I'm not that keen on outcalls so always feel more comfortable doing them quite early with lots of notice. Last Tuesday, a guy wanted an hour's outcall to his home. He phoned at 8.30pm so I said it would take me an hour to get there and I'm not ready to leave straight away so I would have to check trains. He then offered double my outcall rate as it was quite late which would've been ?300, so I said no I will leave it as usually those are TWs. He then phoned on Saturday in good time to book again, I did all the checks and went and it was really good. I got ?20 tip but was gutted that I hadn't gone on Tuesday after all for ?300.
Don't be!
You followed your instinct and erred on the side of safety.
Which is always the best way. And as you later found, a job turned down
or unable to be booked for whatever reason, often comes back.
If someone is attracted to you enough to pick up the phone and
be prepared to pay

, then that attraction does not evaporate
just because you don't see them on that occasion.
Of course the vast majority of enquiries rejected are for the
right reason and this never changes and you never agree to see them, ever.
Occasionally, a circumstance may alter {like in your case where
they subsequently requested an earlier meeting} and a meeting
becomes acceptable to you.
I never regret the rejected meetings because my reasons would have
been sound at the time (often gut instinct), and potentially saved my life.
It's not the missed

but the missed potential bad stuff, that matters.
Hi Rose. This is my experience with late night enquiries.
There are more potentially drunk/drugged up clients. And people asking you to supply / use
drugs with them. Flip side being that you get people who do shift work, who are often totally
lovely. And far fewer escorts work unsocial hours, so more potential work. Oh, late at night,
a much higher % of phone calls are people looking for free phone sex....
I'm more apprehensive when it gets dark, which is what 4pm in the winters.
Rigorous safety vetting is essential (as it is for all meetings any time of the day).
If you're not comfortable working after any particular time,
then don't do it. The anxiety outweighs the money. IMO.