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TheLittleMatchGirl

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leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« on: 17 September 2013, 10:56:00 am »
Those of you who only offer ow (or anyone with an opinion to my question) and cant make it clear prior to booking that this is the case (im with an agency who obvs for legal reasons cant discuss what a girl does or doesn't do) do you think its reasonable for a client whose booked your time to come in, pay start kissing but flounce of in a huff anfd cancel when you state you use protection for oral?
They always irritate me when theyre like oh you dont offer full gfe? These are usually 30min incalls.
Am I just being irritable or would it piss anyone else off?
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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #1 on: 17 September 2013, 11:12:37 am »
No I don't think you're being unreasonable, I'd be miffed too. But to be fair to the clients, if the agency is going to be all 'cloak and dagger' when it comes to discussing services, you have to expect at least one or two to walk when they discover what they're looking for isn't on offer. What I don't get is why anybody would leave the house without first double checking what they'll be getting?  ???

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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #2 on: 17 September 2013, 11:35:14 am »
I agree - I'd be pissed off but not at the punter, although if a particular service was that important to him I wouldn't have booked somebody who hadn't confirmed they offered it either. Your agency have no reason to be 'cloak and dagger' as nothing they say or don't say alters the fact that they're breaking the law by taking payment for arranging meetings between prostitutes and punters. It's a bit late to be coy.

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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #3 on: 17 September 2013, 12:41:01 pm »
I get the feeling a lot of them are calling my bluff (doing the but im clean routine) and then having to follow through.

I always thought agencies did that to cover themselves legally as then they're "simply selling time/introductions" and not services ie prostitution?
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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #4 on: 17 September 2013, 12:48:06 pm »
No, the agencies are controlling prostitution for gain, which is against the law and nothing they say can alter that fact when all anybody has to do to prove otherwise is book (actually they don't even have to do that; a quick read of some reviews would be plenty). Having a cutesy disclaimer on their site makes no more difference to the police then putting a sign on the outside of a crack den saying 'This Is Not A Crack Den'.

None of this matters to you, since you're employing them perfectly legally, but when their daftness starts affecting your bookings and potentially your reputation, it really ought to be addressed.

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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #5 on: 17 September 2013, 12:58:38 pm »
Those of you who only offer ow (or anyone with an opinion to my question) and cant make it clear prior to booking that this is the case (im with an agency who obvs for legal reasons cant discuss what a girl does or doesn't do) do you think its reasonable for a client whose booked your time to come in, pay start kissing but flounce of in a huff anfd cancel when you state you use protection for oral?
They always irritate me when theyre like oh you dont offer full gfe? These are usually 30min incalls.
Am I just being irritable or would it piss anyone else off?

Ive never had anyone walk out and I don't work for an agency BUT I get seriously pissed off when they turn up expecting OWO as starndard. My profile is idiot proof, no OWO listed on my profile, A description of what I offer and in my FAQ's I gave my reasons for opting out with the likes of OWO, CIM etc AND I always ask on the phone if they have read and accepted my profile and what I offer.

Once they ask/expect OWO then having to be told NO I don't advertise or provide that service, the whole atmosphere changes and I find the mood extremely awkward so its a case of just getting the booking over and done with, I hate bookings like that and no doubt the client will walk away thinking I am a shite escort when in fact, he's a shite client with nothing but ignorance expecting certain services without checking first.

I hate how so many men ASSUME X,Y & Z is available as we're all escorts at the end of the day.

And I wouldn't say a full GFE means OWO either. OWO means OWO not full GFE.

Its The Agency's fault for not being clear and its HIS fault for not being clear aswell.

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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #6 on: 17 September 2013, 01:12:51 pm »
I always offer OW and it states this on my site/profile. However I have never had anyone leave over it! If anyone asks for OWO (and it is rare) I smile and tell them to trust me, it will still blow their mind. When I demonstrate what I mean they are often more than happy.

I find the trick is don't be negative about these requests, think like a sales person, handle the objection and turn it into a positive.  :)

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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #7 on: 17 September 2013, 01:23:22 pm »
Sarahbelle- I do that. Some are fine, others not so much

Amy-thankyou i had no idea (the agency fed me that info)

Pinkprincess- clients can be bloody rude and think we're not good at our jobs but theyre making it awkward.  I agree, what the hells a full, half or any gfe anyway. Unless its some kinky booking we're having sex with them pleasing them as best we can..not much more to it
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Re: leaving bcos you dont offer full gfe in 30mins
« Reply #8 on: 17 September 2013, 07:06:14 pm »
Sarahbelle- I do that. Some are fine, others not so much

Amy-thankyou i had no idea (the agency fed me that info)

Pinkprincess- clients can be bloody rude and think we're not good at our jobs but theyre making it awkward.  I agree, what the hells a full, half or any gfe anyway. Unless its some kinky booking we're having sex with them pleasing them as best we can..not much more to it

Some people do believe discussing services makes everything illegal, agencies and indies. It doesn't alter anything, you're selling sex, they're bringing together punter and prostitute. Same goes for the time and companionship disclaimer, which you don't need because it's legal to buy and sell sex in the UK. It's not however legal to control someone's prostitution(which is what arranging bookings is doing).