In my experience, men who are on sugar sites are the worst. You may find a legit one but they are 1 in 10000. Men on there are actual punters who don't want to pay the full price to an escort and are looking for naive, desperate girls who are too scared to go full on into escorting. I found several men on sugar sites who have been blacklisted by escorts for several things including violence, outing, non-payment/scamming, rape etc.
I was on SD sites when I was in my early 20s, you couldn't pay me to do it again now that I have more experience. Yes, escorting is hard but the sugar game is 100x harder. I was so you and was taken advantage of.