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Anna-Bee

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Knowing a client outside of the booking
« on: 08 July 2013, 05:46:43 pm »
okay sorry If this topic has been posted but It really freaked me out. Went for a two hour outcall booking at a residence this weekend and when he opened the door I was very happy to see the client was bloody gorgeous ;D. He paused and smiled and let me in. Got down to business and after a great booking there was still some time on the clock so I stayed for a chat. He then told me that he knows me!  :o he said he didn't know my name but did some freelance work for the place I work in and we had met briefly before. He has a fiancee and obviously was very clear that he would not say a word to anybody and found the idea of bumping into me and maybe even being introduced and having to pretend we don't know eachother is a turn on. I have to say I genuinely believe he won't say anything ever but I am now terrified I see him at work and even though he wont be there long -and I know this is COMPLETELY unprofessional- But I found him on facebook and blocked him incase he had the same idea (obviously he only knows my escort name ) but we have over 15 mutual friends ( one of which I dated for a while and a few others that I work with ) and the whole thing has knocked me for six. Any advice or same thing happened to anyone?? Should I not accept bookings from him in the future?

Anna xx
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sammy s

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Re: Knowing a client outside of the booking
« Reply #1 on: 08 July 2013, 06:32:55 pm »
A similar situation happened to me and I saw the guy for a few bookings but I constantly felt on edge and paranoid that he was going to out me (he also had a fianc?e and seemed like a lovely genuine guy but I still couldn't shake the thoughts out of my head). He knew my sister and several close friends (none who know what I do) and I was worried he might be drunk one night and let my secret slip to one of them.
I ended up telling him I couldn't see him anymore and he was fine about it. It's a shame but the stress wasn't worth it for me.

strawberry

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Re: Knowing a client outside of the booking
« Reply #2 on: 08 July 2013, 10:09:45 pm »
So long as you have been discrete, not nosied into stuff, block and forget that's fine. Facebook can suggest people who are vaguely linked to you and you've now stopped this from either end making it a whole lot simpler for both of you. Sometimes guys themselves don't see the problem with mixing real-life and private this way, but it can be very dangerous for all concerned.