex is the priority, right? But, that said, I always put them on myself because I don’t trust the guys to do it right!
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I do not use as many as that but safety wise if putting a condom on and a bit of pre cum goes on it from there stomach i will remove it. But to do with if they have touched there penis or i have and then get a condom out i think i have not taken notice of that. There was a time where i was worried about every little encounter but i thought at the time i was too picky and it became hard work remembering these little details and being paranoid but i have never caught a STD.
I do like them to wash there hands before booking starts as fingers and nails carry a lot of crap.
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Wow Celeste! I did a multi job and the client booked the other girl while I was there. We checked out the escort sites together and he picked. She arrived they went to the bedroom and he came out a 20 minutes later asking me for a condom, she only brought one...supposedly. I had tons but didn't want to bugger up her control strategy. So I pretended I'd run out, it's not my place to interfere with other girls work. As Sir Robert Bryson Hall II says, 'I don't fuck with nobody'.
MSOG, just googled it! Multiple Shots on Goal lol ;D
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Wow Celeste! I did a multi job and the client booked the other girl while I was there. We checked out the escort sites together and he picked. She arrived they went to the bedroom and he came out a 20 minutes later asking me for a condom, she only had one...supposedly. I had tons but didn't want to bugger up her control strategy. So I pretended I'd run out, it's not my place to interfere with other girls work. As Sir Robert Bryson Hall II says, 'I don't fuck with nobody'.
MSOG, just googled it! Multiple Shots on Goal lol ;D
Haha, yes indeed GF. If she did only have 1, that was very dirty pool on her part *tsks*.
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And why do guys think it is ok to pull out, go down on you (distraction theory) whilst wanking themselves furiously to get hard again? I have to gently reprimand them that they have now compromised the condom, before getting up to change it.
A real waste of a 'rubber-alternative' and mood killer.
I feel like their Mum if I have to warn them: "Not to touch now!" with every condom :FF
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I went through 8 in an hour booking recently, and we never even managed sex.
He kept losing his wood, or then touching the condom trying to get himself hard again.
But I buy them in bulk and they work out at 7p each, so am really not overly fussed about excessive condom usage. I used to buy condoms from supermarkets or chemists before I became more savvy, and at almost £1 each, I would have been more pissed if someone went through 8 in an hour.
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Sheesh! Where are you folks getting these condoms from for 7p etc per. ??!
I usually get skins or durex, but it’s typically £1+ per. Ugh.
However yes id never really considered that there are sessions where i don’t use any condoms at all and I guess perhaps it does even itself out ?? I’ll never know.
It’s just infuriating at the time, when someone works their way happily through maybe half a dozen condoms without querying if it’s decent/indecent of them to do so.
I think I just found it cheeky from the last few who have done this, I know it’s my role to supply the tools to get the job done, but if it were me I’d at least ask if it were okay to reach for the third...fourth...fifth packet. Ffs :FF
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Sheesh! Where are you folks getting these condoms from for 7p etc per. ??!
I usually get skins or durex, but it’s typically £1+ per. Ugh.
A box of 144 Skyns (the non latex ones) is £43 for a box at the Freedoms shop, and they're some of the most expensive at slightly under 30p each. If memory serves the ordinary Mates Natural ones which I'd be buying if I wasn't latex sensitive are about 16 quid for the same size box.
If you do a search for 'condoms' or even 'Freedoms' there's a whole.thread somewhere :)
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Sheesh! Where are you folks getting these condoms from for 7p etc per. ??!
I usually get skins or durex, but it’s typically £1+ per. Ugh.
However yes id never really considered that there are sessions where i don’t use any condoms at all and I guess perhaps it does even itself out ?? I’ll never know.
It’s just infuriating at the time, when someone works their way happily through maybe half a dozen condoms without querying if it’s decent/indecent of them to do so.
I think I just found it cheeky from the last few who have done this, I know it’s my role to supply the tools to get the job done, but if it were me I’d at least ask if it were okay to reach for the third...fourth...fifth packet. Ffs :FF
THANK YOU!! I immediately went to Amazon & they're no cheaper there than at Walmart. About $15 for a 36 pak at WM so...I dunno (bc I can't do math), about $2.25 per? I think? No, $2.40, just used the calculator lol, but that ain't cheap. Am I missing out on some secret Brit Amazon condom special or something? Jeez Louise😮.
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A box of 144 Skyns (the non latex ones) is £43 for a box at the Freedoms shop, and they're some of the most expensive at slightly under 30p each. If memory serves the ordinary Mates Natural ones which I'd be buying if I wasn't latex sensitive are about 16 quid for the same size box.
If you do a search for 'condoms' or even 'Freedoms' there's a whole.thread somewhere :)
Thanks!! Yeah I’ve just had a google for bulk packs too, (why did I never look before?!) - looks like there’s some decent deals about :) will make me feel less annoyed about clients who get through so many, however the cheek of it will still tick me off I’m sure :-X
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That thread I mentioned will be just under this one now, aince I've merged it with a similar post :)
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Sheesh! Where are you folks getting these condoms from for 7p etc per. ??!
I usually get skins or durex, but it’s typically £1+ per. Ugh.
However yes id never really considered that there are sessions where i don’t use any condoms at all and I guess perhaps it does even itself out ?? I’ll never know.
It’s just infuriating at the time, when someone works their way happily through maybe half a dozen condoms without querying if it’s decent/indecent of them to do so.
I think I just found it cheeky from the last few who have done this, I know it’s my role to supply the tools to get the job done, but if it were me I’d at least ask if it were okay to reach for the third...fourth...fifth packet. Ffs :FF
Pasante ribbed - £10 for 144
A bit more expensive for the trim and king size, but still cheap
Amazon.
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THANK YOU!! I immediately went to Amazon & they're no cheaper there than at Walmart. About $15 for a 36 pak at WM so...I dunno (bc I can't do math), about $2.25 per? I think? No, $2.40, just used the calculator lol, but that ain't cheap. Am I missing out on some secret Brit Amazon condom special or something? Jeez Louise😮.
That's $0.42 each
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That's $0.42 each
Told you I couldn't do math!!!😆