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K2904

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Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« on: 15 July 2024, 03:57:09 pm »
Hi all

So I gave up escorting about a year ago and i am not looking to go back to it. I am doing web camming atm but the income is low atm and inconsistent. So i wanted to look for extra income within the industry- i been on secret benefits etc websites but the guys are hard to deal on there, always want things too quickly without making a payment etc just so hard to budge! 🤦🏽‍♀️

Do any of you know of places where guys are more likely to fall into an arrangement kind of thing and are serious about payments etc?

Thanks x

Sd25

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #1 on: 15 July 2024, 05:23:29 pm »
I quit escorting over a year ago but I’m having to go back now due to the same reasonings tried cam and SD websites however nothing stuck and seem more effort than they are worth , I did try consistently for a good 8 months and nothing… no advice to give but it does seem to be hard work trying to make money from those things if your not well known established etc x

Love.Sex.Dreams

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #2 on: 21 July 2024, 02:06:55 pm »
In my experience, men who are on sugar sites are the worst. You may find a legit one but they are 1 in 10000. Men on there are actual punters who don't want to pay the full price to an escort and are looking for naive, desperate girls who are too scared to go full on into escorting. I found several men on sugar sites who have been blacklisted by escorts for several things including violence, outing, non-payment/scamming, rape etc.

I was on SD sites when I was in my early 20s, you couldn't pay me to do it again now that I have more experience. Yes, escorting is hard but the sugar game is 100x harder. I was so you and was taken advantage of.

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #3 on: 22 July 2024, 10:27:35 am »
I concur with all the above, I tried sugaring and it has all the downsides of escorting with non of the upsides.

I found it to be as bad, if not worse in terms of profile management and onsite messaging as you're not allowed to be too sexual but that's all most men on there want so you can't discuss stuff openly. They're still as pushy and flakey as escorting clients because as Love.Sex.Dreams says, they are escorting clients just looking for cheaper rates from naive women. You can't state a rate of pay with them even by text or whatsapp as if they don't like it they can report you to the site and have you removed. They don't do deposits or even transport costs and expect video calls, endless chatting (often sexual to prove you're openminded) and even a dinner date "to make sure you click" before they hand over any form of payment... which might not always be cash but rather a gift of (potentially knock off) designer clothing, shoes or accessories or even "mentoring"

I've had 2 dates from sugaring sites and both pushed for sex without payment trusting I would be too naive or compliant to stand my ground on money upfront.

I would imagine there will be sites or reddit groups for sugarbabies, they may be able to offer more helpful advice because all I can say is "don't put yourself through it"

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #4 on: 22 July 2024, 11:15:12 am »
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They all just wanna bypass the system and see if they can get a bargain and kid themselves they are Sugar daddies and not punters.
« Last Edit: 22 July 2024, 02:55:31 pm by SAAFE »

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #5 on: 22 July 2024, 12:33:16 pm »
I never did sugar sites but most women I have met have
gone from sugar baby to escort not the other way round. Probably due to the reasons given in the above posts.
« Last Edit: 22 July 2024, 12:36:12 pm by lora »

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #6 on: 22 July 2024, 02:41:01 pm »
I tried a sugar daddy site and was offered monthly fees all of them wanted bareback. So I left and never went back. Would make me feel sick doing bareback with someone I wasn’t attracted to.

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #7 on: 22 July 2024, 10:55:21 pm »
I tried a sugar daddy site and was offered monthly fees all of them wanted bareback. So I left and never went back. Would make me feel sick doing bareback with someone I wasn’t attracted to.

When I was on SA the guys always wanted to move away from messaging on the site to WhatsApp. Then they usually ask for ppm only and then come the usual questions about bareback. It was a total waste of my time and I’d never use an arrangement site again.

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #8 on: 23 July 2024, 12:03:44 pm »
The only decent sugaring arrangements I've had have been with guys that were clients and then moved to longer term/regular payments. Guys on sugaring sites are THE WORST! They want the constant emotional/sexual labour but are so cheap.

I say go back ot escorting and move to a regular payment from then, not the other way around.

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Re: Where do you meet guys that are ok with arrangments?
« Reply #9 on: 08 August 2024, 09:41:18 pm »
I actually think Tinder/Feeld or Fetlife are better for those arrangements. PM me for more info,x