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xprincesspx

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liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« on: 03 May 2012, 09:40:39 pm »
quick question here ladies  ???

Has anyone started liking there client in MORE than a client way  ???

I think i am  :FF obviosly i would NEVER EVER  mention it to him or act any different and spose its enevitable in this job  :'(

any info would be much appreciated xxx
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Re: liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« Reply #1 on: 03 May 2012, 09:50:06 pm »
I wrote an essay about this in a thread a little while ago...so, yes, from me. So I know how you must be feeling.
Thankfully for me, it proved to be an isolated incident, and I pray I never start to fall for another client again. I?ve heard some views that falling for a client is possibly one of the worst things a WG can do and there are very few happy endings.
Good luck!

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« Reply #2 on: 03 May 2012, 09:52:03 pm »
yes , I hold my hand up here in the corner !!! you just cant help the chemistry at all , can you ?....
It can be fabulous but sometimes problematic emotionally.pschologically
I had that with 2 clients and unfortunatly got carried away, for me it was a lesson learnt about setting boundries too.
I guess they had issues too, like feelings they didnt expect and getting carried away with a woman who was not just sleeping with them! thats the main reasons it didnt work out. they couldnt deal with it. they were at different times in my escorting not the same time!!!!
Ruby x

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Re: liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« Reply #3 on: 03 May 2012, 09:56:25 pm »
thanks girlies,

helps to know im not alone, He is so lovely like genuinely lovely and i know he feels the same ( or at least he thinks he feels like that ) and i feel terrible taking his money, I know its a job at the end of the day and were there to make money but im not in the habit of exploiting someones feelings or hurting anyone x think im going to have to hit this one on the hea and stop seeing him which is sad :(

what did you girls do? did you stop seeing the client?

Thanks,
Poppy x
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divine_madonna

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« Reply #4 on: 03 May 2012, 10:05:26 pm »
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what did you girls do? did you stop seeing the client?

Yes. But each to their own. Different people obviously handle things differently. I forced myself to add his number on the blocked list on my Blackberry because I knew that I wouldn?t have the willpower to resist him (I know! how lame!) I don?t know whether he has tried to call again or not but hey ho...

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Re: liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« Reply #5 on: 03 May 2012, 10:11:54 pm »
Of course it happens (unfortunately once in a blue moon ha-ha). When I was young and silly I would get carried away like a schoolgirl  hoping he asked me out. Very few times they did have a genuine interest in my "real persona" and -actually- asked me out for lunch (no sexual expectations)  but most times they were only interested in fucking for free "Ana the vixen" because when clients notice you have a crush on them they'll take advantage (they're not stupid). So you have to take these "clients crushes" with a huuge pinch of salt and be very careful not to show them your real feelings as you'll be putting yourself in a very vulnerable position and blurring the boundaries. Unless you don't give a sh#@$t and just want to get involved with the guy and enjoy some great sex (which is fun) but be warned that once the passion wears out and he goes for "greener pastures" you might feel used and totally regret all that free sex he got. So my advise is: enjoy the crush while you can but never ever stop charging him (repeat to yourself like a mantra).
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« Reply #6 on: 03 May 2012, 10:13:11 pm »
I have a client who i am really turned on by not sure it is the same thing as falling for him.
He is so not the sort of guy i would notice outside of work, but i find he really does it for me, I see him fornightly and really look forward to it. There is definitely chemistry he says things like i am the sexiest woman he knows and how he dreams about our meetings, and yes i know guys say these things but i think he is really sincere which worries me a bit.He also said if i left the area he would have to travel to see me. I wonder if the fact i am really turned on by him physically is clouding my judgement about  his feelings and how i should be dealing with them ?
And Still I Rise, Maya Angelou a real inspiration x

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« Reply #7 on: 03 May 2012, 10:17:58 pm »
 :-[ I met husband doing this. I stopped for a while and now I am back and he knows. I know he doesn't like it. But he respect my decision.
Now I have a more professional approach with my clients ::)

But I don't regret marrying him as he knows about it and will never judge me.

Just be careful, not everyone is open mind and respectful.
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Re: liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« Reply #8 on: 03 May 2012, 10:26:43 pm »
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  I met husband doing this. I stopped for a while and now I am back and he knows. I know he doesn't like it. But he respect my decision.
Now I have a more professional approach with my clients

But I don't regret marrying him as he knows about it and will never judge me.

Just be careful, not everyone is open mind and respectful.
L

I  know that happy endings like yours do exist in the industry (you are an example leticia) but for every "happy ending story" I must have heard 20 heart wrenching ones.

You can give me "bitter prossie of the year award" now. ;D
"Reality is the name we give to our disappointments"

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« Reply #9 on: 03 May 2012, 10:40:21 pm »
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  I met husband doing this. I stopped for a while and now I am back and he knows. I know he doesn't like it. But he respect my decision.
Now I have a more professional approach with my clients

But I don't regret marrying him as he knows about it and will never judge me.

Just be careful, not everyone is open mind and respectful.
L

I  know that happy endings like yours do exist in the industry (you are an example leticia) but for every "happy ending story" I must have heard 20 heart wrenching ones.

You can give me "bitter prossie of the year award" now. ;D

Can I make it 21?

An awful lot of guys (although I know not all) pay-as-you-go because they like novelty, different girls, different days for as long as they want with no emotional obligations - and they will continue
to like novelty whether you charge them or not, if you hear me  ;)


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Re: liking a client TOO MUCH !!!
« Reply #10 on: 03 May 2012, 10:51:59 pm »
P.S I don't think your exploiting him or his feelings anymore than a pub is exploiting someone who wants a beer, or a hairdresser exploits someone who wants shorter hair  ;)


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« Reply #11 on: 03 May 2012, 11:38:18 pm »
Yeah I am lucky :)

I know other girls that tried to that and lost a client and suffered!
I just wanted to say that it is possible, i am sure I am not the only one with an happy end.

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TeenKylie

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« Reply #12 on: 04 May 2012, 02:04:40 am »
No never felt that way. I like to keep things very separate.

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« Reply #13 on: 04 May 2012, 04:40:59 am »
YOur not alone....I went off and lived with two of them ( at different points in my life)...would avoid like the plague if I felt it happening again but you just cant stop that rollercoaster sometimes

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« Reply #14 on: 04 May 2012, 09:43:31 am »
I like Leticia met my partner doing this, was seeing him for about 5 years and really liked him but kept it all to myself (We in that time never had intercourse)...i had to go to Italy for 4 days and asked him if he would like to come along, separate suites etc.

Nothing happened there but about a month later we were out having a drink and ended up staying in a hotel that night....the rest is history.

No, i wouldn't recommend it as a rule but yes sometimes things just do work out.

Annee x