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annee

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Kissing
« on: 11 April 2012, 10:55:30 am »
Hi Ladies,

Just having read a thread on kissing i am sooo pleased i refuse to kiss !

Does anyone else refuse to kiss ?

I cannot and will never be able to have a client stick his tongue in my mouth, yes, i can give oral without (at my discretion) but cannot french kiss.

I am sure i must lose business not offering that gfe but I'm so comfortable in my work and refuse to do anything I'm not comfortable with.

How do ladies get out of a situation when they advertise they kiss and then Mr Tombstone mouth walks in, halitosis mouth, bad teeth etc...do the men get offended if you then refuse ?

Would love to know.

Annee x

MISS RUBY

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #1 on: 11 April 2012, 11:09:08 am »
If they are good looking i kiss but if they posess a beard of any length  or moustache its a   *no* and i tell them so!!!!

pussycat

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #2 on: 11 April 2012, 11:15:03 am »
I am very quick to refuse to kiss if they have rank teeth and breath. I firstly try to avoid it by going 'down there', and then hoping that they don't attempt to kiss, but if they do then I quote medical facts at the about germs exchanged during kissing (if they question me as to why I wont kiss) how the mouth is the second dirtiest place in the body (first being your nose!), etc, then hope they get the message. Sometimes I've had to be quite brutally honest, maybe to soften the blow just strike up a conversation about when/if the last time they've been to a dentist. If they've been arsy with me I've gone on about how us Brits could learn a lot form the Americans when it comes to oral hygiene! It's a tricky one, and it really depends on the individual client as to how you approach it. Never say 'sorry' for not being able to kiss them if it's their fault that they've turned up with a skanky mouth, sorry is an admission of guilt, and you're not the guilty one here! Just tell them in a direct matter of fact kind of way, then quickly move on.

I used to never French kiss, but I did kiss, and so many clients would make remarks about how I do owo and cim, I'd think bugger off I can do what I like! Kissing feels a lot more intimate than the other things we do, and only us escorts seem to understand that! X
« Last Edit: 11 April 2012, 11:16:43 am by pussycat »

annee

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #3 on: 11 April 2012, 12:36:31 pm »
I get that too...how can you give ow and not kiss....i too find kissing so intimate and would only do with my partner.

French kissing will always be on my not allowed list  :)

La-lique

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #4 on: 11 April 2012, 01:39:46 pm »
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« Last Edit: 09 October 2012, 01:55:58 pm by La-lique »

Lost in Translation

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #5 on: 13 April 2012, 01:26:56 pm »
It's one thing I have difficulty with. I do offer it at discretion. I think this may have something to do with being a dyke though. I'm used to girl lips and tounges and bloke ones just make think "URGE BLEH" however I'm will to give it a shot and see how I feel.

The first job I had long ago when I was escorting before, I licked this guys chest and got a big taste of man-skin and about half way into the lick I thought "OH UGH! That doesn't taste like female skin! BLARGH!" so I didn't do it again lol.

So there are some things that I find I'm perfectly able to do and find I'm utterly apathetic about, but there are a couple of things that I really can't, just cause they are dudes.

sadie x

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #6 on: 13 April 2012, 03:12:51 pm »
god i bet it makes the job really difficult for you!!
i find it really hard and sometimes dont like the job..
and i fancy men!!

EvaBeeva

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #7 on: 13 April 2012, 03:20:12 pm »
Actually I think your sexuality does have an impact.  I am a lot more 'vanilla' than most of the girls I work with (who are all straight), yet I am not at all like that at home. 
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LouLou37

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #8 on: 13 April 2012, 06:50:56 pm »
I stopped offering it ages ago cause I didn't like it, mainly the fact that a lot of men are really bad at kissing and leave stubble rash and bad breath etc everywhere and I'm a germophobe! x
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EvaBeeva

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #9 on: 13 April 2012, 11:05:31 pm »
and I'm a germophobe! x

It always amuses me that so many girls are germophobes, how do you cope?
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Re: Kissing
« Reply #10 on: 13 April 2012, 11:17:57 pm »
I didn't cope, I stopped offering kissing  :)
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TeenKylie

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #11 on: 13 April 2012, 11:41:43 pm »
Wow I had no idea so many of you had a problem with kissing clients! It's definitely a personal choice and Kissing especially French kissing for me is all part of it, but then I love offering a full GFE that's just what I enjoy. To me kissing is a nice way to get to know eachother and you get a vibe of what the other person might like ect. I don't mind what the client looks like. Saying that, bad breath or horrible not letting me come up for air type kissing and of course I will say something but personally I think oral sex is alot more intimate than kissing.
« Last Edit: 13 April 2012, 11:59:54 pm by TeenKylie »

sadie x

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #12 on: 14 April 2012, 09:50:11 am »
Ican see both sides to this..
i never used to kiss found it way to personal..
But then realised how much easier it is when doing it..
everything flows easier..but i will just turn my head away if there kissing,is awful!
i absolutly HATE recieving oral (once in blue moon liked it)
i think this is the most personal thing ever..i will do everything in my power to get out of it.
my nighmare is when i guy says,i want to lick you in 69..
i say no point blank now to 69 position.
WTF is that postion about?its rubbish..

BBW_Cora

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #13 on: 14 April 2012, 10:35:57 am »
I'm with Sadie on the 69 position, being a big girl it's not exactly comfortable nor practical.. either they get smothered and I can't reach them or the other way around.. but quite a few clients still ask for it, I don't see the point.  :-\
..Some would say I am selling my body but I know I am selling so much more than that..

Sahrbear

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Re: Kissing
« Reply #14 on: 14 April 2012, 02:28:36 pm »
I specialise in GFE so french kissing is my thing. Also I love to kiss and if I don't kiss them I don't really enjoy the rest!