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cleojones

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Lazy clients
« on: 22 June 2024, 09:24:46 pm »
Just why do some men insist on u visiting them? I bet he makes 30 min commute to work, 30 min to buy essential stuff, 30 min to go to gym but he is not going to make 30 mins to see me despite claims to be dying to do that. ??? Isnt that strange?

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #1 on: 22 June 2024, 11:22:01 pm »
You're asking why some clients book outcalls ???

Sophine88

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #2 on: 23 June 2024, 12:13:40 am »
Lots of clients visiting London on business or from other areas of the UK that haven’t been to London many times are often the types who call me for outcalls. London can be a dangerous city! I ended up going to a really rough area of London once that I didn’t know was rough to buy something off gumtree and got robbed and spat on by a man when I was there.

A lot of them already have anxiety about visiting escorts incase it goes tits up or they’re part of some sting operation etc now imagine trying to book and travel to an escort in a city you aren’t really familiar with it’s double the hassle so I guess it’s just more convenient for those types of clients to book for an outcall to save them all that conundrum.

Why some local men who book outcalls could be for similar reasons. They might have visited an escort for an incall before and had a bad experience and feel safer having them come to them now. Some men have bad experiences on incalls there’s a lot of scams going around. I know this Indian guy who booked a escort once and when he walked upstairs to get to the flat two men were waiting for him and stole his laptop from his bag and got him to transfer over a thousand pounds from his online banking. Some of them might be scared of something like that happening.

Other reasons is they might have had other bad experiences at an escorts flat before some escorts live with multiple other girls in the house some clients aren’t comfortable with that.

FayeInLondon

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #3 on: 23 June 2024, 11:29:37 am »
No, nothing strange about it. Some guys want to be in the comfort of their own home or hotel room. Outcalls you can charge more money for as well as a taxi fee, as it’s taking more time out of your day. Is the client lazy or are you? At the end of the day this is how you’re making money. Unless you have a clear policy on your website / profile that you don’t do outcalls, I don’t think this is anything to complain about.

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #4 on: 23 June 2024, 12:30:01 pm »
No, nothing strange about it. Some guys want to be in the comfort of their own home or hotel room. Outcalls you can charge more money for as well as a taxi fee, as it’s taking more time out of your day. Is the client lazy or are you? At the end of the day this is how you’re making money. Unless you have a clear policy on your website / profile that you don’t do outcalls, I don’t think this is anything to complain about.

This ^^

It's a bit like this,
Sometimes I cook for myself  ;)
Other times I go to a restaurant
And sometimes I order in via uber eats/Justeat

I'm sure punters are making the same choices  ;D

cleojones

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #5 on: 21 July 2024, 09:38:04 pm »
You're asking why some clients book outcalls ???
Why they insist. I swear some of them make it as if visiting me would kill them,

SAAFE

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #6 on: 21 July 2024, 11:07:59 pm »
Do you mean you only offer incalls but punters are asking for outcalls?

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #7 on: 22 July 2024, 10:14:54 am »
For the same reason I order a delivery rather than collection on a takeaway or get my shopping delivered. Because I weigh the amount of time and effort of going somewhere against the contents of my bank balance and decide if convenience is worth the additional cost.

I am a self confessed lazy bish though and much prefer offering incalls from home (and getting stuff delivered to my door!)

There are many, many reasons a client might want an outcall, maybe they don't have access to a car, maybe they're not local and don't know the area, maybe they have mobility issues or anxiety about leaving the house, maybe they're high, drunk or hungover, maybe they have time constraints and can't afford the travel time both ways or maybe they're as lazy as I am and just want the convenience of being able to relax once the sessions over.

If you don't like outcalls either remove them from your profile or charge an extortionate rate for them, take a hefty deposit and have stringent vetting in place. The deposit should be enough to cover all transport costs both ways + enough that if he cancels you'll have money in your pocket. The rate should be enough that you can put on a big smile and provide a great service even if you've travelled hours through less than ideal conditions.

If you do those things and guys still hassle you for an outcall at a lower rate, then block them and come have a moan about them in the "How not to book an escort" topic.


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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #8 on: 22 July 2024, 01:08:44 pm »
It's their preference and works well for some Escorts including myself, I was mostly incall changing to mostly outcall was very interesting does come with some benefits for some.

Just depends but to call those who like outcalls lazy is unfair.

Jessiegirl

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #9 on: 23 July 2024, 04:25:52 pm »
I wouldn't say it's lazy. Some might be staying in a hotel on business and might not know the area so well. Some might want a drink and don't want to drive. Some find it exciting us visiting them in a hotel or home. All sorts of reasons really.

I used to have a rich client who enjoyed having a couple of young women as company during dinner and drinks.

Anonandon

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #10 on: 29 July 2024, 05:49:20 am »
All these precious darlings want treated like the kings that they are (not) effing hate them all

amy

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #11 on: 29 July 2024, 01:47:13 pm »
All these precious darlings want treated like the kings that they are (not) effing hate them all

From what I can tell (and it isn't that clear) the OP is complaining about punters booking a paid service that she is advertising - it's hardly the moon on a stick, is it?

Peggy

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Re: Lazy clients
« Reply #12 on: 08 August 2024, 09:38:06 pm »
Never do outcalls unless its to a regular staying at a posh hotel and the fee is suitably large!